zassa Posted July 15, 2014 Posted July 15, 2014 Since i started being honest and really talking to people, and have standards. I realized i have nobody in my life worth mentioning. This is very lonely, so seek real people to meet up with..
Fast and steady Posted July 15, 2014 Posted July 15, 2014 I know how you feel over here on the other side of the pond in Boston.
PatrickC Posted July 15, 2014 Posted July 15, 2014 Passed on your post to several Danish board members I know of. Well done for reaching out.
zassa Posted July 15, 2014 Author Posted July 15, 2014 Yeah. It is so frustrating. I started out so exited about this, wanting to change the lives of all the people around me towards true relationships. But had to realize as i got down the line, only one out of all family and all friends actually got it. Incredible as it may seem, and it was for sure the last person i would have thought would change. But my mom is really going at it, with therapy and all. She has a long way to go, but i am very happy with having her so i can figure out what have happened in my childhood. But i for sure need people that are not my mom to talk to.. Thanks a lot.. 1
PatrickC Posted July 15, 2014 Posted July 15, 2014 That's great news to hear about your mother taking things seriously. If you are on FaceBook, you might want to join this FDR Europe group perhaps. Just so you know, I did also post your thread to that group. All the best with meeting folk. https://www.facebook.com/groups/FDR.Europe/
zassa Posted July 15, 2014 Author Posted July 15, 2014 Oh, thank you. Didn't know there where a Euro group..
jonas-e Posted July 15, 2014 Posted July 15, 2014 Hi, I'm Danish, married to a Dutch, currently living in Norway. I have a bunch of other Scandinavian FDR listeners as friends on Facebook. Met a few FDR folks in Amsterdam recently, the community is quite strong there, apparently - too bad I didn't realize that while I still lived in NL until February this year.
zassa Posted July 15, 2014 Author Posted July 15, 2014 So wonderful to hear. I am so sick of emptiness. And i am so happy i don't have to sit through any stupid worthless family dinners, where some end up too drunk and my grand mom goes crazy, horrible bunch of people.. Wife and child makes it all more complicated, can't even imagine since i am not a parent my self. But lucky for your daughter that you can give her a better upbringing then she might have had..
Soren Posted July 15, 2014 Posted July 15, 2014 I am Danish and live in Denmark, the Copenhagen area.
Asger Jon Posted July 17, 2014 Posted July 17, 2014 I too am Danish, and I live in the Aarhus area. Feel free to contact me on email: [email protected] Don't send me a pm on these forums, as I visit them only very rarely.
mikl Posted July 17, 2014 Posted July 17, 2014 I am also Danish, but I live in Switzerland, just south of Zürich. You'll also find me on the aforementioned Facebook group 1
Mr. Roth Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 Danish born and somewhat bred, from CPH. Vi er da et par stykker. 1
jonas-e Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 Hi y'all - please join the group "FDR Scandinavia" on facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1378600752428241/ We've started up a tradition of weekly virtual meeting for Scandinavian FDR listeners - each Sunday at 20:00 hours: https://appear.in/fdr-scandinavia (if the appear.in solution proves bad, we may change to a different platform)
Yevgenij Posted August 29, 2014 Posted August 29, 2014 Hey Zassa. I'm danish, living in Aarhus. I really can relate to the loneliness of philosophy, and would love too talk with another dane about it. You can reach me at [email protected] Hey Zassa. I'm danish, living in Aarhus. I know the loneliness of living by philosophy. I'd really like to talk to another dane about it, maybe discuss some strategies to cope. You can reach me at [email protected]
JordanS Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 I live in Copenhagen, Anyone around to meet? PM me if you like
eschiedler Posted November 4, 2014 Posted November 4, 2014 I find it amusing that Danes are meeting on this board by writing in English instead of Danish! I did have a girlfriend from East Germany and all of the German international students often spoke in English. I'll look up to see if there are multiple native languages in Denmark (thus encouraging the use of English). I do appreciate the multi-lingual effort, but did find it amusing. All kidding aside, best of luck testing out new relationship skills!
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