This is a great talk.  It explores the attachment relationship and why parents that are deeply connected to their children parent from a natural "alpha" position w/o resorting to coercive tactics.  Highly recommended. 
  
If you happen to be a person who reactively resists ideas, suggestions or requests from others (unless a genuine relationship exists) this is highly relevant for you too as an adult. 
  
Counterwill #1 - http://v.youku.com/v_show/id_XNjc5MTMwMjMy.html?x 
  
                  #2 - http://v.youku.com/v_show/id_XNjc5MjIyNjY4.html?x 
  
Enjoy