thecurrentyear

Do a search for the topics in which you are interested in the podcast history. There are so many, and Stef treats them so thoroughly, that you will have plenty to keep you busy for a while... Please do your research prior to offering "constructive criticism."

Most NAWALTs no one will ever see out in the dating market. They have good, protective families who develop a tight network whereby they meet their beloved very young. They are not Lauren Southerns. Lauren Southern is an anomaly. A woman in a man's environment, who just happens to have been redpilled. Most NAWALTs never need to be redpilled, because they marry young and follow their man's lead. They never go out "into the world." That is the man's job.

Is this a serious comment?

So sad to be bitter about the biological differences between men and women

You use a lot of words to answer a simple yes or no question. I suspect it is a defense mechanism.

Yes! This is it exactly. Men don't need to acquire wealth and resources prior to attracting a woman. They need to demonstrate potential and drive and commitment to do so during the marriage. The woman is needed to solidify that ambition and support him in staying motivated. Babies certainly help to keep him motivated.

Meetjoeblack, I want to make sure I understand your argument. Is it basically that quality of "women" (in general, but in particular any that you have ready contact with) has dropped below acceptable levels, but that the quality of men is most assuredly adequate? Just checking to see if I'm getting what you're saying. The comment was a little hard to follow.

Very nicely stated! I hope some people listen to you.

Interesting analysis! Thank you for that. How do you feel while you are stating that conclusion?

What was the question?

Did already. You may respond to any of them whenever you so choose. TLDR: If he's worth staying with, then work on making yourself a pleasant and trustworthy wife. This is the way to bring out the best in your husband (and the only way to "make" him want to pursue SK). If he's intractable, leave him.

I don't think it's linear. Ask a timely question, get a timely response.

I think you made a mistake by letting her go off and "find herself" for 3 years. You were expecting young women looking for a captain to be whole, self-determined and, well...manly. Your description of falling in love with Stef is further evidence of my suspicion that you were expecting them to act like the strong, logical father figure that I assume you were lacking in childhood. (I'm sorry for that experience.) It is no surprise that after these girls went through the socialized college system that they now had opinions that don't jive with yours. Be careful what you wish for! They did grow and fully form without you by their side...and--surprise, surprise!--they didn't turn out like the man you were looking for. You should've been the strong leader they--and you--wanted and needed. Hey, you can't go back and change what's done. But, you can grow up and be more manly in your relationship with your girlfriend, if you intend to keep her. I can't really advise you on how to do that, as I'm not a man. But I'm sure some others will come along with competent help.

Great point! That too!

I quoted some of the points that I saw going in that direction. I think it's pretty clear she's waffling, and attempting to blame him while claiming innocence for herself. I see she has not asked, nor has she responded to my attempts to show her, how SHE can be better in the relationship.

Ooh, nice goal. How do you plan to go about that? I noticed there is a figure drawing open class near me. I always loved those.

Buuuut, you know that reaction could just as easily be caused by your own childhood issues you haven't worked through (and he just happens to be triggering)...you'll need to RTR-it-out in each one, if you want to know for sure.

Very nice! I think the Freddie Mercury in him would approve.

Ok then don't talk about him like he's a psychopath. Pick one. If he "just won't pursue SK" then read the books I posted. If he's awful and manipulative and becomes "furious" at simple things as you claim, then leave. You're going to need to pick a position though, if you want us to have any useful advice for you here. You cannot jump back and forth in claiming he's okay, but resistant, then that he's a pathological liar who yells at you at the drop of a hat. One or the other.

We must out-breed them!!

If he's a narcissist you need to get out. He will not change. Your fear of not finding someone better is sickening. Don't your children deserve a good father? If you can't supply one for them, you should not have any.

I feel very sorry for the husband being described here.

I haven't read the whole thing but I want to say that I think you've been brainwashed on the whole killing animals thing. What you describe sounds perfectly normal for 99% of all of human evolution eating animals. Have you read Anthem by Rand? It's very short, you should read it.

They're pretentious assholes.