My wife has one of those families where everyone kind of gets along but nothing of substance is ever talked about. They are all "Christians". I've been to the family Xmas for 10 years and Jesus's name is never brought up outside of the prayer. Weather, football, kids, yes. They are the complete opposite of philosophically minded. Hard working, Christian conservative, God fearing etc. That being said they are extremely nice people. Nice in that fucked up cowardly sort of way. Agree to disagree and never bring up anything that someone could possibly get offended about. Anyways I'm not exactly filling that role. After being agnostic for most of my life Ive recently become an atheist. It all makes sense. I always disliked religion but never saw it as evil. After reading Molyneux, watching hitchens, Sam Harris, Dawkins etc it's such a no brainer and it's become really hard to tolerate this dangerous stupidity. Does anyone else have any experience as to how to handle this. They are great grandparents and descent people outside of this. I wrote a long email to them expressing how I feel and the damage it did to me as a kiddo and they responded with "we'll pray for you". It kills me. Every time my mother-inlaw calls my wife I cringe. It's made my wife(who is an ex weakass Christian who had never even read the bible but now agnostic) feel caught in the middle. I'm wanting her to step up and say something to them not because I cant do it myself but more so because I know I would do the same for her. I'll gladly talk to them but it seems like she should be a little pissed off as well. She feels like she's being torn. It's me vs them kind of thing.
I confronted my mom recently about being an atheist. She thinks I'm going to hell and it's my choice to do so. So I'm kind of done with her unless she changes her mind. Really don't like hanging out with people who think it's just for me to burn in hell for all eternity. That's an elephant I can't ignore. Statists are no different I get it. But in the ole Bible Belt it's the God stuff that kills me the most. Can you fucking believe the times we live in. I have to remind myself daily that there is no better time than now. We won the time lottery as stef said. But some people make it pretty tough to remember that.