First, on pornography: No problem in any way, shape or form, as long as no one is coerced.Second, on age of consent: A person is at the age of consent when they can to be responsible for their own actions. Most parents hold their children fully responsible LONG before the age of 18 - often as young as grade school. You are a hypocrite if you hold a person responsible for doing their own homework, making their own bed, preparing their own lunch, showering every day - and then tell them they can't manage their own body.Third, on the age gap: Not an issue. Seriously, Steph's ideas notwithstanding, Love is NOT an "involuntary reaction to virtue" - that is adoration. If that was true, then various evil people would never have been loved, and they most clearly were.Love, in general, is used to describe an object of desire; physical desire most often in the young. As we age, we desire different things - comfort, peace, and so on. Once we recognize this, now we can see it is quite possible to love someone who is of a different age; the young woman gets security and safety from an older husband. The older husband gets fertility, and caring attention. The other way around is possible, too... but examples are much more rare and people instinctively sense something wrong, because they are not used to it.Does this mean all pairings with significant age difference are healthy? No. No more than all pairing with a "normal" age gap are healthy.