dmart1287

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Does anybody have any good information on parenting? From teaching, nurturing, any additional info that is beyond the MSM as I do not trust conventional thinking. Books to read or YouTube channels to subscribe to would be great.

I'm currently with a women for about 5 months, a lot of things have been going great. This woman has by far treated me better than any other women I've dated. She shares a similar culture and values as me, The only issue I have and I try to deal with is she has had multiple sex partners. When asked how many partners has she had? she gives me the answer of less than 10, leaves me a bit suspicious because I as a man know my number. The reason I like to know this information is due to potential genetic information that might be passed down from other partners. There are some things that worry me as well such as she comes from a single mother, and she does not care to have friendships, and she prefers animals over humans. Another thing is she is not the most curious women out there, she cares only about watching TV and movies, which are completely antithetical to me. As I see Movies and TV as usually propaganda machines that try to infect their venom on the population. I have had talks about kids and I think she would be a great mother as she agrees with not using force on children. Also, she has has been engaged twice and when asking why were they called off? her answer is "they fucked up". Which makes me suspicious and ask why did you choose such bad men then? I've come to the logical conclusion since she has had no father she has not had a male role model. The fathers duty would have been to protect her daughter from such toxic men. Her mother has not been able to make good decision on men, which is why it has translated to her picking bad men. I'm asking in this group are my concerns valid or am I just examining this situation a bit too critically?

We do share peaceful parenting in common I'm attracted to her. She is too me as well. She has none of the same interest as me learning and growing. And I want a best friend as Well as a lover Where we can talk for hours and I don't have that with her.

I have been saying my current g.f for a year she has stuck with me with tough times during this year. Recently I have been very distant from her I've been noticing we do not have much in common. Long silences and not much to talk about She's is in love with me as she said I'm her best b.f ever. As she has had a history of abuse and x b.f. who were terrible. In my Head I keep thinking there is someone out there who can be more like me. Who likes my interest just as much as me economics philosophy or should I Stay with someone who already cares for me dearly.

Anybody from Miami here to have a meetup?

Demos my mom and dad did talk but there relationship is far from a good relationship. I feel as my mom only wanted to stay with my dad just because he supported her she was lazy and never wants to work. My father also had insecurities as of never wanting my mom to work because men might want her. Also I'd like to point out there is a 25 year difference between my parents. As for my girlfriend I wouldn't say I'm smarter then her x b.f. but more understanding yes as when other b.f would brush her situations off I listen to her and I teach her new things share a lot of things I learn. If things are going fast yes they are totally going fast. I don't believe she has been open with her past b.f but she has been with me. That's why I think she appreciates me so much. I really love her tho. I don't know if I'm setting myself up for failure If the chance came for the other women to offer me sex I dont think I have the willpower to resist honestly.

We seem to have a good conversations that pretty much it about random things. I didn't just in case my inner wild side wants to have sex with her that might turn her off if I tell her. My dad was the deciplinary one in the parents roles. Didn't really talk to us much he was too focused on his business

Thank you ruben god Stefan has done every topic lol

Patrick thanks I just realized any time I felt bad as a kid I was never able to have a connection with my parents I was never able to communicate with them. So I held it all in So far she's been very open about her past with me she had an attempt at suicide to some issue with a past x. Also I know she has had a significant amount of verbal and physical abuse from her mom and dad. The verbal abuse continues til this day from her parents. She says that she's never been with a guy like me understanding and caring from what I've heard from her past b.f they have been kinda assholes but she still considered them smart. She doesn't have much friends only one to be exact. Well I have one girl that she is definely interested she is very pretty and funny. And she doesn't know I have g.f but don't know too much about childhood about her but she's very attractive. So my mind and body just wants to spring into action with her. The last paragraph was for demosthenes

She is great as in being there for me. She is a bit more pessimistic then me. She wants to be around me a lot I think that's normal since were still in the beginning stages of our relationship.

I'm thinking of entering therapy to figure out some issues I have. Is there anything I should look for when getting a therapist since this would be my first time

Well I mean honestly I'm a pretty positive person to be honest. She is the opposite pretty negative about life in general. I mean she always wanted us to be well taken care of as for material wise. So as a childhood I could say I was very spoiled I had all the latest toys and games. And she always gave us attention and didn't want to share us. Like I learned something from my x gf which was when she told me you make kids not for yourself but for the world. I feel like the attachment she had was not a healthy one for us or her. Especially trying to indoctrinate us with religion on a constant basis

My mother was always in my life she was the one mostly on top of us. In a way she was obsessed with us we were the only good thing she claims in her life. She has severe depression she only wanted us kids to be around her. She was also a stay at home wife. My father was not much involved because he was running his own business didn't have much time to be on top of us. I'd say she was always affectionate towards us so was my father too.

Hey guys I'm new to the FDR forum and im trying to find an answer to my own question. I have a current g.f. I've been going out with for 6 month. She is amazing I love everything about her. But every time I have a any women around that shows interest in me I just want to jump into action with this stranger. I really have to really control my urges. I don't know if this stems from my childhood that I had in which I was brought up Christian so I was meant to suppress my sexual side. My mother referred to almost all sexual things as a sin. That's why I spent most of my younger and teen years away from women now that I'm older and wiser I just want all women who show some interest and look decent to my standards. Even tho I love my current g.f