The caller spent all of his energy defining "rape" and "not rape" in the context of "opposites" drawing from Stefan's book UPB.
The caller's argument is as follows:
Stefan defines "rape" as necessarily "good" and uses the following formula:
"...“X” is “the good,” then the opposite of “X” must be evil. If not raping is good, then raping must be evil. Conversely, if raping is good, then not raping must be evil." UPB pg. 66
Where as Stefan takes the definition of "rape" as a given, the caller defines it in order to look at the constituent pieces to understand what the opposite would be.
So what makes "rape" different than sex? If explicitly rape is a subset of all the actions that can be constituted as sex, then what differentiates it from sex is its inherent quality of "desire of the individuals" performing the "rape", specifically the desire to have sex, and the repulsion to have sex. Otherwise a person who could not distinguish the "desires" of the participants would strictly say that they were having sexual intercourse, without concluding rape, or rather this person would have no concept of rape. The caller didn't say this next part that I am adding, but I believe that in his argument with Stefan that the opposite of Bob raping Sue is not Sue raping Bob that the rapist is necessarily defined as the person performing penetration.
So now that the definition of rape is complete we can perform the logic of the caller.
If Bob rapes Sue, then Bob must have the "Desire to have sex," and Sue must have the "Repulsion to have Sex." What then is the opposite of rape? We now take the opposite of the constituents.
If Bob does "not rape" Sue, then Bob must have the "Repulsion to have sex," while Sue must have the "Desire to have sex," but Bob is still the penetrator, so by definition Sue cannot be raping Bob, neither is Bob raping Sue, in this instance. This conclusion follows from the definition in UPB that "not rape" is the opposite of "rape" whereas the confusion might arise that "not rape" is a much larger set of events that includes the opposite of "rape" but is not limited to our definition. I am not arguing that Sue cannot rape Bob because she does not have a penis, but if we performed the same logic with Steve instead of Sue, then Bob would still be penetrating Steve. ( A woman could also be a rapist if she wore a strap-on dildo. )
I don't believe that the caller was trying to generate a moral vagueness, as in the case that a woman would be having sex but not express her "desire." I believe the caller was trying to strengthen Stefan's argument by demonstrating this practical oddity. One might argue that the opposite of rape would necessarily require reversing who is performing penetration, in which case Sue is now raping Bob, thus the opposite of rape is rape. It seems to me that in either conclusion making the argument in terms of "opposites" is what causes this practically confusing result.
Unfortunately, I cannot read the callers mind, therefore I do not know where the caller intended to go with this argument, but assuming that he did not complete his argument, we still need a thesis statement to interpret this confusing conclusion.
Perhaps with this synopsis of the call we can speculate on the caller's intent, should he never fall upon this thread with his own words.
Regards,
Al