This is exactly why I like him.There is no structure,there are no rules to follow,it isnt said in a written way.It simply goes as the conversation develops,there are no guidlines to follow.To me it keep a does of honesty rather then preaching about knowledge he posses."More than anything, though, I cannot trust the studiousness of a fat person. Such behavior immediately highlights for me a person who is self-neglecting, and thus generally neglecting. Not rigorous. He feels manipulative, in the conversation, rather than genuine." I truly hope you arent serious about this.