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A lot of people shouldn't be allowed to procreate but, I would never suggest state power having that sort of control. I believe this is what Stefan/FDR is fighting against particularly along with Alex Jones/Info Wars among others such as Roger Stone. I am fascinated by the topic. I am trying for the life of me to figure out that path all the while exploring my consciousness and self-knowledge (i question if there is a difference). The state has enough power as is with controlling the allocation of one's resources, extracting male resources, and handing it over to women in the name of alimony or child support in poor attempt to mitigate cratered SMV. I find it interesting; the push from the left for open boarders and the right pushing for closed boarders; seeking to compartmentalize. TS, I once took a course on ethics, eugenics, and technology. The topic of designer babies came up. It made for a fascinating subject. People express a variety of different opinions in debate, some arguments being pretty hollow at best, and others not so much. People get really heated.

Read David Deida, way of the superior man. He speaks about the climate of gender neutrality and the fallout thereafter. All great questions. I am trying to figure it out. In friends who have a ideal partner, they found the girl young, dated, no ambiguity or any sort of weirdness/cuckodry/infidelity etc. You must do as others suggested with respect to exploring your consciousness and self-knowledge. I found a ton of info from FDR which is why I am here. Like you, I was seeking a answer but, I have not yet found it seeking it myself. A great book to read is "Way of the Superior man" by david Deida. He depicts the problems coming from gender neutral. The cucking in society that is becoming commonplace is a result from a lack of masculinity IMHO. I have spent the past ten years weening out my beta male provider genes. If I married in my early 20s, I would have got cucked, cheated on, and destroyed in the court systems. Jordan Peterson speaks about the women who leave law firms, get married, and have children. They quit. Many women I work with would much prefer to be stay at home moms. Those who are not married feel they must follow the leader of feminism and have a career. In doing so, they are cratering their SMV chasing all the wrong things, and increasing the student debt bubble. Again, you cannot declare bankruptcy on a student loan. This is blood money. Once the eggs go bad, once fertility is done, and the wall has been hit, it is GAME OVER. Upon a message here from a buddy I was looking at joining the RooshV forum. I thought there would be more answers here. I have searched and not found them all the while I am doing mass approaching. The goal for a wife/children/white picket fence supersedes any amount of rejection, flaking, blow outs. When I look back on my life, I can say, I put it all on the line, did everything I can to find my queen, wife, and mother of my children. If I cannot despite all that, I will have no regret, and can rest assured. Its a zero sum game. Think monopoly only, someone is getting all the girls. The beta male cuck provider is expected to keep society orderly. Raise the alpha male's babies and allocate resources to a woman after SMV is cratered and she takes half your shit. This is a real thing and until the risk is mitigated, it is not a brilliant idea or business venture to undertake. Are you dating at the moment? My advice would be, what if you approached three strangers a day? 365 days in a year. Assume how many digits you get from here? How many more numbers? How many more lays? you come out of scarcity, you become numb to rejection, and to flakes. You run into women you would have dated, committed to, and married only to see, she is fat now, a single mom, and her life is garbage. I think youth is the key. From what I have seen, if not for cratered SMV and a biological clock, a lot of women would never change. If you look at the divorce stats, its over half are divorce, and the majority of those are by women. The man's resources are extracted and the woman jumps back on tinder to ski down cawk mountain. No fall out. Women are shameless in the west. Entitled to the max. No consequences for being a whore. Some cuck will still give her the ring. Find someone you can spend your life with but, it is no joke. Women are not waiting till marriage.

