Hello fellow AnCaps; I recently had a discussion with a friend about a voluntary society and this person was very concerned about the difference between DROs and a state. Specifically, he was questioning me about the difference between having to pay a fine to a government for violating a law and having to pay increased rates to a DRO for violating a DRO law. Of course the difference is that failing to comply with the government means that the last resort of enforcement is the initiation of physical force, whereas the DRO may revoke their side of the contract and refuse to do further business with the individual, excluding him from social and economic life.
This person was very perplexed at the thought of being economically ostracized, claiming that it was much more fascistic than the government's punishment of physical force.
When I pushed on the moral question of force and pointed out the gun in the room, he claimed that I was paranoid and crazy and proposing an even more "forceful" society than what we have now.
Did I go wrong anywhere? If I did, please explain. And, if not, how do you guys deal with people who respond in this fashion? Thanks!