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  1. As a Kiwi i wish to apologize for the way that local extremists, politicians and activists conspired to deny Stefan a venue
  2. Can we end the myth that just because you are born within a geographical location that resources in the same region are somehow magically yours? So primitive and so stupid. None of the vast resources of Africa belonged to the Africans because not only did they lack the MEANS to collect those resources but the WILL to.
  3. Where did this myth come from that Socrates wasn't real?
  4. The answer that there is a right choice in the trolley question is what makes it's valid question supporters so stupid and retarded. Clearly there is no right choice. Mostly because as anyone will tell you, the person pulling the lever does not know the people they would save, Hitler's or Samaritans? Were the 5 people tied up seeking to murder all life on earth and the other single person trying to save it? Was the single person dying of cancer? Claiming that there exists in this scenario a right answer/choice is extremely arrogant therefor, retarded.
  5. I can offer one tip.As the primary bread earner in my family with a wife who hates finances and reacts badly to adverse conditions, I am guilty of keeping our financial state from her and just instead work as much as I can to keep the lifestyle my family demands.Just last 2 days ago we had a fight (ok she fought, I ignored) when she wanted to go Immediately to our pony's paddock rather than wait another hour for me to finish coding.So my one small advice.Discuss finances calmly with your husband, it could be the reason why he is pulling long hours OR pulled long hours in the past and is now in a rut or habitual work.I hope you two can work it out.ok one more tip:Dump the kids for a long weekend on your in-laws and just the two of you get away someplace nice, strip the savings(if you have) and just GO. Like the islands, somewhere where you two can get drunk, free of responsibility and stress and just shag.Sex is a great bonder between male and females.
  6. Environmentalism is just another religion.-99% of all species that has lived, is extinct.-It is natural for species to go extinct due to the actions of another-It is natural for species to successfully spread, even through the actions of another third species.What matters is that life exists and exists in our form or a form beneficial to ourselves.
  7. You don't need a conscious to create.So your views fail at point 2.Lots of items are created without conscious, from fire to life, a brain is not required for life.
  8. I would suggest that whenever a female meets a new male, just assume that she is lying in order to protect herself or create an advantage for herselfThat is in this case, she wanted to see if your appearance (wealth + genetics) would engage her hind brain lust function.It didn't.So she lied about it being all about HER so as to not make you feel bad about it being all about YOU and therefor remove the chance that you react aggressively. ("Fuck you, you stuck up bitch judging me on my appearance")Move on.
  9. As a self-employed web-developer in New Zealand, I would say that web development has changed drastically in recent years and you should be wary entering into this field.The vast majority are no longer programmers, oh they may act or pretend that they are but the truth is, the vast majority of web companies these days hire machine operators not coders.Instead of knowing coding in HTML , PHP or .net.What they are far more often after is, people who can use CMS and frameworks with actual coding requirements reduced as much as possible. Literally just cut n paste.Web development for dummies and therefor low skill, low pay staff.(win win for the companies)A job that claims to require a web developer but mentions silverstripe or wordpress or zend or symphony or codeigniter (you can see the other part of the problem since there are so many types of 'machinery' that 'web developers' need to be able to operate) or CMS is not being fully honest with potential job takers.Standard practice now is for established companies to meet with their customers with a senior level manager who promises the customer the world, with a contract that charges $150 per hour signed, the senior manager passes the actual job to a college graduate on $25 an hour to create a website out of templates using Free Ware CMS tools with a minimum of custom artwork/graphics.
  10. Just ask for proof to their assertion that there is a rape culture.Who exactly promotes rape?So rape isn't a crime?
  11. If you wait long enough to have a debate on whether having children is our purpose in life, there will only be one view point expressed.Life is like a game of pass the parcel, when it is your turn with the parcel, take your time unwrapping the present but always understand that when you are ready, you must pass the parcel along to the next generation so that they to, can have their fun.
  12. My brief look into the situation didn't find homophobia.What I found was fear of gay-activism.And as anyone knows in the west. Gay activists hold power way out of proportion to their numbers.Personally I am a fan of people loving each other regardless of sex or age or genetic relationship(e.: I am a man and I love my brothers). Nor do I care if people prefer their own genitals over the other sexes.But I do care when their views dilute the importance of kids have both a mum and a dad and a tradition designed to keep mum's and dad's together.Since gay activists promote their ideology using emotional blackmail and hind brain manipulation I have no issue with Russia responding in kind.(other than the fact that states including Russia even exist lol, but what I am saying is that the abuse of the state works both ways)
  13. He dumped his wife with a text message, scumbaggery in my book.
  14. Thank you for all the kind tips.I should of mentioned that I am only asking what I consider normal but vital things of my kids.-Cleanliness of themselves-Looking after the house, i.e: pick up toys once finished with them, put them away.-hold my hand when crossing the road (actually they never not do this, in fact they just automatically seek my hand) One of the new things I picked up from Stefan was not sweating the small stuff, let them make their own decisions (so that they don't run the risk of being vulnerable to abusive controlling relationships later in life) such as;-If you run you might fall and hurt yourself on the concrete-If you take that toy to school you may lose it-You don't have to wear a jacket but it is chillyetcWill update in a week or to of progress in case people are interested.
  15. Hi I confess that I am not fully convinced that smacking of children is an evil greater than not smacking of children, I was willing to give it the benefit of the doubt about 4 months ago. Firstly, phew what a relief! I love my kids, it just feels great to not believe that I have to use smacking to control their behaviour anymore! The pain it caused within myself no longer occurs (I'm not forgetting the pain it no longer causes them of course!) and for that reason alone it is a wonderful thing to no longer feel that I have to do it to them. YAY 2 issues have crept into my parenting which has led me to come here to ask for help. 1. Because I no longer back my 'requests' as a parent with violence, my children are taking longer and longer to respond to direction. This is ending up with me having to yell at them WAY more often. I HATE yelling at my kids, just hate it, never done it before, don't want to do it. Just that like kids should be, they have lots of fun, get excited, lots of great energy and given their ages (3 and 5) can zone out anything not right in front of their nose. How can I get my messages to reach my children in times like these? 2. I've become a coward, I am FAR more likely to avoid confrontation with my children and pass the buck to my wife now. (you deal with it cop outs) What has gone wrong inside of me? I've really enjoyed these last few months with my children and am feeling really reluctant to negatively engage with them. I've been like an druggie, only willing to live the good parts of parent child relationship. I know that partially this is due to conflict taking a LOT longer to resolve (as it should through communication) and now working longer harder hours leaving tired more often. What can turn my view around and ease the burden upon my wife? Please help
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