I am sorry. I do not recall. I have binge watched a bunch of his videos. I believe it was embedded somewhere in either the Maps of Meaning or Personality course youtube videos. If you watch his new channel, he has clips, and it really breaks down things with respect to gender. Despite the gender neutral push, women spread their legs for masculine > feminine males. Women rely heavily on the passive dating role, waiting for men to approach or swipe right, and the cyclical spikes of dopamine be had. Sure, there are sloots that will approach men but, despite the changes in the workplace and times, women are still waiting for men to make the move most times. Despite Stefan's hard work, I think he is missing the mark on calling dating younger as being "creepy." It is not an argument anymore then a feminist screaming white privilege or rape culture. Women crying about the wage myth gap. It is on this level of thinking. I suspect Stefan is biased having a young daughter. I do think there is a drop off point but, even backwards rationalizing this "creepy" declaration; at what point does it become creepy? 2yrs? 4yrs? 5? 10? What? At 19, TS has tons of opportunities to 1) make something of his potentiality 2) acquire a woman worthy of giving the ring to before starting a life together (although, it is mostly a formality, and not a necessity). IMHO, I always thought I would but, as I get older, I am growing more doubtful. I have experienced more and more flings and short term relationships. All of which have really made me grow weary of the ordeal between the sexes. I cannot articulate the subject as well as Peterson. I marvel at the man's "hyper verbal" abilities and genius. Basically, the drop off point he said in Personality 2017 #15; if a person has not developed "potential" by 40, its pretty much GAME OVER. Sadly, the school systems are breeding more of this uselessness, social justice warriors, liberal arts majors, and women studies. A man must sift through all this nonsense and "vet" a good woman. I've approached hundreds of women. In my life, I could count very few worthwhile in pursuing a LTR with let alone considering spending a life together. There is a lack of free thinking. Victimhood is the calling card for the culture. Do yourself a favor and explore. Just know, it is not the way society and the world portrays things. A classic example of the biggest of issues I see now among many is; Hollywood's push for cuckoldry. Tv shows like House of cards/Breaking Bad, Shameless, HIMYM, Stranger things etc. all promote female "protagonist" cucking men. It is just a common theme in the west. If this was the middle east, they would be stoned. While I am not advocating this, you clear don't give these women your sperm let alone access to your resources. A woman I hooked up with was being sly over social media. Her behavior is begging for single mother victimhood and cratered smv. A pic surfaces online of a man kissing her forehead. The same woman had my dick in her mouth and my proteins swimming in her stomach. It is dark but, continue your quest for self knowledge. Refrain from anything dogmatic be it feminism, mgtow or pickup especially as being gospel. Know your true north, your values, and beliefs.

I wish I could be 19 again. Life does not work that way. I have had a piss poor dating experience throughout my life. I dated a few times a year usually by some random case of serendipity as a teen. If and when girls liked me, I usually botched it or fucked it up by being beta. I finally got one gf in my teens who I met online and likely was getting cucked upon reflection. She no showed me on new years in my freshman year of college and I was done with it. The worst part too was that, a college girl tried to hookup with me after hours in the photography room. Again, I was a college freshman and I fucked it up. A shy friend of mine later would tell me about a book that helped him meet girls. It was the Game by Neil Strauss. Here, I read and learned about pickup. About cold approach, about self-help, hypergamy, the red pill, of hypergamy, and nature of females when young/thin/attractive. I learned about sexual market value. I saw social conditioning, my eyes opened as i saw the contradictions between how my K selected happily married parents raised me and my sister versus how women actually were. Like, a girl telling me she is not like that and then, getting gang banged at a high school party. About a girl putting on the good girl shtick and then, cheating on her boyfriend sucking some other guy's dick at a party despite going to church on Sundays. I watched as my high school and college one-ittus/crush ended up becoming single moms via one night stand. I was crushed but, I found myself resenting my old self. I remember buying girls flowers and then, a girl just being a real bitch to me or bringing out some shitty mood and toxic behavior. I did not get it. Once my eyes opened, there was no going back, and things began to change. I started to talk differently. I began to actively pursue, approach, and put myself out there. I experienced a ton of rejections, blow outs, and flaky girls. I also began to get more numbers, dates, hookups, and pulls. I stopped pedaling this beta male cuck provider vibe. If a girl did not want to spend time with me, I would just approach another girl, and I stopped taking things to heart. I stopped caring to live up to the standards society and social conditioning had for me. I turned 30 this year. The last girl that gave me head is 21 (legal in my state). I picked up two girls recently. One 26 and another early 20s. Both flaked. The other day, a girl invited herself over to my house. It literally equates to NOTHING. It has no meaning. While I always saw marriage as a way of 'being,' since my eyes opened to the realities, that being, most women are skiing down cawk mountain, are cratering their SMV running through bad boys/playboys/alphas/sociopaths/psychos only to seek marriage as plan B for when those said males stop calling; I cannot fathom this route especially in the west. TS, I don't think MGTOW is the solution either. I thought about signing up to RooshV forum but, a recent video called Black Pill offered ZERO. MGTOW advocates taking your ball and going home. I am a huge fan of FDR and Stefan Molyneux. I've watched every video on MGTOW/Masculinity/Gene War fare series/Single moms or truth on Sex among a ton of others. He offers ZERO solution. Suggesting not dating single moms is common sense. Waiting for the government and state to fail, for the welfare state to dry up and for women needing men again IS NOT AN ANSWER. Stefan has said that dating younger is "CREEPY" in one of his videos (i will try to find and time stamp it). Again, not an argument. If you are going to get married, you want TO FORM SMV and not cratered SMV, not the MILKS GONE BAD, and BABY RABIES AND BULKING SEASON have kicked off. You sir are 19. You have the world to explore along with your consciousness and self-knowledge. Continue to do so. Approach lots of women. Date man. HAVE OPTIONS. Choose from said options. Based upon my life experience, women have not ever shown stability, nurturing, wifely, motherly, caring, loving, and other positive traits to indulge in the idea of spending my life with such a person. I pray. I meditate. I am reading the Gita, the bible, listening to Jordan Peterson's biblical series, and exploring my consciousness as well as self-knowledge. I have met a lot of tyrannical women, crazy party girls, skanks, sluts, cratered SMV, single moms, etc. Pickup and being red pilled will do this. I've come across many girls who are single moms, women i once dated, lived trashed, many who are now fat, and life is bad. I could have been that guy. I was not sure how to articulate it; what "it" was exactly. I just knew, there is power in "youth," in a woman's fertility, in biology, and in top form SMV. Peterson in a youtube video spoke of you as "potentiality." <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< here in lies the SOLUTION IMHO! A woman can run around as a attention whore, crater SMV, be a single mom, and go on a BULK CYCLE as the MILKS GONE BAD. She is entitled to and like most women in the west, many will or she can choose a more conservative life. She can follow social conditioning and feminism, compete with the men for the corner office, and be cheered off the cliff once SMV craters. And she can choose a life of self-knowledge, exploring her consciousness, reading a book, being a Queen with the entitlement, attention whore or 'sloot gonna sloot' rubbish. ^^^^^ The latter gets the ring. Don't get it twisted. Don't be fooled by society but, my friend, it is a cold hard world. There is darkness. My beta genes want to be passed on. I want to get married despite knowing all this, seeing this cuck fest embedded into the fabric of society, made mainstream on tv shows like breaking bad/HIMYM/Shameless/Strangerthings among others. ITS NOT OKAY. The woman with the ass pics on IG gets pulled, Eiffel towered, and facials not the ring. Good luck to you man. Take more shots. Let it play. Give your gifts to the world. BE WARNED. Don't listen to society. Trust your intuition. You're better off marrying your high school sweet hear then playing the field and watching women get cheered off the cliff. One of my biggest afterthoughts the past decade. Please share your story going forward.

