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  1. CrazyCanuck
    Wow that was a hard problem.
  2. CrazyCanuck
    One thing I like to say. Kids can be agressive or destroy things when they eat or in this case drink. There's a study where they found children to be more likely to be agressive and destroy property when the child drank soda pop frequently. Also there's a study where food color makes children hyper action. I also strong believe chemicals like MSG can make people agressive. If these parents are spanking children for misbehaving. These parents should be punished for feed children chemicals that make them agressive and misbehave in the first place. http://www.happy-mothering.com/02/health-2/nutrition-health-2/beyond-allergies-why-food-dyes-may-cause-child-behavioral-problems/ http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/264943.php http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/575996
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    Don't worry kids you can eat anything you want as long you take medicine and watch television. You know it's more of the lifestlye of Americans not the just the diet. Average American watches at least 4 hours of television a day. Sorry but that's including youtube. Even when diet was changed to a healthy diet, a person watching televison has health problems. For every hour of television watched on the average you lose 20 minutes of your life. Honestly I don't think it's lack of exercise because reading for long durations doesn't have that kind effect on health. People exercise less and less even people who go to the gym. I used to exercise a lot now I just do about at least 30 minutes daily btw I used to exercise 4 hours a day. There's more I can talk about however I don't want to bore people to tears as I ramble on and on.
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    Because kids can get around firewalls, and things like Opendns services that help sites not even resolving. The problem is that unless you have pretty good knowledge about these things it's will be very difficult. If they can't install any software due to not having admin access they can download tails which is a live cd with tor proxy. If the parents are smart enough to disable cd/dvd burning the child can go to a library, friend or order one off the internet. http://forumaboutproxy.com/general-discussions/lesson-5-how-to-bypass-firewall-and-see-blocked-web-sites-(for-advanced-users)/ https://tails.boum.org https://www.torproject.org
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    Sorry you had to go through such a rough time. I'm shocked this happened to you. I used to go to Catholic church because I was nagged to go by my parents. Sometimes I would eat the cracker but usually I didn't. Nobody said anything if I didn't. People were very kind to me so I don't know. I knew people that claimed to be Catholic but they fought each other constantly, drank excessively, had sex with multiple people and gamble. These people aren't Catholic they just claim to be. Just going to church and studying the bible doesn't make a person Catholic. This man who was rude to use obviously wasn't wise. Gluten interolance is very common now since there's all kind of gluten free foods. If I was there I would have spoke up. I don't go anymore but if a friend asked me to if they asked me enough times. It's just wrong for people do that he could have said that privately. Obviouly he lacks love and wisdom. I wouldn't take a person like him personally. You showed strength, tolerance, compassion.
  6. CrazyCanuck
    Define evil.
  7. CrazyCanuck
    I guess I shouldn't tolerate you?
  8. CrazyCanuck
    Those are general broad examples. What did the person say? What did you say? Were you screaming or raising your voice? What was the conflict was about and how did you resolve with anger. I can talk in general terms too but it's too vague. I am not asking for something difficult here. Show men proof by giving an example how you resolved with anger. Precise example. Let's say I don't disagree with you but that doesn't tell me how you did it or how I could do it for myself. For example you could say that your girlfriend is yelling at you for not doing some of your chores. But you work 14 hours day and she just works the normal 8 hours. You feel you don't deserved to be yelled at and belittled. So you get mad and you ………. Something a long those lines. If you aren't precise I don't have a clue how you resolve it.
  9. CrazyCanuck
    You're being vague. I give precise example what went on and how I deal with it. Maybe you don't understand? There is a process, you work at it like anything it's like a muscle. You think you won't get angry but you are being test. I used to get angry over little things those things no long bother me. Since it doesn't bother me it doesn't stresses me out. Once I deal with my last one I will be tested again. Every I got angry it's made things worse. I resolved them by having higher moral standard and looking within. If you paid attention when you got angry and how it affected your life you will see it's not so great. Besides I can easily forgive so I don't have to suffer for so long.
  10. CrazyCanuck
    Either they are or they are not. Now please explain.
  11. CrazyCanuck
    Ok I know you didn't say this but I have read that people on here think religion is evil. Scare mongering ( you will go to hell for your sins) , manipulating and brain washing people. Now you're telling these people are honesty, truthful and far from the things I have been told. Thanks?
  12. CrazyCanuck
    The page say it's not found and it's Christian site btw.
  13. CrazyCanuck
    I mean something you can prove, meaning links. I don't agree with many professional claiming anger is healthy. That would be like saying poison is healthy in small amounts.
  14. CrazyCanuck
    Anger never helped me and when i was a kid if I was to be angry because people hurt me I would be angry constantly. It's not just my parents that hurt me. My sister caused problems so did some of my teachers. Kids giving me a hard time and more. I made bag judgements when I got angry even if was other aspect of my life. In business especially when you deal with the public you can't get angry at them and tell me off. You lose customers. Sometimes I get frustrated and that's not good either. I try to tone it down with peeve. I'm more calm and tend to make better judgements. I don't know any business people making good business decision with anger. If you think anger helps show me an example where anger helped at all. You failed to show me real world example how anger helped someone. In martial arts you even slightest angry you lose concentration and you perform not as well. My sister made a lie about me and my aunt stabbed me in the back. But they are the ones stressed over and angry. i know because she talked crap about me. The sad fact my sister been back stabbed by my aunt shows it. My aunt been even mean to her students. She is so unhappy with her life and angry at people. Her husband died a few years ago but this is going overboard. She has more than enough money, things you she wants, she has more friends and others who care deeply about her yet she is the one is miserable. I was really angry eventually, I failed most people would have been angry long ago. Now I look at it it was petty things. She just has negativiity and been too much to even to talk to. Once I realize it was something wasn't worth getting angry over I was calm and made rational decisions. I can say this I gave her the fair chance more chances than I go give most people. Life is too short to be angry I have better things to do. The autocorrect feature on my browser is "peeving" me.
