Christopher.R

Thank you, I am not sure of what else I can say except I appreciate the time you took to answer my question.

I just called the grandparents on my fathers side, they were abusive to him and his brothers through his childhood. He suffered from depression for years and had terrible emotional issues throughout his adult life. He was physically abusive with my mother and when he began to get abusive with my brothers and I, she left him. We saw him every other weekend for almost 10 years before he said he no longer wanted to see us. Five years after that he killed himself, when we were still hurting and had to go down to the funeral office to handle paperwork we saw my grandparents on his side for the last time. They didn't cry, they only complained about having to miss lunch. They continued to send us birthday and holiday cards for the years to come, but this year I called them and told them I never wanted to hear from them again becuase I was insulted that they could send cards to us, when they couldn't even show some emotion when their son died. I want to know if I was justified to do what I just did? Was there a better way?