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True but, there is this force field around slut and fat shaming yet, lets demonize men and all that is masculine. Women that were sluts or whores were snubbed and ostracized. Today, it is an accomplishment and treated as such. Men are then marrying the girl with children out of wedlock and allocating resources to the alphas children. The same woman gave no time a day at her best. Now, he is ok why? Cause the dating market is providing her little to nothing the same way the free market is when offering no value. I look around and I see squander. Sadly, this is not any different for educated women but, the education system is cookie cutter nonsense.

No. Its not cool. Its out of failed government and the parade of free money. Nature vs nurture. Nature always wins. Her nature is to be a selfish piece of shit, to go heels over head, children out of wedlock, and its all okay because some cuck will save the day or daddy government. If that fails, she can be nice to men again or children starve? Or how about, she can pick better men? How about resources are not allocated only when convenient for the women. Traditionalism will only matter and be accountable when all else has failed. There are the Lauren Southerns, Cristina Hoff Sommers, Helen Smith NAWALTs or as close to one as a man will come by. I question their motive. Is it that they truly see the injustice or they want to go back to staying at home, having babies, and being homemakers cause the career world is not the fun place they thought it would be? The same trend is seen with single mother women or others after squandered youth. It is not because she has truly changed. It because the system that they endorsed failed and they want a contingency plan. This makes it hard to vet a good woman. I know. a step towards traditionalism is ideally in the right direction but, there is no going back after the red pill. My eyes are open. Its not what most women want. They want their cake and want to eat it too. Youth and sexual market value dedicated towards the bad boys. After children out of wedlock or hitting the wall, it is then what, time to resort to beta male because serious or better options are long gone? I hope Stefan returns back to this topic. I feel like Trump and the election has been beat to death. Sure, a man could red pill the hell out of a feminist or a someone of victim mentality but, again, what is in her heart and her nature? I cringe at what the future holds.

And this is why men are going their own way. I made the comment about the takeaway from Jurassic World. Girl running around in heels, "dont need a man" until she does. Until the dinosaurs go nuts and start killing everyone. Some wont change until shit goes tits up. State goes bust, resources no longer exist, war, zombie apocalypse, terrorism, and suddenly the damsel in distress card gets played. We see female nature for what it is, not how we wish it were to be. There is no going back at this point.

Isn't all that one identifies with equates to ego? I agree. Then again, I know a lot of what we identify with, associate a sense of self, and are clinging to is ego. Without some X factor, status, look, job, assets, etc. who am I anymore? We have basic needs and desires but, how much of what 'we' desire is truly what we want and not social engineering? There is so much click bait, offended, safe spaces, and someone victimizing oneself or collectively in group now a days without fail.

I am. It is scary. To stake your claim in the free market actually takes courage. There is not parachute or saving grace. You must succeed. The one fear about business, money, and resources is that, if succeeding, I would have to have a good woman, vet her prior or I would not be as so trusting. I watched the Pats game the other night. I saw the coaches hot young wife. I am sure she just loves him.

+ 1 I agree. I am hoping now that the election is over, Stefan can go back to this topic, topics like gene warfare or genetic ostracism but I wont hold my breathe. The left wont change nor will victimizing one self for free resources and money until the state goes bust. Then again, when you see someones true colors, is there any act or game someone can play to make you forget? If you see Jurassic World, you see the "dont need a man" feminist running around in heels. When the dinosaurs get loose, when they start going nuts, suddenly she is the damsel in distress. I am reminded of real life scenarios of the female chameleon time and time again. One instance, I had a woman in management making sexist comments. When I finally had enough and said it was inappropriate, she then flipped the script like a sociopath would and blamed me for not being able to follow direction from a woman. She being the perpetrator and the one being sexist but, now made herself into the victim. I see it time and time again. My friends, I really feel that calling and pull of MGTOW which scares the hell out of me wanting a family, a wife, and children. Just my nurturing, what I was taught and what I have experienced simply do not align. If not for my blasted desire, I would have likely been divorced, cucked, and dragged through the court systems.

How many guys are listening to pickup or just lost because they don't know how to be a man? The divorce courts removed the man from his own home, took away his children, dogs of the state unleash on him to extract his resources, and the children pay. I heard a man in the workplace go on a tangent about "woman's body. her choice." If a man killed a child, he is a monster yet, there was that Cassey court trial where she was not guilty after her kid was killed and found in her trunk. There is a series of these situations whereby women have a free pass. There is nothing more important then veting a good woman like Stefan suggests. Its powerful stuff. I am liking his book. I think knowledge is the first part to change and more men need to acknowledge the risks they are at in the west. Still, self harm follows in the event that despite this knowledge men still follow the beaten path. I always thought this was the way but, I am not so sure anymore.

