I agree to the fullest. In particular as she herself kept screaming all kinds of profanities to Dayna's husband when she was "threatened" of having the blow horn she meant to use on the kids being used against herself. What an incredible hypocrite, my jaw just dropped to the floor.
I'm totally with you on this one too, that was very surprising. While I fully believe in the unschooling philosophy, one cannot stress enough the importance of reading and writing. Think of all the wonderful books and stories they never got to know as younger children! Kids do learn from playing, but a lot of potential and inspiration in their play is lost from just not being able to read. Just think of all the wonderful books you (hopefully) read and loved as a kid, and how they brought new ideas and colours to your fantasies! Also, Dayna's children seem to frequently use the Internet for learning, but they can hardly tap the enourmous potential of it if they can't read.
There is absolutely no need to "force" a child to learn to read and write, but there are a million ways to friendly encourage it from early on by simply showing them what a useful and exciting tool it really is. Books and stories are food for young minds! (And adults too!)
I think the interesting question is why Dayna's children took so long to learn to read - in particluar since Dayna herself is an author. As we know, children take after their parents; they do what their parents do. Does that mean Dayna and her husband rarely read books themselves? Or what are your theories on this?