Hello, I am 63 year old male and was married for 35 years now divorced for 2. The problem I face is when I get together with my 3 grown sons. Two of my sons live out of state and one has a daughter which is two years old. My question arises when they visit should I include their Mother which I have been doing, but it makes me feel as though I am condoning her destruction of the family. I will say trust was an issue years ago and now after 35 years trust again became an issue , so now with my sons grown and on their own I filed for divorce. Ron