Stay in your lane. - Gary Vee! You could pay a solid programmer or student/new grad money to build your site and to code for you. Otherwise, you can half ass it and bump around aimlessly. I remember learning HTML and basic coding languages once upon a time. I was never strong in code. I could reset a password and do basic analyst stuff but, a lot of places wanted to under pay. I tried looking into start-ups and they paid even less so, I changed career paths. If I was a strong programmer, I would have went full throttle at it, accumulated as much exp as I could infield before changing gears with my own endeavors. Peter Drucker speaks of opportunities, ones presented having experience in a particular field say, healthcare, IT, marketing, education, etc. and therefore, one would know the gaps to be filled. Areas of opportunity and money to be had. Reddit linked 250 free udemy courses, many of which had basic programming, and coding courses. I repeat, free. Search. It might still be available. Again, I think outsourcing it would be better and you can spend more time running the show. Doing what you already do best. I could have tried to continue programming but, why turn amateur programmer into mediocrity? Ideally, its best to stay in my lane, be a star performer doing whatever it is I do best.

Fantastic. It means you're available.

The post could not be more straight forward. Have you listened to the Gene Warfare podcast/youtube series? the dating pool is highly r selected. Even those from a K selected environment are bombarded by R selected culture. Teen pregnancy is common theme. I remember high school. Society promotes this as well as single mother victimhood and 'sloot gonna sloot.' Stefan recently did a vid on masculinity and the celebration of men day. Men are pissed. Despite all the nonsense about how men treat women (pedals more victimhood which women eat up), its women (not men) that are caught red handed, "rate 80% of men below average." Source - Pof link & Helen Smith author of Men on Strike. What women fail to grasp is that, when thin, young, and attractive, they have CHOICE. When the milk goes bad, when SMV craters, playboy stops calling. I've mentioned before, one of the best players I know who has stated, he never has had a dry spell in his life (he models). When asked if he ever wants to settle down, have children, get married, white picket fence? His response? "Mate, new girls are turning 18 everyday." I was floored. I was jaw dropped by this statement. He is fucking savage. Then again, what do women do with their golden vagina at top form SMV? I will never be like him nor do I try to but, I have learned a lot from his process which is mostly being enthusiastic and extremely comfortable in his own skin. He wont the genetic lottery. You cannot fabricate this. Its luck of the draw. Again, I've listened to countless podcasts from Stefan but, there is emphasis on a problem with no solution. Stefan would declare my friend's pursuit of youth as being "creepy" as he stated in on of his vids before (still seeking to find that time stamp). This is not an argument. Top form SMV is in fertility, in youth, and when she has options. Men grow into their SMV top form through accumulation of resources, lifestyle, game, etc. Its dating Olympics these days. Its like the game of Monopoly. A zero sum game. Winner takes all and the rest take zero or low hanging fruit. Solution? Mass approaching. Pursuit of top form SMV. Stake claim in free market. Live a good life. Marriage is only for top form SMV or not at all.

