philosopher_warrior

Think about emotion that you experience. And think to yourself while you experienced that emotion for that situation. Then think about your childhood and see if their was a time in your childhood you felt the same emotion. Try to see what the similarities of the the situations were. Once you done your own self investigation, it might be best to present that information to a therapist to help translate those experiences.

Let's look at pop music in terms of K and r selection. Britney Spears vs Christina Aguilar. Here are partial lyrics from each of their 90's break out hits. Christina Aguilar's Gene in a Bottle Come on, come on Ohh, whow I feel like I've been locked up tight For a century of lonely nights Waiting for someone to release me You're lickin' your lips And blowing kisses my way But that don't mean I'm gonna give it away Baby, baby, baby (Baby baby baby...) Ooohhh, my body's sayin' let's go Ooohhh, but my heart is sayin' no If you wanna be with me Baby there's a price to pay I'm a genie in a bottle You gotta rub me the right way..... Here the lyrics describe a young girl with sexual desire. However, she is selective of who she gives herself too and won't given in to lust Britney Spear's Hit me baby One More Oh baby, baby Oh baby, baby Oh baby, baby How was I supposed to know That something wasn't right here Oh baby baby I shouldn't have let you go And now you're out of sight, yeah Show me, how you want it to be Tell me baby 'Cause I need to know now what we've got My loneliness is killing me I must confess, I still believe When I'm not with you I lose my mind Give me a sign Hit me baby one more time Oh baby, baby The reason I breathe is you Boy you got me blinded Oh baby, baby There's nothing that I wouldn't do That's not the way I planned it Show me, how you want it to be Tell me baby 'Cause I need to know now what we've got I think the title of the song says it all but look closer at the lyrics. What's most interesting to me is the "Boy you got me blinded" and the "That's not the way I planned it" Britney Spears has been married 3 times and had children with her back up dancer who had two children with another woman. Christina Aguilar has been married 2 times with a child from each marriage. The men Aguilar married had better jobs.. and didn't have other kids as far as I know. This is Hollywood so it's different than a world all other humans live in but I would say Christina Aguilar has had more stability and higher quality men in her relationships then Britney Spears.

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