SgtSam

Good morning. The problem was that the other 2 are incredibly apathetic and are afraid of confrontation. Anyway, I finally moved all my stuff. I went in the morning and there were no one. I still have to pay my part of the water bill (around 100$) but they haven't contacted me for that and I think they wont. Joe deleted me and blocked me from Facebook today and that is an excellent thing. I've cut all contact with them.

Thank you very much thebeardslastcall, your post was very insightful.

Good morning everyone, this is going to be a somewhat long post. I used to live with 3 roommates. Let's call them: Joe, Michael and Tony. Joe has anger issue. He can not accept any criticism or feedback. You remind him that he left the light on in the bathroom, he takes it personal. He has a huge ego and thinks apologizing is for ''pussy''. Michael is the depressed guy. He is not the smartest and he is at the moment without a job. Tony is a very nice guy. He is the one that always try to solve the situation. He is also the one who is getting f*** because he is too nice. I lived with them 5 months before deciding to move. The main reason was that Joe was never paying his part of the services/rent on time. Joe was taking advantage of our kindness to try to screw us over. Michael and Tony are very apathetic, they are way too chill. They were paying his part and lending him money etc. It came to the point were they were cutting us the internet/electricity many times because of Joe. We both reached the point where we started to ignore each other because Joe was starting to threat me like his bit*h. I tried to talk to him, but he see kindness and virtue as a weakness. So I told Tony that I was going to move (20 days in advance). I have a lot of stuff in the house and moving is taking me some time because I am very busy. Now every-time I go there, this guy is trying to fuck with me. Trying to maliciously give me order. Telling me that I have to pay this or clean this. This is petty and I try to ignore him or just answer calmly. I try my best not to escalate the situation. But the fact that he is trying to ''Alpha'' me and f*ck with make me is making me extremely angry. I want to punch him in the face and make him bleed. Every time I go there I am scared to death, I am afraid that the whole thing just blow up. I know I have nothing to win if we fight. Anyway I finally moved all my stuff today but the situation is pissing me off. When I was a teenager, I used to always answer with violence. When I started to work on myself, I realize that this was stupid. However, the part of me that I am suppressing feel that the only way to get closure is to get into a fist fight. The rational part of my brain know that I should just move on and let him be miserable. But I can't move on. I still feel angry. I still feel violent inside. I feel miserable, I have no idea how to deal with this.