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This is the case but, daddy government allocates your resources for when women trap a men and get pregnant on purpose. This is where there are holes in this little plot. Furthermore, read 'The mating Mind' by Geoffry Miller. Very few males have access to a variety of women IN THEIR LIFE TIME. Never mind options on a consistent basis. Lets say, someone here (me) does pickup. Lets say, I approach 100 women in a week. Lets say I get 10 numbers being on the bottom end of the genetic lottery. 10% ratio. Lets say 7 flake. 3 date. I have sex with 1 girl. We either date for a bit or she tries to cuck me and then, I go approach more girls. The process begins again. I have not fucking clue about success rate, the analysis for pickup or ratios for my own experience. I just know, a significant portion of my life and the life of most men, we are 'chasing phantoms.' Carrot on a string in the form of a pink wet hole. Even if you acquire, she is not going to stay thin, attractive, and hot forever. So, you get this mini time period where she is great and then, a life time where she is sloppy, track pants, pair shaped, and pissy. It just seems like a losers game as is the case with marriage given the outrageous amount of women that file for divorce and jump back on the pole be it tinder or pof. Pending where you are with game, with the genetic lottery, SMV, resources, etc. it makes a huge difference in access to women. A outrageous amount of women sleep with the top percentile of men. This is a reality and men will get cucked or marry some whore after Smv plummets or craters all together. The answer is that, most men would do that, and not think twice about it. A vagina is a vehicle to push your genes on throughout the ages. Women are chasing careers, cratering them SMV, and abeing a booty call during their thinnest years. A male friend of mine preached about their biological clock. He and another friend are married. Acknowledge, these said males had their woman when thin, young, and attractive dedicated tot heir LTR in their teens or early 20s. Of course, this creates a level of compassion. As a single male as been the case most of my life in between flings (due to pickup), I hear something different when this topic comes up. These guys won the genetic lottery and acquired a young hot girl. All is well now. Who knows about the future? I believe their route of a girl young and dedicated is key otherwise, I am better off on this path I am on now. Even if i were pushing forties, I would still want a girl in her 20s. Mid to late 20s but, I would rather pursue this and fail then sign up for cuck central.

But, similar to Stefan's 'not an argument,' this is not a solution. Taking your ball and going home is not the answer IMO. Then again, Stefan educates with philosophy but, he seems to think the solution is letting the government fail, for the parade of free money, and the single mom welfare state needing men again. #NOTHANKS! I would rather be a MGTOW or let my genes get weeded out of existence. This is not a solution. I came here to find one. Its purely a numbers game. I do a lot of cold approach pickup. Its awful seeing what is out there and even more so if you sit by passively dating hoping someone great picks you. The hungry don't get fed. By approaching, you take your dating life by the balls, you go out, you talk to lots of women, you pickup those you have chemistry with, and you proceed forward. Then, you approach more. In the process, I have experienced numerous rejections, flaking, single moms, crazies, liars, psychos, and then, there are a few awesome women. Again, Stefan gets very condescending here as he does when men choose to date younger. Again, this is not an argument. I agree with Stefan that too young 18+ is obviously quite a gap but, why would I date women pushing 30; more my age? Years of being a pin cushion for alphas. Now seeking beta cuck provider? I am nearing 30. I have a near middle income. Home owner. I don't carry student debt or lines of credit. I am pretty conservative despite pickup. I am just split here. I HAVE NO SOLUTION BUT, I AM WORKING ON SELF KNOWLEDGE< EXPLORING MY CONSCIOUSNESS< REASON & EVIDENCE! YOUTH IS THE KEY IMO! A woman dedicates her teens and or early side of her twenties before baby rabies comes into play. Stefan declared youth "creepy" when men date really young. This is BS. I want to better organize my thoughts and call FDR because Stefan has changed my life and I am grateful for this but, I disagree with staking myself in the dating market by approaching and by dating younger. More my age are single moms and beat up hardened. Its gross. The only way I can see a man marrying today is if a woman has a great job, is young, and attractive, having dedicated herself to said male in her youth. Otherwise, she was like most women today, jumping from dong to dong like Tarzan on a vine until SMV craters.