If your point isn't worth time stamping Stefan would dismiss your nonsense as would Peterson. If it was not worthy of time stamping, your post is not worthy of listening to but, I digress. I saw a link saying that Peterson is making 60K a month off social media/youtube/biz ventures but, I am sure you are doing better. Wait wut?

I just fired back at your nonsensical post. If you called into FDR/Stefan and accused him of saying something but, did not time stamp it, he would laugh in your face. Time stamp sources.

I agree but, I would imagine a variety of elements are at work. Nature vs. nurture, environmental factors, genetics, etc. I think someone in an environment that is highly motivated can help boost one's motivation and willpower. I am not saying they become a workhorse but, definitely boost a deviation or so. Hard to quantify exactly but, it is a interesting feat. I read the book, "Talent is overrated" by Geoff Colvin. The book depicts world class while debunking the myth of people dismissing greatness as "talented" by pointing out the early beginnings. Starting at a young age, putting in countless hours builds up those neural pathways in the brain, and making that mind/body connection. The book does what all great books do in asking a question; what does world class talent require? It goes onto point out that a world class violinist has put in absurd amount of hours by the age of nine. Someone starting out much later in life would never be able to catch up. Someone like Sidney Crosby or Wayne Gretzky dismissed as world class talent but, it would then dismiss the time they spent playing pond ice hockey, stick handling, getting stronger, putting in the time, and becoming world class. I think someone else could be putting in the time and not getting the result these men did but, the book put out a premise that was similar to that 10,000 hour route to world class. There is no escaping hard work even if "talented" at one's baseline. i believe willpower and motivation coincides with that driving force that got these people at practice waking up at 5am, eating healthy, training their mind, and body to fire at such a high level. It is a incredible read I highly recommend for anybody interested.

My impression of you is really low testosterone and soon to be cucked. Good luck with that.

Banished fathers + single mom household = Automated R Selection children. I think red pilling the shit out of someone can help change the culture but, there is definitely a deficit to be worked through from said starting point.

I find myself in a similar position. Seeking more resources and a better lifestyle but, I realize I've spent a significant portion of my life chasing phantoms (career, women, status, etc). The times are changing. A lot of women are making money. When it comes to dating, LTRs, and marriage, this needs to be considered IMHO. I know a lot of men who had a wife or gf that was career oriented. The sec children come, its bulking season, and its homemaker time. She doesn't return back to work so, the man is then stuck swing for the fences to bring home the bacon. I think its ideal to have one income assuming you make high income. If she works a shitty job, it doesn't offset what is being lost from child care. I think entrepreneurial ventures are ideal. If you can find a way to take what you are intrinsically talented at, put to use your skills, and interests in such a way, you can turn a profity; this is the lane to get into. I know a man who left a corporate job to start a fitness club. He is doing well. By no means rich but, he is not in that rat race of corporate drone anymore. Gary V speaks about getting in whatever lane you are talented at. Peter Drucker always talked about turning your talents into star performorer rather than going from amateur to mediocre. Good luck man. I am sure you are talented enough to problem solve the direction you want your life to go with your family. How does your wife fit into all this?

I am listening to the biblical series by Peterson and I am finding it enlightening. Its a limiting perspective to blanket statement a woman as being bad for clubbing. Infidelity? Single mom? Neglectful parenting? Abuse? initiating domestic violence before clinging to victimhood when put in place? Yeah. Sure. Its hard to fathom your having said you date or dated teen girls who are not attending these said places now or ever? Are you making said claims? If she is bad for clubbing and then, you date her, what does this say of self? I agree with you in that, finding a wife in a bar or club is as bad a idea as wifing up someone off tinder. Marrying cratered SMV. Giving the ring to single mother victimhood. This thread is basically dead. There is little with respect to actually dating or process orientation in here. I've found statements of intent work much better then flattery, white knightdom, and placating oneself to her every whim. There is this presumed sense of value without any reform not matter how shitty a person maybe. I've seen on several message boards about how if a woman is not interested, its probably his fault, and it says nothing of her entitlement. I watched a recent podcast with Joe Rogan where a woman was on her high horse and telling men to fuck off. The guy asked a group of women for a lighter. A significant amount are not wifey material let alone LTR status. This assumed sense of value is just present. I cannot remember the last time I met a woman who actually reads a book that is not fifty shades, twilight or some sort of fuckery social conditioning. Needless to say, it makes for more short term prospects and little to be salvaged.

No. A clinical psychologist has no idea of info? The man had Timothy Leary's (Tibetan Book of the dead Manual) job at Harvard. I repeat, he is a psychologist. You offer nothing of insight, sources, content, and logical reasoning behind said stupidity. This is the equivalent of a screaming feminist "rape culture" or "misogyny." You've digressed into SJW level of stupidity. Congrats.