Try approaching a lot of women on a college campus. How many do you think are about self knowledge? Self awareness? Liberty? Reason? Evidence? I watched Lauren Southern through Rebel media on campuses up north seeking one Trump supporter. It was ridiculous how many hundreds of students maybe even thousands before finding one. A pace of ideas, education, reason, science, evidence, and a lack of freedom of mindfulness. It is scary. How many are already single mothers? Feminists? Adverse to competition? My eyes are opened. It is scary. I know good still exists but, it is very alienating at times to see the disconnect, the Matrix, and those who will fight to the death to protect a system that enslaves their being. I hear the same victimness in the workplace. There is no polarizing ideas. It just reeks of victim mentality and where the youth is headed. I am feeling more and more separated from people because it is not something I can relate with. Imagine if the same group spent this energy on something productive like lets say starting up crossfit, yoga, maybe a mobility coach something like Ido Portal, something healthy both for the mind, body, and soul? I am not shocked. It starts on the inside and then materializes outwardly.

There is a lot of e standards. A woman by the name of Helen Smith, writer of men of strike linked a okcupid stat that stated, women rate 80% of men below average. How is that for e standards? I am blown away by social conditioning, the preach of patriarchy, and female victimhood when in fact, women are perpetrators a good portion of the time. Despite my quest for self knowledge, self awareness, offer value, freedom, reason, and evidence, it is still challenging to "vet" a good woman. I observed a guy approach lots of women recently. When a girl showed a sign of disinterest, he just moved onto the next girl, and repeated. He went home with one. He picked up several numbers. At one table, it was revealed, he had hooked up with three of the four. This is the world we live in. What I am faced with is, approaching lots by any means necessary, screening, disqualifying, and "vet" in order to find a good woman. Still, it is not easy. In the last ten days, I have been propositioned by two girls, both single moms and therefore, not prospects for the sort of woman I would like since children are expensive. I got a number today. Prior, I was propositioned by a married woman who will not relent. Could these experiences build up walls? No doubt. I know good exists. I am just bombarded by the reality that, many are going heels over head with the bad boys, are having children out of wedlock, and its okay. Someone will allocate their resources and marry her. I would much prefer to be single, to be alone, and continue on my marry way. It is just my blasted genetics.

Nice post. Its been my experience, there is opportunity online but, few and far between with respect to someone about self awareness, self knowledge, reason, and evidence. Usually, its ego, its pretentious narcissism (the mask, stretchy pants, showing off sexual markets, bio on no fuck boys, and sleeping around despite her flag of not being about that therefore contradicting oneself). I just think it will be a long ride with respect to my journey. I am reading Stefans book on relationships. It is very informative and probably one of the best resources out there. I highly recommend others give it a good read. I think it will shed some light on the disconnect, the misunderstandings, and how to better increase your chances of vetting a good woman. I will match and connect with some women but, I also feel like I could get cucked and I am fearful of that. If online, she is likely seeing other people too, and if a woman from online ever said she was pregnant, there is no way I would go along without seeking dna proof this was mine. This then would question her character, values, and morality likely ruining the relationship but, I have seen enough to know, I cannot just take women at face value or what act she puts on while wearing the mask of ego.

