Hey Casey,
It is great to see others taking the path to learning about raising children, before actually getting to it. I had not wanted kids during 20's, and came to the realization it would be a very rewarding part of life and better begin learning.
Who has been initiating the conversations of children?
Here are a some vids , not books. May want to look up parenting podcasts .
Truth about circumcision
Truth about breastfeeding:
The business of being born:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KvljyvU_ZGE
How children develop:
Avoid raising spoiled kids and the importance of allowance:
The perils of common core::
Untold truth about education: