Anotherrandomperson

This makes a lot of sense. I think in addition that if the mission is real and primary, rather than something picked up as secondary to the primary goal of having a relationship, then this will work. Consider that in no other context would 'relationship' be an end in and of itself. It's always secondary to some other goal. So why not in this case?

I've heard it speculated that the debt is never meant to be repayed; the whole global financial system has been fixed.