I have recently remarried and my new wife and I both want kids. She is Filipina and I admit I do not know how she was raised. I was raised by parents who spanked. My first wife and I both spanked our three kids.
I see the damage we did and do not want to repeat those mistakes. I am now disabled and honestly unable (and unwilling) to be a physically oppressive parent. I want to learn all I can about peaceful parenting and persuade my new wife to do the same.
I would be grateful for all suggestions.