Its a reason why I love Stefan/InfoWars/Jordan Peterson/Lauren Southern (who is the closest thing to a NAWALT a MAN WILL EVER FIND) etc. They are bringing the war of words on the left and all that is victichood. The left cannot compete so, crying foul, racism or sexist is the fallback plan which is not an argument. Then again, I indoctrinate myself with these gems of insight but, I wont post on reddit or take charge via my personal life. They will come and dox you, get you fired, and ruin your life which is pretty scary. Some post on a msg board taken out of context will be made to sound racist, sexist, and hating of women or promoting genocide or some fuckery.

IMO as well as experience, marriage is usually fallback plan for when attention stops coming. Yes, many women want to get married but, I've seen it as a nonissue or concern until of course the dating market no longer provides. This is when the girls begin to put on the good girl act. 50% is the general argument. Bro, its higher in many states. Its very high of college educated women and really high when looking at certain ethnic backgrounds. It is pretty scary. To argue marriage is the best route, I totally agree but, the V is aimed at the sociopaths, and douche bags when thin, young, and attractive. When pair shaped, its now time to rope in some schmuck. And like lambs marching to their slaughter, men continue to line up in single file, and follow to their demise. Until an alternative means is suggested, until family court, and divorce courts are adjusted accordingly, what intelligent man with resources is going to follow suit? Free thinking goes a long way.

Reddit is very leftist and while it has a huge user base as well as following, I always expected this doxing. Its a reason why I stayed clear.

That is what I am doing. I will date but, only SMV top form otherwise, I will remain single. This is why I am not in agreement with Stefan. I know the value of marriage is there for the children as Jordan Peterson says. The problem is that, women dispose and men propose. Women when at their peak of SMV, its like a pinball machine of sex for psychopaths and sociopaths. Similar to the recent video/podcast, I just see the same patterns again and again. She is trying hence her call in but, I just see the pattern and sequence of events. I want no part of it. A woman dedicated to self knowledge goes a long way. Its just so few and far between but, once SMV craters, its always victimhood and clinging to the state.

I am interested in people and I find it difficult. It is the law of attraction. LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE. If you aren't interested in people, people wont be interested in you, and it will bleed into other areas of life. If you take a approach to meet new people, they will feel your inauthenticity, and this hollow attempt to interact but, it will go to deaf ears because at your baseline, it coming from scarcity. As I get older, I make it a priority to interact with new people, and to talk to a few new girls everyday. As a single male, I think it is a ideal option rather then pursuing the leftist liberal internet passive dating approach. Talking to people, I can meet new guy friends, and with women, I can date, have a LTR or make a friend. She knows more girls and if she is not friend zoning, a actual friend, the likelihood she actually introduces me to girls is pretty high otherwise, you cut all ties to avoid being 'emo tampon.' Watch the secret or read the book man. If you take away anything, you can learn about universal laws; law of attraction and the law of state transference; basically, what you feel, other people will feel it too. Go first. Put positive energy forward. Be enthusiastic. Talk. Interact. Build rapport. I am hopeful this will help me in business and public speaking.