People are retarded. Allegory goes over their head. People are more interested in their social media feed, internet dating, and following social conditioning. The amount of women with IG ass pics online, girls piled into gyms in stretchy pants several sizes too small, and the back of their shirt tucked into their pants to show off sexual markets. There is a lack of respect for the patriarchy, for God, for religion, and a promo on living in sin; missing the mark. My favorite of the series was his depiction of the Gospel of John, "In the beginning was the word and the word was with God, and the word is God." Being a doctor, a psychologist, and prof, he extrapolates the meaning behind this; as if to relate this back to consciousness, something we still know very little about. He speaks of the people in the biblical stories as being flawed and far from perfect. He also speaks of the mindset of sacrificing a animal and then evolving as sentient; eating from the tree of knowledge, eyes opening, and knowing of good and evil. Knowing that there is a past, present, and future. That one could sacrifice the present for a better future. That destiny or fate could be bargained with. This is man is fucking incredible. I would love see a series or just be at one of his TedTalks. I see a infinite amount of insight from these. I will continue to watch them as time goes on. I've taken a lot away from these. Peterson is really well articulate and the way he interprets the stories is profound. I have searched for meaning in this life like the rest of us. It seems chaotic at times. Hearing him read the story of Noah amount a variety of others, you come to really understand the depths of this darkness, the chaos, and what its like walking the tight rope of ying and yang; harmony and chaos. I've lost a lot of people to death from a very young age. Similarly, I can relate to Nihilism and to that Aussie philosopher he spoke of several times throughout these biblical series; that because there is so much suffering through 'being,' the ability to fathom bringing a child into the world is hard to comprehend. When i see people and the way society is, I see blissful ignorance. Eyes closed. I realize time and time again especially here that, there is something to be said of bearing your cross, transcending one's suffering somehow, and living a life worth remembering. Since coming across Peterson, I have invested in his book, Maps of Meaning which I am working my way through (shocking he wrote that at 25). I also am in the process of going through Past Authoring Suite to work out some of my demons seeing the value in a variety of the things Peterson has put forward. I will work on Present Authoring and Future Authoring thereafter. I highly recommend it to anybody in search of self-knowledge. The insights are incredible as has this series.

This offers very little. The same could be said of the R selected cesspool of online dating/tinder/pof etc. I could be mistaken but, did you not say you've used this as a resource? As for sluts, they are everywhere and the same girl you meet at the gym or coffee house is not to be presumed any better or more decent then the one you found in a club or bar. It is a culture and its supremely R selected. I've seen just about every FDR podcast on the subject but, no solution is involved outside not dating single moms. We are on the same page about youth but, even then, you are sifting through stupidity at times. Aesthetically appealing but, lacking in life experience not to mention a variety of other things. Similar to opportunities and endeavors economically speaking, I see the future elsewhere and the same for those seeking marriage. Given the climate of dating, the court laws, and divorce courts, its just not ideal.

I am not following much of this post. The thread was about roaming and Stefan's podcast. Given the traumas in my life, I am doing the best to mitigate the damage, and pursue the sort of life I want for myself. I cannot combat this culture outside, not marrying a single mom or cratered SMV. I am not even sure how you are combat a divorce and being single. I approach and do pickup. You are constantly sifting through trash. I would go as far to say, 9/10, expect the girl to be a product of a single mom household. Furthermore, is R selected and reciprocates to said behavior. Even a girl born in a K selected environment caves to the peer pressures of R selected culture. Women seek beta male cuck provider for resources after SMV craters. Marriage is a plan B project for resources and children. As for self-actualization, this is a life long project of self-knowledge. Listening to Peterson, he spoke about a Aussie philosopher who argues the pointlessness of life and retorts a cynical perspective on why the bother of having children with all the chaos in the world. It offers no solution but, doom and gloom. Life easily presents this perspective. I am not sure what your solution is for the current dating climate which is clearly not ideal for men or women. The dating pool is mostly R selected. Those who are K selected are typically in relationships. Stefan offers no solution but, knocks pickup and has no answer to the current predicament. He hung up on a woman caller who "resents" her marriage. This is what men await. A woman competing for the corner office, banging the CEO, and bad boy who wont give her ring until of course the eggs begin to go bad. desperate hour sets in and on comes the good girl shtick to rope in some shmuck. MGTOW offers no solutions either. Taking your ball and going home is not an answer.

Begging to be a single mom before 16. A lot of women are emulating this, the IG ass pics, the social media diva behavior. Marriage in the west seems like the thing of the past. The thing is, most men are cucks, betas, and will still foot the bills when the milks gone bad. When SMV has cratered. I am making a stand of my own. Unless I find wifey, I wont get married, I wont have children nor place house with someone.

