Here is a simplified version of whats going on when you want to send information instantaneuosly: Lets say our entangled particles can have 4 conditions: A, B, C, and D.
Before the measurements the condition is unknown. Not only to us, the condition is undefined, as Bell proved.
Lets say you want to send me an "A". Now there is no way to influence your particle such that your measurement will result in an "A", the chance is 1:4, it could be any of A,B,C,D, you know it earliest when you have done your measurement.
Things become even more complicated on the receiving end. Because the correlated state for an "A" of your particle can be also an "A" for mine, but with a certain probability it could be a "D".
So if somebody manages to send information with this setup, I will bend my knee instantaneuosly.
And I seriously doubt that the state is behind this tricky happenings
regards
Andi