robert1986

I've tried. They want a degree even though by law CRS( conflict resolution) doesn't require any licensing . I've asked if life experience is a stand in for a degree . They said NO. These are employers who want degrees but the position doesn't require one. 15 years of life experience I have . Since I was 15 I leaned to negotiate. Doesn't seem like employers care about that because it's not a degree Computers and programming not for me. There are some jobs and environment I just despise. Programming, government / public anything. Not for me . I had an adoptive parent who was a programmer ( had a degree and a secret clearance). And programming was very boring to me. Just wasn't that interesting for me. I generally like social interactions rather than just raw information. When I tried programming I felt like my life was wasted. So boring. But that's me. I have a little bit of creativity within me

That's just propaganda. Pretty artistic propaganda but propaganda nonetheless

Why do so many employers want a degree for fields that don't require them? I wanted to do Conflict Resolution and one employer said a Bachelor's degree is mandatory another said 5 yrs work experience and 2 years of college. I have 15 years of life experience in this area . Why isn't that enough? I would be more than willing to show them what I know with completing a test. Why isn't Life Experience valued over a piece of paper? Even though the occupation I want to be in don't require a degree employers still want one. Why? Do I just save up for that degree and endure the process?

I have not taken an IQ test ever to my knowledge, but if I did , would I be able to dispute it? Let me elaborate. If I took the IQ test and let's say I got an 85 would I be able to do a practical test that shows I'm above 85 if that practical test is for 100? Does the IQ test really mean I'm smart or not smart? I like practical application over binary questions. I'd think if I can show I can grasp abstract concepts then that could mean an IQ test is incorrect. What do you think? Would challenging an IQ test with actual practical application put the IQ test to rest?

I know what Wikipedia says. Didn't help. Is it a person who doesn't physically show emotion but feels it inside him? Is it a person who controls the emotion?

Marcus Aurelias writings called The Meditations.

I kind of wish men would suggest to other men single, good women thry know. Women suggest men for other women. We can do the same

Yes. Talking to something that cannot exist instead of going to you for help. That's my fear. My roommate was religious until I said " I found you in the homeless shelter . Had I respected your religion you would still be there. I intervened and I am what's real. You are housed because of my generosity . So if you want faith then give me $1000 for the deposit and move out. If it wasn't for me you would not be housed" He got the picture . I don't want a repeat of that Why don't men suggest women thry know who are single? Cone on. If you know good people offer a suggestion to others. Women do this.

I'm limited by the states . Some I won't live in. Wy, VT, , Idaho,NH, another city in MT, or ME. But Texas is a no go for Eminent domain use like crazy and I hate Texas for it's lefties in Dallas of major cities, and the weather I'm not a fan of. Come on guys, if you know a good single woman why not suggest a few people to others. Women suggest men to other women. We can do the same.

Ok so go for the core foundation then work from that? Personal religion i suppose is alright so long as kids don't have to go into the religion. This rules out fundamentalists obviously. So I suppose someone could be religious as long as it's their own preferance . Like vanilla or chocolate. So long as they don't expect others to believe it. My worries with that is women use "faith" for guidance. Talking to something that can not exist worries me. Ask me for guidance . That's my worry.

Moving to a country is not an option. Visiting one and bringing someone back MAY be an option. Not sure how that works out. Since I'm in America I have a selection of regions but some states are a no no. My only options for states are: NH, VT,ME, MT( where I am), WY or Idaho. Based on demographics, weather, employment, jobs, taxes and population.

Well thanks for the effort but I knew all of that already. My main concern for dating do I say " Atheists only " or what? Do I put the preferance of "no religion"? I'm trying to put this in the context of dating. I don't want to scare anyone off but at the same time I don't want to be used. Do I put the no religion preferance upfront? This way if they reject me it's only 10 minutes of my time? Or do I say Reason , Evidence and Logic instead of religion?

Would someone who is religious be a deal breaker? Would an Atheist be better ? I see downsides to both. Many religious folks believe in a deity and many Atheists belive in the State. I'm not religious though I grew up Christian. I totally reject religion. How does religion factor in to dating? Do you not ask? I had a woman say to me once " I'm religious and you are not . I don't think we are compatible." She already had kids and they moved out. How do you deal with religion and dating? Do you mention it upfront ?