One of my friends is a real bad ass. Super stoic. Experienced quite a bit of tragedy in his life and he is a mental and physical juggernaut. He blew me away in saying, that if this was the wild west, and brothels were legal, why the fuck would anybody get married? I was jaw dropped by the comment. He has a better close ratio then myself. I remember last summer at a music festival, I pointed out some girls checking him out. He said he banged already. I asked which. He said all of them lol To see someone like this, just rampaging single life, and still, in the mindset of not seeing the value of marriage if brothels were around, it sort of put things into perspective. I saw another friend made me aware that even the hottest of strippers are turning tricks for the right price. Again, I don't want to live on this planet anymore. I know everything is super PC these days. Promo for 'sloot gonna sloot' and then, "man up. Give her the ring" when SMV craters. I sort of see what my buddy is saying. Thanks man. He had more experience as a entrepreneur. He always pushed the importance of biz and I never saw it. As I got older, I see it, and there is something to be said of someone that is able to generate that income. Lower your standards? How do you mean? Quite honestly, I think this is what fucks a lot of men over. They find a semi decent, butter face or 6, give her the ring, and get cucked/divorced. Little does he know, little miss butter face was like tarzan swing from cawk to cawk in her youth. A budd of mine that is married even gave me the "their biological clock" speech. The thing is, dude sees the woman that gave him her teens, her 20s, and biological clock means something. To me, this doesn't mean anything. yes, I comprehend the realities here but, I am not captain save a hoe. I was super beta as a teen and in my early twenties. Those days are over. Listening to Jordan Peterson speak of the biblical series, extrapolating the meaning, and pulling from the allegory, its helped me find meaning in my own struggles. I listened to Peterson depict the chaos in the time of Noah. It is likely my own anxieties and fears but, I can relate to this (may recall me describing it like trench warfare). The dating pool is pretty chaotic. I think we all need to make are arc, have our covenant with God, follow our true north, give our gifts, and leave the it all out there. There was a woman age 23 seeking advice and help. Said she was sleeping around, liberal, and woke up from the madness. It does exist. Its just few and far between. It's intriguing, not promising anything plus I have a few books in line. I did however note it down. Thanks and also for giving me a reason to read with it. I am not following. RSD is basically, spam approach, date lots, hookup, have options, choice, and then, pick not from out of scarcity the way most men do. Marry cratered SMV, raise the alpha male's children, and when she leaves, the woman is the victim plus gets your resources. Note my ambivalence! R.T.R. - real time relationships - yet another eye opener, independently btw it was written by Stefan Molyneux. Curious, we've been doing it to a certain degree and I believe it's very much how you experience genuine connection with anyone if they choose to. @meetjoeblack! B Yeah. I consume in excess. I probably need to unwind more.

For me, I found myself in an incredible place in my life and then, I experience great tragedy in my life. Women give zero fucks. Nobody cares. Maybe close family or friends but, this life is not all rainbows and gum drops. I am making the most at being single. I am putting myself out there. Obv, some days/nights go better then others. Well, I've met some pretty awesome women who are young, who have had some life experience, faced tragedy head on, and came out stronger rather than this victichood culture we have going in full force. I completely agree with you. I am more curious as to your actual approach and how you are meeting these younger women. I basically talk to lots of people. Guys are friends, wings, partners to go to the bar, club, and gym with. Girls are well potential dates, ons, fwb, fuck buddies, friends, etc. Anyway, curious is curious????