Women I overheard talking about "women age like milk." A woman was then upset about her aging, having cratered her SMV, spent her youth like the woman in the 'single ladies' Atlantic article. 20s were for "finding myself." As in, "sloot gonna sloot." Of course, its victimhood time, demonize man, and the blame game because self ownership and responsibility has no place in female logic arguments. Women can age terribly but, a lot of it has to do with partying, sleeping around, treating her body like a dump truck, and accumulating high kill count as well as bastard children out of wedlock. If not for pickup, I would have easily been cucked, bought into social conditioning, been a beta male provider, married a woman after she cratered her SMV, and not take the time to actually become a man in my prime which takes a long time. Its about living at your edge, blowing past your fears, challenging oneself to overcome things like rejection, taking a stance in this life, dedicating life to self knowledge, reason, and evidence while pursuing your dream with or without a woman. I think a harem is a male fantasy. Juggling multiple girls be it through online game or through cold approach pickup is not a cake walk. Some girls get flaky. Some numbers get played out. Some girls go cold and others that disappeared come around. Women are running on the same life track as us men but, at a much faster speed and therefore, are requesting serious LTR much faster due to fertility and biology. IMO if not for this decline in fertility, in biological clock, and cratering SMV, I think women would be content with sleeping around for the rest of their days. With daddy government, with the parade of money, and the welfare state, there is little fallout for her. There is a safety net so, female recklessness is without direct consequences until of course, its too little too late. Truth on sex portrays the dangers of promiscuity, female kill count, and risks of a woman being hyper sexualized at a young age as well as the gurantee of divorce thereafter. Not hard to imagine. Furthermore, this same reason and evidence puts a stake through the heart of every vampire trying to blood suck the resources out of men after SMV has cratered. There is a key to youth and I cannot stress this enough. I know Stefan emphasizes the risk for divorce once the gap is so large. I think he even went as far as defining it as "creepy" with respect to huge age gaps. Still, this is not an argument. A woman age 18 meets a man 28. When she is 25, he is 35. As his resources and earning power increases, a woman nears her SMV top form. And if not dedicating these vital and important years to a man, why would he marry her? With pickup, girls come and others drop off so, if you sit back and play the LTR game, it pedals towards women in the short term who have all the options but, more opportunity presents itself later on. So, once the game and her SMV begins to shift and go south, its suddenly a different expectation comes along. I always recall women not wanting a LTR in her late teens and early 20s. These same women are very sexualized later on when not willing to give the time a day but, their competition is younger and better attractive so, it becomes irrelevant then.

A lot of women who are ridiculously attractive actually believe that Drake is their boyfriend. Obviously, he screws other women. 25 sitting on 25mill. Female hypergamy. Its funny how society demonizes man. Man is a dog but, who has the most sex? Who is sleeping around? Who craters their SMV and then, uses shaming language and manipulation to rope in beta male provider? The single ladies atlantic article is a glimpse into female logic, hypergamy, and the dark reality that permeates the dating pool for most men today.

This was why I signed up here but, this just really doesn't happen anymore. I thought there would be more like minded and sharing of ideas, answers, and solutions but, I just find myself seeking more questions or looking to alternative sources. I did hope I would find some answers coming here. Maybe when I call Stefan.

