J.L.W Posted May 22, 2018 Posted May 22, 2018 It took me years to stop... YEARS! But I have quite a fine awareness of my energy levels because of a medical condition and I used to feel exhausted afterwards. Qi- gong was what I used when it got difficult. But I don't need it anymore. Porn has a long term effect, if you stop, those thoughts bother you less after years.
Mark G Posted May 22, 2018 Author Posted May 22, 2018 On 5/20/2018 at 2:25 AM, Kohlrak said: consider how you'd end up living with yourself, as well, if not for the person/thing that you hurt, but also living with yourself knowing that you caused that trouble in your life that lead to bad circumstances (that you would presumably end up with). It's one thing to miss an opportunity due to indecision or bad choice, but it's another thing entirely to destroy opportunity (both for yourself and others) due to bad action. I think about this EVERYDAY. Maybe thats why I wrote in. This is sooooo true
Mark G Posted May 22, 2018 Author Posted May 22, 2018 On 5/20/2018 at 2:25 AM, Kohlrak said: And you're talking about your mother. If this is the real cause, normally you would sort this out by talking. Presumably there's more you haven't said about your mother, then. If not, then I don't know. Stefan's much better at dragging out information regarding parents than I am, especially 'cause when i try to drag information out of people, I rely on people not being afraid to tell me things (so i can confront them with conflicting information to call out their lies that they tell both others and themselves). The secrecy of your identity seems really important to you (and understandably so), your lack of detail makes it difficult, since I don't have much to go on. You are right there is alot there and I do that too, But relying on people to tell the truth is hard bc what if they think what they are saying is true and its not its ust a waste of time. I think this issue is so big with my parents I do need to call in but. Although Iv tried many times to submit an answer but always get ignored after the 2nd email. I think Im either doing something wrong or my question isn't as interesting as to keep in-mind the listener.
Mark G Posted May 22, 2018 Author Posted May 22, 2018 On 5/20/2018 at 2:25 AM, Kohlrak said: Why are you taking the Kratom, btw? It makes me feel normal, Completely takes away my self diagnosed depression, anxiety. And helps me focus I am "ADHD" or whatever. I just learn in a different way than others.
Mark G Posted May 22, 2018 Author Posted May 22, 2018 On 5/20/2018 at 1:41 PM, Kohlrak said: My advice to this person, then, is that if you feel your mind thinking about sex, try distracting it with something else. It's not an end all solution, but if I'm right, it should slow things done. And, if it slows things down, I have an answer that would require a larger explanation that, due to the lack of sample size, i'm just not ready to release to a crowd of intellectuals. I wonder if this one'll post, yet, given my last reply is still hidden. The amount of sex and sexual thoughts I have I almost think/feel I am the ideal example of an R selected Gene (Stefan's R vs K Gene Wars) My thoughts are of K genes but my "Feelings" are R Its the Christian idea of your body wanting one thing but your spirit wanting the complete opposite
Kohlrak Posted May 23, 2018 Posted May 23, 2018 3 hours ago, Mark G said: You are right there is alot there and I do that too, But relying on people to tell the truth is hard bc what if they think what they are saying is true and its not its ust a waste of time. I think this issue is so big with my parents I do need to call in but. Although Iv tried many times to submit an answer but always get ignored after the 2nd email. I think Im either doing something wrong or my question isn't as interesting as to keep in-mind the listener. Usually the reason you talk to people in the first place is, because you can't find the answer on your own. If we're wrong, we're wrong, but if you keep trying there's a chance that someone will get it right. As for Stefan, you also have to consider the situation might seem more than he wants to handle at the moment, too. Or maybe you're right. We don't know without asking Stefan, but i don't think he'll answer, here. Plus, he's not the only one choosing who gets his attention, too. You can keep trying, if it isn't too much trouble. 3 hours ago, Mark G said: It makes me feel normal, Completely takes away my self diagnosed depression, anxiety. And helps me focus I am "ADHD" or whatever. I just learn in a different way than others. So you were actually diagnosed with ADHD and they gave you opioids as a prescription, or was that your own choice? I could talk to you about the research i've done on ADHD, as well. My guess is the opioid helps, but for that same reason weed was proposed as a potential treatment, too. Me, personally, i'm quite happy being unmedicated. I've noticed some strange correlations with people who have the symptoms of ADHD but go diagnosed and IQ, as well as people such as myself who are undiagnosed and our IQs. Let's just say that ADHD might just be an indicator of something, and the studies suggesting ADHD does not correlate didn't take ADHD meds into consideration. But, that's just my theory, and i have a bit of anecdotal evidence to back it up. Unfortunately, anecdotal evidence doesn't count, but i also don't have the ear of anyone who could go about making studies, though i'm not sure if ADHD is the first thing i'd have them look into.
Kohlrak Posted May 24, 2018 Posted May 24, 2018 On 5/22/2018 at 5:10 PM, Mark G said: The amount of sex and sexual thoughts I have I almost think/feel I am the ideal example of an R selected Gene (Stefan's R vs K Gene Wars) My thoughts are of K genes but my "Feelings" are R Its the Christian idea of your body wanting one thing but your spirit wanting the complete opposite I just now got a notification for this response. With the response i made to your other posts following it, it really messes with my head. Not your fault, though. see my response in the private chat.
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