bryndomus

Oh my gosh. That's such a terrible, tragic ordeal. I'm so sorry to hear those terrifyingly abusive, cold & disturbing events. What an utterly horrifying start in life for you. Well done for summoning yourself to move away and look at your memories and your past in Therapy. That's really brave and strong of you & your anger about the whole thing is utterly justified. I think what is important is to focus on your feelings. It sounds like it may be a good idea to explore writing a letter for yourself if you feel inclined to. Even if you write it fully you may not want to send it in the end; And you are not in anyway obligated to. It can be the case that the memories prove to be enough to help you make up your mind as to whether or not you want to interact with those people again. Well done again on your decisions & take care.

Why is it that you don't want children?

Hey there! So its my first post on this beautiful board. So i thought I'd make it a good one! I've been so inspired by some of Stef's recent podcasts about lofty ambitions and reaching one's full potential that i thought I'd ask.. What are everyone's ambitions? What are everyones goals / dreams? What is everyone striving toward? This can be anything you like (obviously). What i mean by that is it doesn't just have to be a job or abstraction (e.g world peace). It could be anything. Any situation, Any Goal, Any hopes or dream that your aspiring to with the help of philosophy. I'l start. I wan't to make music full time. I want to make music that as Stef puts it "Lights the electricity in peoples spines!". I've been writing for 15 years so I think I'm well on my way I want a life entirely surrounded by people i love and admire & who love and admire me. Shoot.