I love when Stefan talks about these topics; genetic ostracism, gene warfare series 1-3, dangers of single moms, truth on sex, etc. I will watch and tune into everything in this regard but, its been about CNN or Trump and politics for far too long. I hope this changes. I am getting bored of the political crap. Its just the same old redundant nonsense from the left. I find it annoying and I don't want to listen to it anymore. I am more concerned and interested in this topic. Now, I bolded the part about you insinuating Stefan pushing younger women. Maybe or maybe not. I seemingly recall him using the words "creepy." In future references, I intend to time stamp these points as I intend to call in, and I know he gets pissy/condescending when you quote him with that. He uses or used the word "creepy" but, to quote him, this is not an argument. I think he is biased and closed minded here because he has a daughter. I do believe he is correct that, the advantage of youth has its breaking point, and a high risk for divorce if the gap is too wide. I think it has to do with relating to one another, rapport, and just a lack of commonality. I would love to see more on this topic and something with respect to a SOLUTION. One of my biggest problems with the content is that, it is EXCELLENT, and I am tuning in mostly pertaining to the topics I mentioned above. I just dislike that Stefan doesn't provide a framework and or solution to the women problem that men are having. By this, I mean, women sleeping around with the top 1% of men, cratering their SMV (sexual market value), and then seeking beta cuck male provider to hold down the fort once the alphas stop sniffing around anymore. Something that Stefan has pushed was the welfare state/the single mom state failing, the government running out of resources, and women needing men again once daddy government fails. This is not a solution nor an argument. I've seen this way he is calling it creepy to date younger women but, why in the fuck would I date someone that spent her best years sleeping around like a whore/slut? It is not intelligent nor ideal given the divorce stats, initiated by women in the west. Do a google search on divorce, on initiated by gender, and even, the age range women get married? You requested books. Here is some reading material: https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2011/11/all-the-single-ladies/308654/ She speaks of 20s as for "finding herself." Translation? Sloot gonna sloot! Dumps bf to be a booty call/meat sock for the alphas. Is pushing 40. SMV has cratered worse then the moon. Baby rabies has come and gone. Its more victimhood and female logic but, a classic example of western women in 2017. Sadly, a lot of cucks and betas are marrying this just as she enters baby rabies mode or as SMV has begun to crater. When the crows feet have kicked off and options are growing scarce. Again, YOUTH IMHO is KEY! If a woman is not in her top form of SMV, I am not interested now or EVER. I am not interested nor do I care about her baby rabies or changing her ways. ZERO FUCKS GIVEN. Books to read? Mating Mind by Geoffry Miller Spent by Geoffry Miller Sperm Wars by Robbin Barker The Selfish Genes by Richard Dawkins The Game by Neil Strauss Unlimited Power by Tony Robbins Awaken the Giant Within by Tony Robbins The Red Queen by Matt Riddley The Evolution of Desire by David Buss These are just a few but, be warned. They are all pretty fucking ruthless as is female/mother nature. I am craving a solution to the MGTOW issues; the legal issues and ramification of divorce, of a woman leaving, taking the children, and unleashing the dogs of the state to extract your resources. Given this predicament in the west, given female logic, 'sloot gonna sloot' during SMV, and baby rabies kicking off as SMV craters or single mom seeks beta male provider to raise her babies. Stefan will receive a call first thanking him for bringing me reason, logic, and awareness. Thank him for helping me on my journey of self knowledge, awareness, reason, and evidence. We disagree with pickup, with approaching lots of women, staking your claim in the dating market, and acquiring YOUNG. I haven't quite figured it out yet but, this is the process and life path I am on. Its been rocky and a mess. If I was mentally weak, I already would have taken my ball and gone home becoming a MGTOW. You cannot win the game if you don't play. Good luck my friend.

I Actually, I pinch ass more so lol

+ 1 Now a days, there is this huge promo for single moms, 'sloot gonna sloot,' diva antics, and of course, victimhood when SMV craters. A buddy and I were discussing our pasts, women getting pregnant or just messing up their life and the child's. I don't know a solution but, I think dating younger has been a strategy men have implored for as long as I recall. Women closer to my age have been on a sexual rampage, many have children, and have cratered their SMV. I am not rich. I am a regular guy who did not win the genetic lottery. If I had won the lottery both financially and genetically, I would likely have entirely different experiences. What I am trying to do is maximize the strengths and qualities I do have. I want to add value but, I am really turned off by the dating world and the egoic gynocentric filth that awaits most guys. A lot of men are getting cucked and its just normalized. Many men are raising some man's baby. They are allocating resources to win a woman's favor short term. I know a man who is engaged. His gf has an active tinder account. Its pretty messed up but, there are so many cucks now a days.

How old are you? I am in a similar process of looking at my next move but, I SEE VALUE EVERYWHERE. You can begin a major in one direction, finish in an entirely direction, and use electives to acquire even more useful knowledge. For instance, a class in French, Spanish, Italian, Chinese, etc. whereby, you could leverage the info in your personal endeavors as well as a career. There are tons of courses out there outside government education that offers an outrageous amount of value. There are seminars, mastermind groups, and even places you can volunteer free to further add to your arsenal. Have you looked into Mastermind groups for your city? This something I would recommend but, there usually is a waitlist. Just don't give away your secrets lol Uber was originally, Magic Cab. Its not about ideas. Its completely about execution. TS, you are all over the place. Have a route. Set a goal. Know your strengths. What is your true north? Begin here. I would recommend using LinkedIn to get in touch with the psychology/research field. You could likely jump into assistant roles. Find someone you could have as a mentor. Assist them in their daily endeavors be it getting them coffee or answering phones. Its nothing you cannot do. What other skills do you have? Offer that. Build from there. It just sounds like you have a lot of plans, going in several directions, and I question the follow through. If you have the opportunity to acquire a double major particularly, in a variety of fields (business accounting/economics & Psychology), you likely are ahead of the game. Your schedule sounds flexible so, you can definitely do it.