I profess that I am having difficulty finding potential dates without any Craydar going off. What are my standards? - Integrity, Honesty,Empathy, values two parent households, non religious, non spanking , doesn't use make up to attract men, self knowledge. These attributes not too many people have. You would think Barnes and Noble would be a good place but I tried to tell s young woman that kids are better than a career at 21 due to the fertility window . And she kind of freaked out on me. In a store surrounded by books no less. What are some things I can do to help improve my chances? Is it only my location? How does location help or hinder me? I'm only 31 but it's difficult finding all the attributes I want. I want women to value my mind , ethics and personality over looks. Many women describe me physically as "cute". Not sure what that means. Am I a temporary play toy? What else can help me find a decent woman? I've looked at social clubs but most are FOE or the Eagles ( friendly society). Mostly men there. Where would you look?

Refusal to debate? Hmm I could be wrong but if you believe you are correct you would want to debate to see if you are in fact correct. Avoiding a debate to me, is sort of like you know you're wrong about something but you don't want others to find out . Could be just me. It is also possible that Sam Harris isn't confident in any of his positions but rather conflicted with them. If you are confident that you are correct then a public forum would be most illuminating to find out. Avoidance to me, is a kind of hypocrisy within the self and he isn't ( I don't think) keen on criticism. For if he liked criticism he would debate. Just my thoughts . What do you think?

I got ISTJ-A Logistician . Not so sure I buy the whole test though. Good start I suppose. But it does lack the space for me to elaborate why I gave a certain answer which is important

When I sleep at night for the life of me I don't think I dream. Why? Is this bad? There is just darkness when I sleep. I do confess I had trauma in my childhood. Is this the cause? It's not I don't recall dreams , I just don't dream. What are some potential causes for this?

I could reframe it that way but I don't want it to come off as a crutch though my accident can't be a crutch since it's not my fault. Guess my body had the will to live. I can confirm no light at the end of the tunnel or supernatural stuff like that either. Which means no brain damage

Already own UPB and I have Anatomy of the State by Rothbard

My disability is that my T-11 ( lumbar) had surgery and the right ankle has diminished strength. I cannot do what I could before due to my injured back . No heavy backpack or lifting. I can't even lift 50 lbs without pain. I can still walk but can't run due to my ankle.

I was ran over by a garbage truck in 2013 and have been disabled but can still walk. I cannot drive and work is very limited . In potential dates how do I mention this without it appearing " he has no car so no time for me"? If you have a physical disability like me but can still walk do you mention this upfront? I consider my disability a flaw of not my own doing. How do I offset this flaw so that I don't appear less valuable? I can only think of if my body is injured train the mind. So many people push back when I get into deep topics. It's like I am pointing out the delusions and the person with the delusion attacks me. How do I deal with this in terms of dating? I'm not dating currently but I want to eventually but it seems like I'm looking for a unicorn

What are ten great philosophy books I should purchase and read? I am looking at certain authors but uncertain which book they have is most important. Can you suggest one book for each author? If there are other authors what can you suggest? - Nietzsche - Aristotle: Nichomachian Ethics - Socrotes - Marcus Aurelias: Meditations - Adam Smith - FrederBastiat: The Law - Ludwig Von Mises - Ayn Rand: Atlas Shrugged You suggest two more authors and one book each

Hello, my name is Robert and I just joined the message board here . I come from a wretched and heinous childhood but $48,000 of therapy ( now I don't have much money left) has helped me alot. It's a shame that I spent that amount but most of what I have learned from life is from trial and error. I am reading philosophy right now and have a pretty decent grip on the subject. Ironically the State diagnosed me with ADD and ADHD. I have my doubts about the DSM manual myself. I am a former infantry soldier who got ran over in 2013 by a garbage truck. Currently sueing. But I had to rely on Disability and VA benefits due to my extensive damage to my back and right ankle. I can never drive again because of this. . My goal in joining this group is to be in a community that I can be valuable too. I have long got rid of everyone in my life that's toxic to me. I have nobody to help or support me. I've donated thousands to charity but oddly when I needed charity no response. There is an old saying which rings true I n my case " It is certainly true that the purpose of some people's lives is to serve as a warning to others" An excellent quote that I can relate to. I am a product of abuse so I know it's effects quite well. What are my goals? To help myself and this community and to gain more knowledge. More info: I have no kids, no debt and not dating( I do want to but it's difficult to find sane ppl). I am 31 and of mixed decent ( 78% Greek, Italian, Iberian ) and the rest Dominican with traces of Afrikaan) I may relocate to NH in a few years . Thank you for your time