For the longest time, I thought, if the fabric of my entire world got ripped to shreds, there must be some sort of counter-balance to off set or mitigate the damage. NOPE! It has not been easy. It has been a struggle as has been my experience dating with women. My father will never meet my Queen, my future wife, mother of my children. He will never hold my son or daughter. My sister will never get to be an aunt. I've been a rock for my mother but, as you've likely noticed, I have my demons as we all have but, I am doing the best I can given this life journey. I keep asking myself, what would make this life worth while? I want to travel, start a business, be financially stable enough to run it from anywhere in the world, and not have to struggle the way I have most of my life. I want a wife and children. I want the white picket fence. Unfortunately, I've never met a woman I would give the ring to and I've never been in love. I did have a gf where I stopped looking elsewhere and I thought I was in love but, I was a teen. First gf. I was a kid. A boy. Not a man. I was infatuated. Could you try again and be blunt. Don't hold back. I enjoy the chatter. I've read Think And Grow Rich by Napolean Hill. He speaks of mastermind groups and men collectively getting together, holding each other to their statement, and to walk the walk. This sort of synergy is practical. With respect to dating, I've recently next two girl. I look at it like the story of the Trojan War. "Burn the BOATs. CONQUER or PERISH!" That Arnold, T2 line comes to mind; "Come with me if you want to live?" As in, you meet women, you have this vision for yourself, for the life, for the place you want to manifest and make into reality. You extend the hand, that olive branch in whatever form possible, and she either takes the bait or is lost in the abyss. I've lost count of times, women I dated are single moms, fat, low lives, and just fallen from grace. Plummeting SMV, SMV craters, and then, victimhood tangents follow. Anyway, I am really focusing on self knowledge and I can only see myself investing time in with someone who is on that life path. As for your questions: Angry? No. I wouldn't say so. When I meet when, I am extremely high energy, enthusiastic, and I don't neg. If anything, I could be guilty of being too positive. Then again, I would find my personality online especially here is overtly critical but, it coincides with Stefan Molyneux. The dynamic between men and women is nothing to be thrilled or joyous about. I think if I were to have gotten married younger, I would be divorced, cucked, and screwed financially. I think then I would have gone pretty pissed. I am admiring the fact you did not go this route. Maybe. I don't know. I am meditating. I am listening to Jordan Peterson's biblical series. I am reading the bible, Maps of Meaning, the Yoga Sutras, Bhagavad Gita, and a exploring my consciousness. I recently indulged in DMT (Dimethyltryptamine). In doing so, you come to realize that, in the grand scheme of things, very little matters. The question then is, what matters? The realization put in check the things I value. Family for instance. God. Making that connection. After my experience with great loss, I never lost my faith but, I became angry to question as to what I did to deserve this faith. I've let go and I've just sat with that pain. Being single, I've had to sit with this, and I've come to be grateful. I came back from this trip in awe. I was overcome with gratitude. I felt born again. One day, I want to go to Peru one day and do the tea ceremony with Shamans. Maybe with my future partner in crime. In learning about the Yoga Sutras, I've become aware of the obstacles: Attachment/Ego/Ignorance/Aversion/Clinging to this life! Rather then mourn and create a victimhood self concept, I GOT FUCKING PISSED! Have you ever read Power vs Force? Anger is not vibrating at a high frequency but, it is definitely higher then say depression, apathy, victimhood, etc. The thing about anger was, it set fire under my ass to climb out of the pit I found myself in (think Dark Knight Rises). Life destroyed, loss, and no time for a pity party or all would be lost (which is another story i prefer not to get into). Funerals are not cheap. I was saving for a good school at the time. Instead, I had to pay bills, funerals, and make a variety of arrangements. Another reason, if I ever have children, I will definitely get life insurance. Could you clarify your last question. Thanks again for the chatter. I feel compelled to go into the free market and dating market. Put my best foot forward and never look back. No regrets. When I leave this world, I lived at my edge, I gave my gifts, and put my best foot forward. I can go out knowing that and be content thereafter. In the end it is more important but, at this point, it is out of my hand. There is that saying, God helps those that help themselves. I surrender. I am going full boar. I sin. I miss the mark but, I am doing the absolute best I can while I am alive.

I like your rational as usual. It has been my experience that, when women experience any form of tragedy, victimhood kicks off. Stepping up and getting tough, fighting back, and having some courage is not the way of the western women anymore. When my father and sis passed in a accident, I have never seen such courage in a woman, in my mother who did not curl up in a ball, and play dead the way I see most western women. Its sitting on government programs, parade of free money, and victimhood. I am a product of the nuclear family. My father did not leave. He was taken from this world. My sister was not another typical jump off 'sloot gonna sloot.' She had a father at home. She had values, believes, dreams, and aspirations outside promoting the pussy bomb on social media. I've been handed some tough cards in life. I don't know anything else but to take it on the chin, to work harder, to be grateful that I had a father and sister, and do the best that I can until I leave this world. I am fortunate that I had those experiences, that I had a father, a family dynamic, and when I lost these people who were so embedded into the fabric of my existence, something was gone forever that I could not get back. Then again, it was all the more special because I had something worth losing and I cherished every moment of it. It is my hope to pay that forward with a family of my own but, I have more self knowledge to obtain, education in its many forms, and experiences to be had. I respect and admire your path given your headspace, value of marriage despite previous experiences, and your dedication to self-knowledge. Your dedication to philosophy and truly seeking something of intrinsic value. As I said, I have been listening to Jordan Peterson's biblical series. I am fascinated by the holy trinity, the symbolism behind the number three in many world religions, and the emphasis of the unity of marriage; that the two become one based upon this sacrament. In keeping with that symbolism, the closest to being with 'God' is in that unity of two becoming one since, we cannot become three. I like how Peterson is taking a scientific and doctor approach to extrapolating the allegory from these ancient stories while shedding the light on the value behind them all. I think this value has been lost in our society for sometime yet, many women value it still because its 'her special day,' essentially, another opp for attention whore which its clearly not suppose to be about. If there is ZERO CONSEQUENCES for divorce, for cuckoldry, for 'sloot gonna sloot,' for skiing down cawk mountain, and for cratering SMV, IT WONT CHANGE LADIES AND GENTLEMEN. I recently watched Reign. A remake in and old tale. Obviously, put on by Hollywood and made into a drama with theatrics. In one episode, a girl who was suppose to be Princess was nearly raped by a spy. By no fault of her own, they wanted to remove her status as princess because of tainting of 'royal blood.' I am not saying we need to go back to the fucking stone age but, the lines for what is acceptable for marriage have not only be crossed. The lines have been dumped on and then some.