Put together a business plan. Show investors how you would make them money and a lot of it. Furthermore, begin making some noise through social media. "LIKE THIS POST IF ______________________________________!" Begin making a buzz. Put the skills you have to use. Be reading. Be active. Add value. The question is how? What are your strengths? Start here. Sign up for Mastermind group in your city. Get on LinkedIn.

Its tricky. I went to college a few times and IMO, it was not exactly all that productive. For starters, it really supplicates and panders to the girls. I've watched even profs/teachers dropping a guy's mark and giving full or half marks to the girls. In high school, a feminist teacher graded two paper's, my buddy and the girl's to different marks. The guy was my buddy and the girl was his friend. They handed in the same paper. She received awesome grades. He received a near fail. It was disgusting but, she was outed for the hack that she is. Since you are studying engineering, I highly recommend you finish if you can but, if it was social science, women's studies or liberal arts, I would tell you run for your life. My stint of education has been nonstop fuckery. For starters, I took a program that had several routes similar to a pre law or pre med. It was basically a money grab but, I thought at the time, it was an ideal move since it would provide me further options. Well, the school took the money, they failed to process my paper work, and then, denied access. When I followed up with as to why, I was given the run around, and blacklisted. As it turned out, the administration did not process my forms, denied access since, my application was not in on time (again, they did not process it), and when they were caught, they would not adjust me. They placed me on a "waitlist" to be determined. It resulted in me raising hell, making noise, driving administration crazy, and finally, contacting the Dean to resolve the matter. Needless to say, the Dean of the school apologized for the incompetency, adjust me, and I moved onto my program. If you would think the program would stop here. It did not. Internships were directed based upon GPA. Of course, I had a excellent GPA and yet, I was dodged some more with the ideal internships. My grades were higher and yet, I was still fucked out of these better opportunities. I connected with the university following college to finish up with a double major. I met with admissions and advising. Here I was informed that there was very little opportunity atm. Now, if you missed deadlines, you failed, and were penalized accordingly. During the distribution of internships, I was given along with classmates 3days notice for the series of months to come. Why? Because the piece of shit doing the distribution failed to her job. Classic government education. I finish my program. Still, no info on uni opportunities for double majors. I later find out, the school failed to inform me of the time line for the double major in the field I am after. I went to advising. I made appointments. I sent out numerous calls and emails so, I am again waiting or pursuing another school. Unfortunately, I wont have another double major opportunity or I am out a year. This is the sort of fuckery that awaits you in school. It serves nearly no good and only takes your resources so, I ask why do this to yourself?

I posted and it was days before my post went through. other times, it doesn't go. If Stefan draws more attention here, continues to put out awesome content, and interesting subjects people want to hear about, no doubt, he will draw more traffic here. Its difficult because there is 4chan/reddit/sherdog/bb.com/misc and its a lot looser with posting.

+ 1 The fallout not just to myself but my family, friends, workplace, and those that know me is not worth it. It lacks value because the gas lighting that Trump took with racism/sexist/misogyny (not an argument) shows his mental toughness and IQ. Most people have broke. Trump is fierce.

