Birdiefly

I was raised by atheists, and i am an atheist myself. The only place religion was part of traditions where at my school. Once during Christmas and once during Easter we went to church. Traditions in my family may have sprung from christian and heathen traditions, but we do it because we enjoy it. We get invited to multiple holiday feast at my mother in law, and i will carry out that tradition too, when she cant do it any more. In my community there are often public events in the small towns we live next to, and we often meet friends and family during these events. My partner/boyfriends family have a summer tradition where they set up a tent in their backyard, hire a band, and then they have a huge grill party, where the entry fee is either lots of beer or a bunch of food, everyone comes to the party, both kids, adults and elderly, it is extremely cozy and fun. I hope it helps

I met my boyfriend ten years ago, back then he didn't have anything than a mattress on the floor, and on our first date we grilled sausages on a bread toaster. He wasn't rich, but he was honest and loyal to truth, even when it hurt people he knew, that was what i fell for. It isn't impossible to find a partner who doesn't care if you are rich at that moment, but i think it is very rare. My parents was extremely rich, but never happy, in fact money issues took my fathers life, we where much happier when we where poor/average. I think many women romanticize being rich, but if you love your partner you would rather be poor than to miss any time you could spend together. I believe you find a suitable partner while doing what interest you, it is very import to share an interest, usually the interest that is most important to you. That is just my thoughts, Best of luck, and do not give up