I know what you mean. I was approached by a beautiful young woman. The kind that would intimidate me. I ran into her at the bar one night. Made small talk and then went around approaching other girls. I was on fire that night and needless to say, I am not usually that smooth lol Sure enough, the beautiful young woman approaches me some more, asks if the girl is my gf or if i am single. I had to keep saying it and then she got embarrassed and left. She was drinking so, I never really made a move but, I should have took her number. I ended up leaving with a different girl. That was a nightmare. Good night. Crazy given my past with women to be the man going home with a cute young girl. I saw the beautiful girl and took her number. She then said something about being busy or school. I took it as a shit test. I then text immediately to make sure the girl gave the right number and no nonsense, she texts me immediately. I kept it casual. No doubt, she knows I like her. Nothing happened. I tried. I did everything I could. Fast forward a few years later. She started to drunk dial me. I never came. I would have gave my left nut for her back then but now its baby rabies. I wanted her when she was young, when she had options, and was spoiled for choice. She was awkward when I ran into her because she drunk dialed me. Then the next time I saw her she tried to bring up her drama and I just cut her off that I g2g. She thought when she was ready she could call her white knight. I am just not that guy anymore. I found it better to be aloof. When she ran off embarrassed, it took every ounce of my being to not be the beta male provider, and chase her down. She ran that night, I turned away, took the girls hand next to me, told her lets go, and we left. I dropped her off, played tight game, she invited me in for coffee, and I took my pants off when I came in. It was 7am when I left her place, past sun rise, and I could hear the birds cherping. I love game. I love that aftermath of a night like that but, sometimes I feel like I am losing myself because I truly want to get married, have my wife, someone I can grow old with, and have children without having the fear of being cucked. Despite all this, I feel like I have so much more potential but, it just has not materialized and I don't mean this out of ego. I am just so dedicated to self knowledge, self awareness, liberty, reason, and evidence. I just do not see someone like minded. It is usually the girl that wants to party, wants the carousel ride with the alpha, has children with different men, and still wants the white dress plus ring. No doubt, without Stefan and game, I would have been cucked. I would be with single mom, the good little beta provider, and just taken to the cleaners. For this, for even the read Stefan has put me on, the game, pua, approaching, overcoming my fears and rejections, self awareness, and everything in between, I am grateful for.

Thanks for putting me on it. I have read many of Stefan's works and it is well done. There was a point he made about if a woman did not introduce her bf or the man she is dating/seeing to her friends, it would suggest she is ashamed or that the guy is not good enough. I have made this mistake but in short, it has more to do with anxiety and i suppose, fear too. A woman acting up or getting crazy is a reflection on me so, I am rarely introducing them to family or friends. I also don't have a gf so, it is kind of pointless discussion. Good luck man. I met a older woman recently. She mentioned traveling and seeing the world so, we got on pretty well but, I feel like she really messed up. In what was her prime years in fertility, she was likely riding the carousel, indoctrinated with feminism, educated but, not likely much with respect to self knowledge. She is not a bad person. She was a nice woman but the window for children has slammed shut or is pretty close to the danger zone like Kenny Loggins. I feel like self awareness needs to kick back in. I met a woman who is young, in her SMV point, and she made the point that it has been tough before with a crummy bf. The hint hint is, she is single, available, and making it known. Then, she was closing up shop one day, and did not make much effort to make time. I started talking to her friend recently. Its weird. I was taught about monogamy, one girl, forever, the one, and happily ever after. As I got older, I realize, it is very foolish to put all eggs in one basket.

You are smart. I like your posts and I am glad there is a female presence here and aware of Stefan/FDR. I agree. Then again, despite the notion of "fuck boy can't keep dick in his pants," the lifestyle is hard to maintain even more so then lets say MGTOW. I never tried games or tactics, magic, and fake mustaches. Still, I approach a lot. I do my best to be enthusiastic, to be present to the moment; here and now, share something of passion, something I love, and offer value. In doing so, I have dated more, I have slept with more women, and while it has not brought me a wife or children, the alternative is what? Wait for a woman to pick me? Marry the single mother? Wait for a woman with plummeting sexual market value after years of riding the carousel to be my wife? Its kind of dark. I went from really beta to approaching a lot and going home with women. I saw a different world and gained new insight. I try my best to just enjoy the experience for what it is, to embrace the moment, whatever that brings, and to let go when it ends. This is hard because my beta male upbringing kicks in. I want to hold on. I want to fight and make it work. Approaching has shown me there is an alternative way of life. I don't have to follow the beaten path. I don't have to wait forever for a date. I don't have to be the water boy until the girl gets bored of being a one night stand. I can pick and i can handle being rejected. I can handle going home with a woman and I can accept her not returning my call. I saw a cosmo magazine about how to seduce men. Imagine, if pua magazines were right in the window next. Its always the same pretentiousness about amped up sex appeal and vagina bombing men into submission for the ring. Its again, false advertising to women since they don't look like Mila Kunis or Lauren Conrad on the cover. Then again, with photoshop and tinder, she can airbrush herself and get male validation. They want sex but she can talk herself into something else.

