I met my boyfriend ten years ago, back then he didn't have anything than a mattress on the floor, and on our first date we grilled sausages on a bread toaster. He wasn't rich, but he was honest and loyal to truth, even when it hurt people he knew, that was what i fell for. It isn't impossible to find a partner who doesn't care if you are rich at that moment, but i think it is very rare. My parents was extremely rich, but never happy, in fact money issues took my fathers life, we where much happier when we where poor/average. I think many women romanticize being rich, but if you love your partner you would rather be poor than to miss any time you could spend together. I believe you find a suitable partner while doing what interest you, it is very import to share an interest, usually the interest that is most important to you. That is just my thoughts, Best of luck, and do not give up