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My "to do list for habitual speaking error modifications" intentions are: be aware, self educate, institute mindfulness during communication and internal dialogue, and if found lacking do the necessary damage control as soon as possible.

sounds like you already know, just by your awareness of this it should subside. my intuition is that maybe you have some disassociation because it is uncomfortable. sometimes i have an issues with this, if i make a mistake I might say "we did this." inversely, if something good I might say "I did this." I can only speak for my self, but generally i think we all may do this to any uncertain degree.