I understand that and I am more intrigued by natural game, approaching lots, presence, meditation, chasing yourself not the girl, and having a dream. I am fascinated by Mystery as a character, the mental health, and yet, how some worm like Neil stole basically his style and monopolized it. RSD preaches all the self amusement, bringing your own party rather then being in her party. Then again, they got kicked off planet earth and deported some time ago. Its funny how women seducing men rubbish is fine but, men seducing women is demonized and Mr Mackey, "drugs are bad." There is a lot of fight club, raw raw, Tony Robbins, pump state, a lot of pseudo science, pop culture, Darwinian philosophy and brutal truth. I think when you approach versus mental masturbating as to what that would be, when in fact, you don;t know until you approach. I then approach a lot, I date more, I don't question or think about rejections but, I have a lot and it doesn't faze me in the slightest. I just see the repetitions of sequences, patterns of female behavior, dishonesty, cheating, sly behavior, and I realize how difficult it is. Then again, what is the alternative? What other choice does a man have if any at all? Wait for a woman to pick him when women date up? Wait for chance for friends to introduce which has never been the case? For circumstances to be perfect and eyes meet across a room? Or how about I just keep approaching until i meet my wife or don't. I would rather Julien Blanc or Owen Cook discuss with Stefan. Owen is a chronic mental masturbator and just the twists and turns would be a bit much. Julien had the media fiasco and scandal. He has since gone more new age and hippie like but still gets girls. The journalist that filmed him was eye opening because naturally, you doubt the reality and authenticity of these characters as your money is involved but, he was blown away by their ballsy approach and game. I thought the guy was a fraud that Owen was just pedaling but, I saw for myself several times how bad ass he is and what he can do.

He is a bit of a worm IMHO but, that was my eye opener for seeing that there is a alternative way of life instead of following the beaten path. I like the asking of question. No kidding it was a NY Times best seller. It reaches a level of curiosity in every man that like a video game, there is a stage, and levels to reach. It hits that part of the ego to acknowledge, you don't know, and that there is a better way of going about dating. I see no harm in approaching however, I don't think pretending to be a magician or using fake mustaches is ideally the best way to attract a woman. He wrote a book on the Truth about serial monogamy, open relationships, and simply, he could not find a way to make it work. Not shocking. Its interesting that, manipulation is only bad if it is man as the perpetrator which then allows women to identify with being a victim. That is a role that men cannot play even if they are the victim. If you never settle down, you are met with man boy, party boy, can't keep dick in pants, and a bunch of other forms of manipulation or shaming language. When I see it, I recognize it more and more, and I want to remove myself from the predicament. I question at times why men involve themselves a lot of time and why more men don't go MGTOW? I feel the pull and I refrain I enjoy dating too much to go that way but, there is a lot at stake if you mistakenly get it wrong with marriage or children. Youth seems to be the answer. If a woman is not dedicated in this time frame, I don't feel she is trust worthy. Good luck my friend. I am trying and it is not easy. I am nearly 30 in a few years. The last girl I dated was 23. The next one is 25. I feel like there is a secret to youth and that a woman's willingness to dedicate that time to a man is a indication of commitment as well as what to expect int he future. Most women I know have children out of wedlock, have wasted their youth, and are quick to play the victim. The one thing I dislike about Stefan is that, I feel like he uses shame, a typical female tactic when discussing dating and age. I think he is correct that with a huge gap, the likelihood for a divorce or breakup is present. Then again, what is the alternative? Dating elderly? Dating woman who has plummeting sexual market value? I am not sure your experience with approaching. I just try to put my best foot forward, be enthusiastic, leave an impression, and I approach life that way. I have no agenda, no magic tricks or fake mustaches. I am genuine. I like to laugh. I bring that into an approach but, my friend it is unreal what you come across. I have been propositioned by married women before. One woman tried to get me to come over when her husband is out. This man could try to kill me later. I have far too much anxiety for that and I hate that a woman would try to tempt me with putting me in a dangerous predicament. I always noticed, women being hard up on ladies nights, and very entitled yet, when out running into a group of women celebrating a bachelorette party, many are in LTRs willing to hookup. I try to make some sort of sense of it all and rationalize it. One of the last girls I was romantically involved with is a single mother after we dated. This is the life she chose. I remember running into her. She could not even make eye contact and it just reinforces the fact that I made the right decision to stop seeing her. Thank God. I agree, there is a lot of misunderstandings here with respect to hypergamy. The phrase goes, "beta bucks and alpha fucks." Women spread for the alphas. The betas got to pay and swear away half of everything on a marriage after a woman has plummeted in sexual market value and the alphas stop coming. This is another reason why more and more men are becoming adverse to marriage. What value does it offer at this point when the same girl was just out at the bar shaking her ass and going home with random alphas willing to look her way? Photoshop is basically what tinder and online dating is. I see many women i recognize using it to make herself look thinner, airbrushed, better looking. I have never heard of men cat fishing but I have heard lots of women doing it. I have experienced it pretty recently as did some friends. I am not vain and prioritize just her looks. The problem is dishonesty. A woman was huge but, she posted pics that made her look thin and athletic. I dislike how then someone dishonest would make a man feel bad for being turned off. Anyway, I appreciate your input on the topic and your perspective. Resources seem important once it is playing for keeps but, the same woman in her hay day would not be giving the beta the time a day when alphas are hovering. I am again reminded that, youth seems to be the key, and if a woman is not willing then, I am not trusting. I think this is the only chance for myself and most men.