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    It's hardly to tell many cases sometimes kids cry because they were playing and getting hurt. I never this one couple with kids and the crying wasn't the same. It really sounded like the children were abused. These people were noisy people to begin with. The thing was I couldn't call the police because they would use other people and themselves to make noise to disturb me and even kick my door frequently. I don't know if they moved but I don't hear them or see them anymore. My other neighbour are pretty bad getting their children to bad things and then yelling at them frequently, having loud parties. I think these children might be physically abused also but it's really hard to tell when they are making so much noise to begin with.
  16. CrazyCanuck
    Show me where anger has positive effect. Not once have I seen positive effects from anger. I have seen anger causes stress, frustration, etc. Even with myself it caused problems not something helped me. Do you have a right to be angry? Sure you do. Does it help any? I highly doubt it. People expect others to get angry, that's what they expect but when you are compassionate there's nothing they can do. They just get frustrated and leave. I had people angry at me, calling me names and sort. I was kind and firm to them. I told them if they couldn't be respectful to anyone they had to leave. Nothing they said could get me angry and later on they came back apologizing. I said no need to apologize just asked them to act with respect they would expect from others. If I got angry I would have lost a custom. In fact that has happened before.
  17. CrazyCanuck
    Considering Stefan think god is made up. I guess he's passive aggressive. I am waiting you to show me references or studies claiming your point of view. Obviously you have none.
  18. CrazyCanuck
    I kind of know how you feel. Been there myself. The only difference my father refused to go counselling. He is heading in the right direction. You need to give him time. Of course his actions and words isn't correct. I fought with my parents big time when I was working for them. Honestly I would have been better off to go some where else. I stayed because I shouldn't run away from difficulties or conflicts. If I can handle them I am bound to come across similar. I remember telling my parents once they sold their business I would never talk to them again. However I still do just that I will never work with them. It wasn't bad as I thought and I'm glad I didn't just leave. I feel it was the hardest thing to do, now I felt I can do pretty much anything I really want to do because of it. I can't tell you to hang in there that's your choice. Obviously they do love you at love level even if don't treat your right otherwise you would be out in the streets by now. I hope everything works out for you. Btw blaming anyone even if they are at at fault won't solve your problem. Successful people don't blame others.
  19. CrazyCanuck
    I don't know about you but I don't like dating women that want to be courted. What's the point of going out with women who are only interested getting their ego stroked? Many women expect the men to pay for the dates, buy them gifts etc. I rather be liked that I am entertaining. There are women out there will go out with me just to get gifts and meals and some of them even keep track. What's a girl to do when she's a struggling actress who just wants a really good restaurant meal? Go on a ton of first dates, of course! That's the strategy used by one Toronto woman who decided to tell the world about her serial dating stories in the form of a blog. http://www.delish.com/food/recalls-reviews/toronto-woman-uses-online-dating-to-fund-restaurant-hobby
  20. CrazyCanuck
    Sometimes I wonder if Stefan talks his sleep. You better not expect a Christmas bonus or a raise.
  21. CrazyCanuck
    Well then there's nothing more you can do. You done the right thing even if you were wrong. I wouldn't stress over it. She is still upset because what you said was true. Maybe it was wrong of you because you didn't discuss it. I don't normally talk about people lives unless it's affecting my life greatly. However I just keep it short. Of course if that person involved me then I have the right to talk about them even still I wouldn't. Maybe you said those things to warn your friends that may date her. Also on some level it's possible that you wanted to be with her and by talking about her problem that you would scare off your friend dating her. I am not saying you are but subconsciously you maybe doing that sort of thing.
  22. CrazyCanuck
    You are not apply the rules consistently with all aspects. You are only doing when it's convenient. The just is is used in Buddhism, however in Buddhism it's about letting go of attachments.
  23. CrazyCanuck
    Try the rice experiment. There is negative consequences with negative thoughts even if you don't talk to that person. If you feel that way then why would you feel wrong if one of your parents hurt you. Your feelings aren't negative? It's just is then what your parents shouldn't matter or anyone else. It's just is according to you. If my parents spanked me it's not negative right? It's just is? http://www.positive-thinking-principles.com/positive-thinking-power.html
  24. CrazyCanuck
    Obviously you don't value school high enough to go to school on consistent basis. Write the things you value and put them in importance. Obviously you need school/learning to be at near the top. Now if you should write them everything you can gain by finishing school and getting a degree and write down everything you have to lose if don't follow through. It needs to be written down for both. That is if you want to go to school.
  25. CrazyCanuck
    Sounds like she's angry it's true. If it's not true what why she get upset? On the flip side, have you apologized to her?
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