harbinger truth Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 Didn't know where to post this, but If you have never met your dad and he doesn't know you exist. And you know who he is, how would you reach out to him? I'm just about to turn 21 and have been struggling with this for a while. I had been waiting to make myself financially stable before contacting him so I wouldn't feel like I was bringing a burden into someone's life. I now am, and was seeking guidance on how to go about this.
MysterionMuffles Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 What did you to find out his identity and why is it so important thaty ou meet? Also, sorry that you've been abandoned...so do not feel like you are bringing a burden to his life. The burden was put upon you when he walked out on you and your mother. Unless of course, my harshness is meaningless if he gave you up to adoption for economical reasons, at which case I am even more sorry about. Have you talked to your mother about this? How does she feel about this? Or well...provide some more information if you can about this.
Emanuel Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 I'm sorry about what happened to you, it must have been so hard for you. What do you mean when you say he doesn't know you exist? Also, what would happen if he discovered about your existence? Do you think you'd develop a relationship and gain his unconditional attention? You certainly don't need to answer all my questions, but at least ask yourself what your motives are. Thank you for coming to the boards with your problem, and I hope my questions help clear up things a little for you.
harbinger truth Posted November 14, 2013 Author Posted November 14, 2013 Sorry everyone really busy with school.but anyway for some more info my mom was never with my dad. It was of kind of casual sex ordeal. Anyway she had become pregnant and kept this from my real dad because she was engaged to someone else.My main purpose to know what kind of person my father may be.
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