But but the wage gap, women make 70 cents on the dollar. Victimhood! I want to call in one day and talk to Stefan. I just feel like he will call me out on my contradictions and hypocrisy lol I appreciate the response. Let me just say, the reality of approaching lots of women, you get rejected a lot but, you date more and you are constantly sift through nonsense. It really is eye opening but most men are not willing to set aside their ego or risk rejection to this sort of extent but, the cause is greater then anything rejection. I simply have no choice if a I want to have choice and to 'vet' a good woman. I agree. She is an anomaly who has her eyes open and therefore, a NAWALT if I have ever seen one. Its a different world man. I appreciate the discussion. The world has changed and man has pretty much made himself dated with technology. Stefan commented on this subject. I don't care if the woman is red pilled or if she is a traditional woman. This is what I am after. I will go through numerous approaches. I will take outrageous amounts of rejections. I will put myself out there because I want a good woman, a traditionalist, a wife, and mother of my children. The problem is that, I see more leftist, single moms, women having children out of wedlock followed by victimhood after sexual market value has crashes and burned. I am so numb to rejection, it doesn't even faze me in the slightest at this point. I mentioned recently, a woman that approached me. She came back after a trip from the washroom. Immediately, I noticed she did up her makeup, hair, and became bombarding me with interview like questions regarding age, marital status, children, etc. and so on. Sure enough, it is revealed shortly after, she is a single mom, and therefore, not a prospective woman that I should date. If not for self awareness, self knowledge, for Stefan, and FDR, I likely would have fallen prey to the traps.Likely, divorced, cucked, and destroyed in the court systems. My eyes are open. I know there is still a lot of good out there but, there is not necessarily a lot of choice for the ideal life I want to live. I have been hearing it said, "chase yourself." I heard it again said, "be your own soul mate." It sounds lame but, what if more people lived that way? Viewed being complete and not seeking validation or approval. Instead, came from a place of completion and self actualization>? Thanks. Let me look over and respond. Thanks. Let me look over and respond. Thanks. Let me look over and respond.

I would have to disagree based upon what I have seen in my own experience in college/uni campuses but, I have not seen that so, I would love a link or some source to follow along. Furthermore, with "educated" women, we see the feminist, pro choice + quick to let you know about it, liberal, and a lot of 'female chameleons.' As in, one sec, she is gloating about Clinton winning, madam president followed by female victimhood. You educated women on the conservative side and again, if a man were to seek out a NAWALT, Lauren Southern is a pretty damn good archetype IMHO. With respect to your post, I appreciate the point, and the well thought out response. Without the link, it is really difficult for me to actually post on the matter however, it wouldn't be hard to imagine that the intelligent would be pro free market. Then again, with all the anti trump rhetoric on campuses, the leftist jargon, and promotion of victimhood, it is hard to grasp that this is mentality of the current generation of the educated. Its not been my experience nor what I see. Any take on "pro liberty dating/sites?" What I see of college educated women, it is very left, no open discussion of free ideas or critical thinking. Case closed victim mentality.

Not sure what the question is? Sexually active and aggressive women will engage a man. I was enthusiastic, high energy, funny, and just being myself. Small talk turned into chatter about coffee, about little cafes, gems, hidden places or dine dining as well as the things we do. In came the bombardment of questions, Age, marital status, kids? The patterns are so repetitive and redundant. No e brag but I have honestly approached more women in a day then most do in their life. You see patterns of behavior and after it happens an abundance of times, you see a sequence of actions, responses, and ways to problem solve. I do the same thing with women when out, in their workplace or while shopping. Women are receptive but, the dating is no easier because everything is tinder, online validation through social media or just male orbiters. If you take the Bruce Lee quote, "expose yourself to various conditions and learn," it becomes an adventure. My friend, when I am on my death bed, I swear, I will look back and honestly be able to say, I did everything in my power to vet a good woman. Still, despite my best efforts, it is not easy, and I am shocked by much of my experiences. For instance, a married woman propositioned me last year. She would text and tell me to come over when her husband is out. I don't want to live on this planet anymore

It shows again and again just how socially conditioned women are now a days. I have lost count of liberal arts majors or women studies majors telling me about not needing a man and then drunk text or call for sex later on. I have lost count of women that have ruined their life with poor life choices, crazy weight gain, children out of wedlock, and just letting men run through her. The mistake men make is to put all eggs in one basket through marriage and tying themselves to the state. Even if I found a NAWALT, I cannot imagine myself bringing in the government and state into my LTR.

