Jason11

Wow, I really appreciate the comments everyone! It's so nice to have some useful feedback. I let her know yesterday that I need some time to think about our relationship, and that I would meet up with her when I was ready to discuss it further.

I'm hoping to get some insight on this situation I'm currently in. I met a girl online over a month ago, and within three days of hanging out we had sex. This is much quicker than usual for myself, and I automatically assumed this was not a girl I'd like to date becuase of it. I did feel a connection with this girl (likely lust), so I continued seeing her. While getting to know her I discovered a few things about her that really disturbed me. Most notable being the young age she lost her virginity at. I did share my concerns with her, but I still feel uneasy about them. She seems like she is very open to self knowledge and doing what it takes to have a healthy relationship (although so far that has not been practised). Of course, I have known her for a short period of time, and I don't truly know her. She has become quite attached to me, while my feelings haven't grown much since the first couple of weeks. I can't help but feel like I'm being unethical or rude by continuing to see her with my current state of mind not being interested in dating. I have made it clear that I am not interested in dating her right now, but I am struggling with deciding if I should end things, or continue seeing her and possibly developing more feelings for her?