Black Anarchist Posted June 15, 2016 Posted June 15, 2016 Workmates brought up my previous relationship I was browsing dating website. They are very sure that my ex is good for me.They agree that not marrying her could be the worst thing I could do. They did have the pleasure of seeing her when I brought her to the workplace party with her child. I know what you guys said on a previous thread.https://board.freedomainradio.com/topic/47114-marrying-someone-who-had-a-dark-history/ My workmates said that a person’s history isn’t that important. Women often have history around +40. But I guess it is the nature of the history that gets me. It is the number one big neg. History of dating guys, who are polar opposites to myself and a lot of them. The majority of them was low quality men, one of them was outright violent. If it is possible she could love me, then it would be a lot easier for me to find women who like similar or same types as myself. But this is harder being black and having aspergers syntrome.
dsayers Posted June 15, 2016 Posted June 15, 2016 this is harder being black In what way? Do you think history is important? If so, why? Why do your work mates say that it is not? Do your workmates buy cars that were previously in floods for example? I'd wager they know full well that history matters. What do they benefit from in pairing the two of you together?
Black Anarchist Posted June 16, 2016 Author Posted June 16, 2016 Don’t know. All are in successful relationships, a few of the woman have been single parent. They will often group think to a degree though. Being black might not be an issue but being black with aspergers is. Any non black women who show interest in me often prefer men who are polar opposites. It’s often the case when I that when I have unsuccessful dates I either see them we another black guy on Facebook or Whatsapp. This makes dating non-black women almost off limits. It might be different if they get to know me as a person before. Dating black women on dating websites isn’t that bad relatively, they seem more average overall.
Black Anarchist Posted June 17, 2016 Author Posted June 17, 2016 In what way? Do you think history is important? If so, why? Why do your work mates say that it is not? Do your workmates buy cars that were previously in floods for example? I'd wager they know full well that history matters. What do they benefit from in pairing the two of you together? Don’t know. All my workmates are in successful relationships, a few of the woman had been single parent. They will often group think to a degree though. Being black might not be an issue but being black with aspergers is. Any non black women who show interest in me often prefer men who are polar opposites. It’s often the case when I that when I have unsuccessful dates. When I see my previous dates they are with another black guy on Facebook or Whatsapp. This makes dating non-black almost off limits. It might be ok, if they get to know me as a person first.
dsayers Posted June 17, 2016 Posted June 17, 2016 Being black might not be an issue but being black with aspergers is. Any non black women who show interest in me often prefer men who are polar opposites. It’s often the case when I that when I have unsuccessful dates I either see them we another black guy on Facebook or Whatsapp. Wouldn't this make aspergers a POSSIBLE explanation, but skin color definitely NOT one? It might be different if they get to know me as a person before. Before what? Isn't getting to know the person step one anyways?
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