[Does anyone have knowledge on relieving childhood conditioning]

Think about emotion that you experience. And think to yourself while you experienced that emotion for that situation. Then think about your childhood and see if their was a time in your childhood you felt the same emotion. Try to see what the similarities of the the situations were. Once you done your own self investigation, it might be best to present that information to a therapist to help translate those experiences.

[r-selection insight in Coolio's Gangsta's Paradice]

Let's look at pop music in terms of K and r selection. Britney Spears vs Christina Aguilar. Here are partial lyrics from each of their 90's break out hits.

 

Christina Aguilar's Gene in a Bottle

 

Come on, come on
Ohh, whow

I feel like I've been locked up tight
For a century of lonely nights
Waiting for someone to release me
You're lickin' your lips
And blowing kisses my way
But that don't mean I'm gonna give it away
Baby, baby, baby (Baby baby baby...)

Ooohhh, my body's sayin' let's go
Ooohhh, but my heart is sayin' no

If you wanna be with me
Baby there's a price to pay
I'm a genie in a bottle
You gotta rub me the right way.....

Here the lyrics describe a young girl with sexual desire. However, she is selective of who she gives herself too and won't given in to lust

Britney Spear's Hit me baby One More

 

Oh baby, baby
Oh baby, baby
Oh baby, baby
How was I supposed to know
That something wasn't right here
Oh baby baby
I shouldn't have let you go
And now you're out of sight, yeah
Show me, how you want it to be
Tell me baby
'Cause I need to know now what we've got

My loneliness is killing me
I must confess, I still believe
When I'm not with you I lose my mind
Give me a sign
Hit me baby one more time

Oh baby, baby
The reason I breathe is you
Boy you got me blinded
Oh baby, baby
There's nothing that I wouldn't do
That's not the way I planned it
Show me, how you want it to be
Tell me baby
'Cause I need to know now what we've got

 

I think the title of the song says it all but look closer at the lyrics. What's most interesting to me is the "Boy you got me blinded" and the "That's not the way I planned it"

 

Britney Spears has been married 3 times and had children with her back up dancer who had two children with another woman. Christina Aguilar has been married 2 times with a child

from each marriage. The men Aguilar married had better jobs.. and didn't have other kids as far as I know. 

This is Hollywood so it's different than a world all other humans live in but I would say Christina Aguilar has had more stability and higher quality men in her relationships then Britney Spears. 

["What Motivates You?"]

Achieving true happiness motivates me