I recommend it. I remember when I was little and first told my mom that my goal was to marry a man with a lot of money and have twelve children. My mom started screaming at me: "You can't rely on a man! You must have a back-up plan!" I was blown away, because my mom was a stay-at-home mom, and I thought we had a good life. I had no idea that she didn't think her own model was something to which I should aspire. My husband doesn't have a ton of money, but he works hard to make enough so I can raise our children at home. I probably won't make it to twelve children, but aim high and the result might still be respectable.