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I just want to share my thoughts on being honest.

 

A couple of hours ago I called my cousin and told him how I felt about him and our relationship. The first time I was ever really honest with him. I tried to maintain my honesty in the conversation/ rtr but I did not do that as much as I wanted. For example, he didn't show empathy by talking for so long when it was his turn and I feel like he made it about him....but I didn't call him out on it!! I did however tell him I felt disconnected from him in the conversation. damn, thinking back now I did not really rtr at all. even if that's the case it just seemed like he didn't get it. Same thing happened with my aunt, mom and dad. This reminds me of what Stefan said about having a need and not getting that need met and the need to re-experienced that pain. Its 4:00am right now I have been up since that conversation and feel afraid? I wish someone was in my bed cuddling with me. My other cousin who has applied philosophy into her life, encouraged me to call him up. I am glad I did because I do feel this confidence but I am afraid of something, and its very potent. Lately I have been applying honesty to the people in my life and its scary but at the same time, I am getting happiness from it. Have you all experienced this when you finally started to be honest with your family/ people you know.

 

thanks everybody, you guys are awesome

 

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Yeah, I know what you mean. I felt an exhilarating rush when I first began asserting myself with my parents. I was still living with them at the time, and I had to make a mad dash escape when things started really self-destructing.

 

Do you mind if I give you some hard-won advice when it comes to RtRing?

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