Didn't know where to post this, but If you have never met your dad and he doesn't know you exist. And you know who he is, how would you reach out to him? I'm just about to turn 21 and have been struggling with this for a while. I had been waiting to make myself financially stable before contacting him so I wouldn't feel like I was bringing a burden into someone's life. I now am, and was seeking guidance on how to go about this.