David, this is something that fascinates me. Most people think of "language" as having an existence transcending any individual, but many people are now looking at language in a different way.
Researchers have long been aware that every individual speaks a slightly different dialect: that each person uses some words with a slightly different meaning, and in a slightly different way, and with a slightly different grammar, and with respect to a slightly different worldview. A person's own language is called an idiolect (i.e. a dialect spoken by only one person). A language, then, just happens to be the common intersection of the idiolects of a usefully-large number of people.
Naturally these people share a large number of words, and share many grammatical constructs, and share some degree of worldview. Yet each person's idiolect is truly their own individual language.
Anyway, this is tangential to Alex's thoughts about IP, but I do find it interesting.