MrOrange

http://wiki.ironchariots.org/index.php?title=Agnostic_atheism This is from the hosts of the atheist experience which you can find plenty of on YouTube. Very good show. Simply put, agnosticism is not even on the same spectrum as atheism because one deals with knowledge (agnosticism/gnosticism) while the other deals with belief (atheism/theism). So based on stef's views on the matter, he is what you would call a gnostic atheist which is to say that he doesn't believe in god because he knows no god exists. I don't even think its necessary to go that far...I'd consider myself an agnostic atheist. Someone who says they are an agnostic is only answering the question about their knowledge of god's existence. They aren't saying anything about their belief or disbelief.

True. I'm using it as an excuse even though it is a somewhat valid one. I do this in other areas of my life as well. I know that commitment is part of the equation too. I have a hard time with that. If you don't mind, what specifically do you attribute these problems to? Now that you're an adult, what are you doing about this to improve your situation?I'm curious too to hear what people have to say regarding how to instill a good work ethic in your child without force? I would imagine that being an example of a hard working person is one. What else? Is this something that can be overcome in time? Is there a book anyone can recommend?

Its kind depressing to have to admit because we largely want to think the best of ourselves but I would definitely say I lack ambition. My work ethic too is something i'm not proud of. I brought this up in therapy. My therapist then asked me about what my parents were like as far as pushing me to do well. In school, I always managed to do well but only because I didn't want to perform poorly...not with the intention to do great. My parents always said that as long as we were happy it doesn't really matter how good/bad we performed in school. So school performance wasn't emphasized at all. When I look back, I always appreciate this aspect of my how parents treated me, but my therapist thinks that them not pushing me to do better likely played a role in my current lack of ambition/work ethic. Are these things innate to certain individuals? Is it learned? Both? Is there a delicate balance in terms of pushing your kid, but not too hard? What does it say about me that I am more motivated by avoiding negative consequences rather than striving to do better for betterment's sake? Currently I work for a company which would not exist if not for the state. I've been there for over 5 years now. I was a minarchist at the time I started, but a struggling one after watching an "open letter to Ron Paul supporters". Once I determined that the dark side wasn't for me, I began to feel lousy about where I was working etc. But that hasn't resulted in me making an effort to find a different job. The reason is that I don't hate it enough. The pay isn't great either. It's like its just not bad enough for me to look for something else. I'm fine with contentment even though I'm capable of doing much better for myself. I also want to point out that I don't feel like a victim about my circumstance. I'm a grown ass man. I own these problems. I just wanted some insight. Some other things: I did go to college, but again, I did just good enough to get by (2.9 GPA). I went to school to become a therapist but after taking this job, I haven't made any attempts at starting my masters. Also, I'd have to re-take some classes to get my GPA up to a 3.5 if I want to get into a program. Pretty demotivating. The state of the economy and the impending collapse is another reason I am using to avoid going back to school or seek another job, but my BA alone isn't sufficient for many descent paying jobs anyway (human development and family studies). Lastly, I have a great support system of friends who know all of this and are always encouraging for me to get active. I didn't want to make it long, but I did want to leave enough detail to get good feedback. Thanks advance for your response(s).

You won't be left with very many friends if you rid yourself of these people. I know I wouldn't. For me, as long as they treat me with respect and are open to my thoughts on these topics, I will keep them as my friends. Many times they are sympathetic to my views and the conversations are open and civil. Plus most answer the "against me argument" to my satisfaction. You won't be left with very many friends if you rid yourself of these people. I know I wouldn't. For me, as long as they treat me with respect and are open to my thoughts on these topics, I will keep them as my friends. Many times they are sympathetic to my views and the conversations are open and civil. Plus most answer the "against me argument" to my satisfaction.