tullworthington Posted February 18, 2016 Posted February 18, 2016 I have been considering some of the illogical reactions that European people have toward migrant behavior. Example women apologizing to their rapists, the near obsession levels of making excuses for the migrants and then doubling down on it! Some of this reminds me very much of how a co-dependent acts with their abuser...making excuses, martyrdom, enabling... Is it possible for a whole culture to be co dependent? If so, what is the method of infection into the societies consciousness? What is the cure? What is the innoculant?
Anuojat Posted February 18, 2016 Posted February 18, 2016 I dont know what the cure is... but maybe i do know of an innoculant. People whom defend theyre abusers fundementally deep down have to believe that nobody is coming to save them or is on theyre side or cares. Or tha tits wrong to care because then youd be marking someone EVIL and wrong and that in itself would be evil. So the innoculant would be emphaty and curiousity towards such victims with open clarity of how screwwed up someone is and NOT entertaining anyhting for second that is nothing more than defence mechanism. And most importantly NOT giving attention to those whom double down without a trace of reason in them. Those who double down as you call in front of violance or abuse DO NOT deserve anything but genuine anger from you.
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