An ideal to be strived for, people generally call reality and preferably has been stripped of subjective projections.
very good question, let me try to make a good example (using a cliché )
You walk with your friend in the forest and he points down at the ground, asking: 'What's that?'
you might (ask for clarification first,) then proceed by saying:
- Those are two sticks. Do you know what I'm saying?
or
- That's two sticks in formation. The letter 'T' or 'L'. Are you familiar with them?
or
That's part of the forest. Did you mean that?
and so on... but any and all of the above are preferable (if reality is aimed for) than saying:
- Nothing is there. It's all a dream, but be careful it can turn into a hungry pink tiger with shorts and converse sneakers on.
- It's a letter 'O' or 'Q'
- I don't care. Stop asking 'silly' questions. I'm hungry.
Sure, I answer those questions very often with 101% success. Very simple, really. It's 42.
(jokingly, but respectfully, if interested, have a read of Douglas Adams - The hitchiker's guide to...)
- - - - now, seriously while still being transparent - - - -
This is the 'wrong question' in my humble, humble, very humble opinion.
because that suggests..
I was NOT isolated prior. But I WAS isolated. More specifically I experienced for decades the soul sucking phenomena called 'proximity isolation'.
i. e. - I chose myself various best friends in the past who when it suited them quite happily betrayed me not having qualms about their own morality. I can see all the red flags I had been waiving away, never once looking out properly for myself... and I also know where I learnt that, why I learnt new approaches and having chosen to reborn out of my ashes and seeking red-pills. Thanks, scientifc method, virtuous people shining a light on my way in the dark.
I am working for your statement to mirror my current reality but I am not complaining with what I already have, knowing what I know. It's like : No more wax-fruits for me, I rather have a small but real sandwich instead and look for ways to find more. If I wasn't, surely eating all that wax would turn me into a mindless doll.
If I was amongst people the opposite of virtuous? Yes, you could say that. Very much you could say that. In fact, that's why I love virtuous people so much. Involuntarily if I might add. Like my favourite colour. I love it, no two minds about it.
What's more important if I'd go back to my previous place/state/scenarios/situation. Or if I would revisit it temporarily because, well, a little bit is ok I suppose. It won't hurt if I..
Honesty, after realising what those situations/people/dynamics were, and how it affected me... no way. It's not possible. Pushing through a square object through a circular hole. Thank reason & evidence it can't be done. Just as an expanded mind can't be shrunk back without damaging it. For that I'm ever grateful.
I'm going to sound silly but I am being serious. Just wanted to warn you / clarify before you proceed.
My answer is:
Mainly by observing.
Not doing much really, other than existing having virtues internalised and living it.
Very important! Start with this. Forget everything else (don't think of an apple!) but seriously if you asked me to give you the top #1 best and ultimate guide to starting that's guaranteed to work for finding virtue(s).
Develop your ability to distinguish between the presence and absence of virtue. That's it. Make sure you got that right or you won't get any further.
Respectfully,
Barnsley
P.S : if you are thinking about asking How's that done? It might surprise you to realise that you are already doing it. Can you guess what do I mean?