While I agree that YOUTH doesn't exactly guarantee shit, the sentiment is not lost. A woman's top form in SMV is YOUTH. I would say, most men settle down with the first semi decent looking woman when she has spent the vast majority if not all of her prime skiing down cawk mountain. A recent FDR video depicted a idiot trying to argue she has no resentment in her marriage when she specifically voiced it. Not shocking, Stefan terminated the call shortly after having spun his wheels with said retard for awhile. Not shocking, she is a woman studying FEMINIST? Someone insert a nelson munz HAHA meme! I agree with peaceful parenting for the most part but, I've seen kids especially this current generation step up to their parents. My parents would have beat my ass if I ever tried that shit. There are definitely kids who step up to their parents and could definitely use a good ass kicking. That Cash Me Outside skank comes to mind. If I ever spoke to my mom like that at 13 I would have got power bombed by my mom. lol Funny man Russell Brand once said, "The future is NOW, ONLY LATER!" If a man marries THE MILKS GONE BAD, WOMAN SKIING DOWN CAWK MOUNTAIN, seeks beta male cuck provider once her best days are over, it wont end well, and NOBODY GIVES A FUCK. Feminism freaks out. Laws are made. Resources are allocated. MGTOW loses their shit about divorce/family court, losing their children, you hear fucking CRICKETS. Nobody cares. Again, I like the debate, the convos, the thought process in mind. I love the FDR podcasts but, again, waiting for government to fail, for the state to collapse, and women to need men again is NOT AN ARGUMENT. Moralizing about pickup (more FDR not you) is the same as virtue signaling. Men propose. Women dispose. That has been a way of things. I am changing my perspective as time goes on. Like, I would attempt to mitigate the fallout, go into damage control, and try to fix a LTR/fling/fwb/fuck buddy. I don't now. If she is sly, a jump off, I let it fall through the cracks, and I keep on moving forward. I cannot fathom what a lot of women think is okay now a days. I was walking through a grocery door today and a woman nearly let it hit me in the face. This is a significant portion of women. This entitlement, shit don't stink attitude, and diva behavior until SMV plummets. I say, FUCK IT. God forbid, we ever go to war, its every man/woman for themselves. I am not losing sleep or going out on a limb for a perfect stranger. Like, that shit that went down a couple years ago where feminists and politicians let Germany fall prey to psychos; if this were to happen here in America, I would absolutely lose my mind. If I did not have a wife, I would be their protecting my mom and that is it. Gf or wife only if I had one but, I will not stay claim to the old 'women and children first.' Children sure. Women. NOPE! You want equality. Front line for you too. I am thinking of a solution but, until the laws change, until women clean up their act, I cannot see myself marrying in the west. I will approach. I will meet lots. I will live self knowledge, explore my consciousness, educate myself through said approach, and put my best foot forward. If a woman is not in sync with this, I will proceed until I find one that is elsewhere but, I am not falling prey to this trap. I know as long a men are lining up for this cuckoldry, are rewarding shitty behavior, and footing the bills with single moms, shit wont change. A free thinking woman in the west is super rare. Its all the more special because of that obvious fact. YOUTH seems to be the key.

BitCoin originally was a great investment (initially) being among one of the first real digital currency then, they went full fucking retard, turned it into regular currency, and devalued it. I am not saying, you cannot make money on it but, when it wasn't a government regulated/based currency, it had infinite more value. As with gold, silver or anything; take the Peter Drucker example from one of his books. His father came into some money. He went all in on a business venture which was a coffee maker. Think POKER, CALL >>>> :ALL IN!" This happened just before the stock market crash and great depression. Imagine how things went when shit went tips up? Needless to say, EVERY SUCCESSFUL INVESTOR WILL TELL YOU TO DIVERSIFY YOUR PORTFOLIO! I am a investor but, a complete amateur to some of those out there be it online or wherever. Seek experts but, I am willing to bet, they will give you the same advice and for much less. The obvious is, to have a 401K. Save minimum 10% on every dollar. If you don't see it, you wont touch it so, have it come off your pay and allocated accordingly. Real estate IMHO is a great investment but, like anything, there is a shit ton of risk involved and one wrong LTR/DIVORCE/SEPARATION, and you could kiss it all goodbye. With that said, I would never move a gf/woman/wife into my current household or staking ALL IN.