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Wow that's great. Awesome. Anyway here's what I think: For most people, I think trying to get their parents to admit their abuse only gives the parents another opportunity to try and hummiliate the abused child (now an adult). I know this thread isn't about me but I know this to be the case for me and it probably was for you too. I tried just a little bit, like testing to see what kind of responses I would get and just like you, complete denial or " I was stressed". So I will make a list, with everything that they did to me. Things like being locked in the elevator and being yelled at for not growing fast enough, etc. And when the time comes, and I will be strong enough to be financially independent, I will go back for one last time, and tell them to sit down. Then I will read the list out loud to them, together with anything else that comes to my mind, without trying to get any apologies, (cause I know they won' t come anyway), no restitution (as if that were possible), nothing. Then I will end it, stating that we will never see eachother, and never talk to eachother, ever again. My revenge will not be violent, as you were to me. My revenge will be the fact that you will die alone. Ooops got a little carried away there, sorry, I know it's your thread and I don't want to make it about me but I felt the need to say this. We know they will never apologize, and if they do, it will be bullshit non-apologies. So if you can, cut the ties with no remorse.
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You look like Trinity from the Matrix. You are right, there's no going back. And that's the beauty of it. Once you've seen the truth you can't go back to seeing things the way you saw them before. Once you took the red pill, even if you want to go back, you'll still know the truth
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dxRCqhiPrjQ
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Differences between female and male inmates in prison
Alin replied to GOLDENICE's topic in General Messages
Were any of the women good looking? -
Because it reminds them of how sheepish and dumb they are?
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Squat toilets are scary Squatty potty gives you the squat position while keeping the safe, nice-looking western toilet
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Why am I drawn toward arguing w/ irrational people...
Alin replied to SamuelS's topic in Self Knowledge
If you argue with one of them, you've argued with pretty much all of them. The photocopier never stops -
"The desire to do harm to evil doers is not a vice" - Stefan Molyneux http://youtu.be/_HkokxPewLo?t=3m59s
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Beyonce has some of the worst lyrics ever, and I'm not even reffering to this particular song. Lyrics that are insulting to men, like "I can have another you in a minute" etc. And let's not forget how she just watched her man getting hit without even blinking.
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"Society loves child abuse. Society needs child abuse. Society IS child abuse. Otherwise it would be called philosophy" - Stefan Molyneux
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Is it More Annoying to Debate Religious People or Statists?
Alin replied to Wesley's topic in General Messages
" While religious people are fools at least they have pure intentions, and respectable goals." Haha Guess those holy wars, murders, inquisition and tortures were also coming from pure intentions and respectable goals. Someone who threatens me with eternal hell has anything but "respectable goals". -
Is it More Annoying to Debate Religious People or Statists?
Alin replied to Wesley's topic in General Messages
Religious people who debate are by far the most annoying and retarded creatures the world has ever seen Here's an actualy quote from one of them (and he was serious about it too) : "Obviously you're the one who hasn't done his homework, because you don't realize that religion can solve most of the problems, while reason and logic can't." -
Respect comes from one of two things: fear OR admiration. He sounds like a really shitty person, so his only option to get respect will be fear. So in a way, he's right: it's the only way an idiot like him will get respect. There's nothing to admire in abusive, child-beating retards. No respect for them.
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Abused children in adult bodies killing eachother. In other words, history as usual
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“When we wake up to the aliveness in ourselves, we often forget to wake up to the deadness in others. For a long time I thought I was rejoining the human race. […] It does not happen that you heal yourself to rejoin humanity. Like Nietzche’s superman, you heal yourself and surpass humanity. Because humanity is, as I talked about earlier in this show, inhumane” - Stefan Molyneux "To buid a skyscraper you must first DIG down. To go up you go down. First you build a base. The base, is the people around you." - Stefan Molyneux
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I also think you should call into the show. With the risk of being wrong I can say this: If you stay with this toxic, crazy bitch for the rest of your life, it's going to kill you. Remember what Stef said? "You become so battle hardened that you either get out and become something greater, or you die, like the others around you" Yes, the law is against you, you daughter needs you, everything is against you, but if you stay, it's suicide .
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My first intervention in a public abuse of children
Alin replied to Timur's topic in Peaceful Parenting
I dream that one day I will have your courage, and more- 8 replies
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"It's not social anxiety. It's simply being too stuffed full of horror and secrets, to be able to make any small talk." - Stefan Molyneux "There’s nothing lonelier than empty relationships. At least when you’re alone you can be yourself, but when you’re with empty relationships you can’t even be yourself. You can be real alone, or you can be a ghost with false friends. Pulse proximity is not intimacy, and it’s worse than no friends at all." - Stefan Molyneux
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I desperately need to get away from my abusive parents.
Alin replied to jester7707's topic in Self Knowledge
What? You got punched in the face and your mother is the stressed one? What a piece of shit. -
#EndMothersDay too. End both actually, if you really think about it, there's nothing to celebrate when 90% of the parents in this world are fucking idiots. They dont'deserve a day. Women beat their kids. #EndMothersDay
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" If you can’t share what’s important to you with the people around you then you have no relationship. It’s all just proximity, and turkey and sports and weather and bullshit." “The truth is not a sword to be drawn at all costs. You count your enemies, you count your opportunities, and sometimes you leave it in its scabbard.” "When you've had a truly tragic childhood, you will never know how cold-hearted the motherfuckers on this planet are, untill you opened your heart about your sad history in the company of the unempathetic muggles who never had many struggles."
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If you skim through their book, you will see how they advocate and even offer child abuse as a solution to "impose your authority" That's all you need to know. I originally thought "wow, I can't wait to read this amazing book" only to find this primitive ape-like shit about beating your children.