Lets hope you don't just so happen to work for the government, school board, policing, fire fighting, EMS, etc. as this wont end well. I think if you take up the rebel flag of activist, you will paint a target on your back. TS< is it worth it? Quite frankly, I respect and admire Stefan but, I am not him nor willing to make my life about Islam or this knowledge. If anything, I would be more keen on making people aware of the single mom and cratering SMV, only to seek beta male provider when its too late. This is more interesting to me directly then Islam. Genetic Ostracism, truth on sex, promiscuity, single mom promos , this cuck culture, victimhood etc. Islam has no interest to me. Someone would have got to be retarded not to understand how unethical and how wrong the ideology is. I think what's more scary is that, radical Islamic notions are protected by the same crap I am talking about. Its women chaining themselves to this shit, the white male privilege rubbish and a lot of times, the call outs are white women. Its just moronic.

Every country that isn't third world promotes this leftist socialist/Marxist jargon. The welfare state is the single mother victimhood state. My tax dollars that are increasing at a rapid rate are extracted against my own will so, even if I don't endorse something, I have absolutely no say in the matter. If I am not party to it, I can avoid low status women, single moms, women with children out of wedlock, different baby daddy's. Yet, by default, if my country allocates resources to this cause, I am party to it. The promos for 'sloot gonna sloot' and single moms; tinder bios reading, "proud single mom" as if this is some sort of badge of honor absolutely disgusts me. All these countries are betraying their actual citizens, extracting their resources, and burying their future children in more national debt. By default, you have absolutely no say so, your resources are allocated to single moms and immigrants that are handed freebies without your consent. Women are told by feminists, its their to protect them, and that they need a career as state in the government education system. Of course the system that need the education bubble, forces women to have to work harder, and have a job because nearly no body is getting an actual career that pays high and they enjoy.

15% of the population - 90IQ = read and follow instructions lol Ideally, this is what I am trying to do with my career, business, and in acquiring skill sets. Not do a job for the exchange of money keeping in mind, we obviously need resources. I look to have these skills blend over into other areas but as Peterson stated, its very difficult, and it doesn't always go this way. He was saying, even with a IQ of 115, you will still struggle in a very difficult uni. At 135 IQ, you will be graduate school material. Over 145, you pretty much have a free for all (nearly). Just as you move up, the variations in areas of IQ begin to standout more, and more. For instance, high IQ in math but, struggle with English heavily as you go into the higher learnings. TS, you may have high IQ in a specific area like sciences but, abstract ideas are elusive. The more you are around high IQ in abstract ideas, the more you feel like you are drowning. We can't be great at everything. Anything in respect to aesthetics/looks/IQ/family history/family name/resources we are born in among a variety of things are outside our control and mostly 'fate.'

Interesting given that steroids and PEDs have been amplified to ridiculous levels. I am finding drugs are getting even stronger and stronger. At the Arnold, Jackson Martinez stood in front of Arnie to receive an award for the comp. Jackson Martinez is a Jr HW class, a foot shorter then Arnie yet, he is 50lbs heavier due to the power of today's steroids and PEDs. Phenol is another example. The tweaking and altering of already powerful drugs. Geranium stem is powerful. Then you got 1-3Dih/DMAA. Its crazy powerful. While I know we still use a lot of the same stuff, a lot of the stuff is much more powerful. When I was a kid, ecstacy was huge but, now everything is Molly. If you order a supplement off bodybuilding dot com, guaranteed, you will piss hot if you were screened by USADA.

Today, I watched a Vid by Jordan Peterson on why high IQ individuals make more money. It has to do with learning of skills faster so they mitigate their time to acquiring more skills, making more resources, and repeating the process again.

With respect to your thoughts on youth and SMV, we are in agreement but, I disagree with the multiple women LTRs and dating. Unless you are Justin Beiber, you do not have the resources for that, and in the west, women can just get pregnant and take your resources. Marriage and even common law living is dangerous now a days.

Given the current legal system, even with financial independence with neither of us have, you would be a mark for women. I read the Neil Strauss book where he tried to do this. Likely, it was fabricated and a fallacious story if not a blatant lie. Needless to say, it did not end well, and despite the best of efforts, it ended terribly. He ended up marrying; being domesticated/house broken. At my age now, I want to date someone in SMV or in the near future otherwise, I would rather be single. I wont be a meal ticket for someone