Hello, friends,
I totally subscribe to the ideas of a free and 100% voluntary society.
There is only one single thing that bothers me and I kind of cannot find a satisfactory answer to this question.
In a free society kids should have the same rights as everybody else. This means, they should be free to take decisions for themselves, even if they parents don't like those decisions.
So if a 13 year old kid for example wants to have sex with a 40 year old (which in my opinion would be rape), the parents do not agree.
How would a free society deal with such a problem?
1. On the one hand the kid has the right to make their own decisions and the parents are not allowed to force them. So manipulative pedofiles can influence the kids and get them into bed.
2. On the other hand the parents have the right to raise their children and if they feel the children are in danger, they should protect them. But abusive parents may find excuse for forcing their kids and hurting them, but pretending to excercise their parent rights for protection. In some extreme cases parents may beat or circumcise their kids, stating that it is "for their own good".
So how would a free society decide when it is acceptable to protect kids from their parents? How to decide principally and not case by case, what are the criteria for prevention of child abuse without hurting legitimate parenting?
Right now I have only one suggestion - austersizing. If parents are abusive, society can simply reject dealing with them in any form. Their life would become so much harder that they would fix their behavior and return to normal life.
But this would not be sufficient in all cases. In some cases children might even get killed. How can this be avoided in a free society?
Thanks in advance,
V