MysterionMuffles Posted July 24, 2013 Share Posted July 24, 2013 Has anyone seen this disgusting video? Most people are finding it cute and funny but I find it downright abusive. The abuse here is very subtle and I will give my two cents on it later, but for now see for yourself and share your conclusions with me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ribuck Posted July 24, 2013 Share Posted July 24, 2013 Parenting fail! The mother just needed to explain to both of them that there's no marriage unless both people want to marry. In the future, I see the girl becoming a wife with a henpecked husband. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nathanm Posted July 24, 2013 Share Posted July 24, 2013 I thought it might be cute and funny, (I 'married' the neighbor girl when I was a kid too) but you're totally right - it's not at all funny. Camera person sits there and does nothing while the boy screams his objection. It's like a little psycholgical snuff film, you're watching a child get emotionally tortured while the crowd laughs. I'm sorry, maybe I'm off base here, but if I hear a scream like THAT I know the person means business. When a person screams as loud as they possibly can, I don't care how old you are, you need to take that emotion dead serious and stop whatever is causing it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LovePrevails Posted July 24, 2013 Share Posted July 24, 2013 I didn't find that cute or funny. That mum doesn't know how to mum, he was genuinely upset and she didn't empathise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MysterionMuffles Posted July 24, 2013 Author Share Posted July 24, 2013 Makes you wonder why hes reacting so strongly. As if his own father ia frutrated at being married to this boys heartless mother.. recording his humiliation to get cheap laughs on the intetnet. Wtf Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meeri Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 This is quite disturbing, the boy is terrified of the idea of marrying this girl...it seems like there's something scary going on in his parents marriage Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gwho Posted July 27, 2013 Share Posted July 27, 2013 interesting how the mom cuts the video off when the kid is probably appealing to her mother, "Mom why are....[you not defending me or doing anything about this]?" ["Come one, wtf, man?"] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Panoptic Posted August 5, 2013 Share Posted August 5, 2013 I've seen this before. My ex-gf showed to me thinking it was funny (a few years ago). I found the original on YouTube here and read through the comments. Its very interesting to see how most of the comments are seemingly from females and most of them are positive or saying how its funny. I think that maybe its because the girl is the one doing to forcing in the video, so its not traumatic for the girl. Although any sane person should be alerted at a child screaming that loudly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MysterionMuffles Posted August 20, 2013 Author Share Posted August 20, 2013 gwho, wow I didn't notice that. Think I'll watch it again. And you're right Extraordinary_rendition, I think the genders play a huge role in it. If it was the boy being forceful people will be easily on about how he's a future abuser, but no girls are such sweet frilly things that it is good for them to exact the same kind of aggression men do. Because when they do, it's EMPOWERING. Not trying to be sexist, but there is that double standard. Clearly she is an abuser in the making if she doesn't seek help, likewise with the boy, he's gonna need to seek a lot of help in the future if his mother doesn't stop acting this way. The obvious thing is the public humiliation, but what I'm more worried about is what happens behind the camera. Why does he fear women so much? And why doesn't this woman reach out to him and comfort him? Just sick. Totally sickening. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shqiptar Posted August 27, 2013 Share Posted August 27, 2013 This literally made me upset. It's like emotional torture and teaching the little girl to be a terrible person. Problem is too many adults don't view children as humans who deserve respect. They literally treat them like... toys or pets. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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