I have been open about my approaching lots of women everywhere be it a bar or club, coffee shop or gym (to name a few spots). As a young boy and man, I always knew it would be very difficult to find a good woman to make a gf and more precisely, a wife and mother of my children. Through approaching, through dating (online or through encounter), I never knew how right I was. That said female was going off on how small guys are in the pants, petty male ego, and yet, she cannot find a good man because she followed the beaten path of social engineering, social conditioning, and the parade of slutting around. I wont be PC about this. It is toxic and there is no fallout as men continue to pay for the alpha males children. Until this changes, until men actually begin to grow a spine, I think it will only get worse. I had a similar situation. I pursued what I deemed as a pretty woman many years ago. She gave her number. We texted and it was games. It was word for word what Sandman and JTO warned me of. Me being naive, i felt compelled to give her a shot. Sure enough, she ran around being a booty call, even stated feminist jargon about not needing a man, and then, in the ripe years of 30 plus (note sarcasm), she began calling or more accurately, drunk dialing. I would have jumped for her years ago but that time is up. I do not wish bad or evil upon her. I am just not interested. Sure enough, she was weird and awkward around me. I wouldn't give her the time anymore. Sure enough, she tries telling me her problems, dude stopped calling, stressed, taking time off work. In mid sentence, I cut her off, and got up and left. I met a good woman who is unavailable but something she brought to my attention was her age (mid 20s) and her boyfriend's age (mid 30s). She reminded me that I have more time then she does and that, she always wanted to get married, to work hard, and to attract a good man. It definitely exists but the frustration is definitely there when doing everything you can to "add value." All I know is that, the majority of women I meet in the west is that, women take and keep taking. Golden vagina will just do that in youth. If I ever marry, I know i must find a good young woman that can be that girl but chooses something better.

I imagine you mean well but, that is a far cry from, "just be yourself." The truth is there but majority of people have not a damn clue as to what that even means. If be yourself meant, "be clingy, needy, overly attached, and beta to the max," this is the mating call of the loser. Despite a great deal of man dedicated to self awareness and knowledge, many are perplexed on how to approach the current world of dating. I love FDR but, I disagree with this notion of how simple it is. The vast majority are on carousel and looking to be homemaker when the dating market stops producing. A man who were to go public with a business ideally would much prefer to meet someone long before things take then shortly after as I would never trust at that point. Lauren Southern went on many college and uni campuses across the country. She went to find Trump supporters. I think she found only one. This is what the education system is producing and this is the sort of caliber of man coming out to one day be the future. Its a scary thought. She stands out as a NAWALT but again, so few and far between. It is my hope with the election over that Stefan returns to the gene war subject. One day, I will call in but, for now, I would like to try and figure it out myself as I know he will call me out on my contradictions (something well all have). Again, I am grateful for all the work you guys do.

Nice. My question though pertaining to the post, did you meet online? I would am doubtful.

I was approached today by a woman. She began by questioning my age, if I had any children, marital and relationship status etc. She disappeared for a short period of time and when she returned, she had her makeup all done up, and she did up her hair. She looked great before and even better then. It was definitely an attempt to improve her appearance. As a man, he must "vet a good woman," and I think part of that included screening out dishonesty, single moms, and female predators. The problem that I find is that, the girls are not filtering what so ever if you are good looking. It doesn't matter then. There is always photoshop and delusion in the form of social media and online dating to resort to if everything in reality fails.

+ 1 There is a gatekeeper of sex and it has been that way since the dawn of time. Despite this fact, there is alarming amount of plausible deniability, complete lack of self ownership, no sense of personal responsibility or accountability. Furthermore, there is no consequences for children out of wedlock, sleeping with a train of men, and putting on a lot of weight. It is condoned and someone with no self esteem or self respect will still marry her.

I was discussing the differences between gender, strengths and weaknesses with a woman online. She was quick to attack "male ego," dismiss any wrong doing of women or her own poor lifestyle choices beginning with her sleeping around. Man was to blame. The female was in her 30s with no serious prospects for marriage or children. She was also looking into fertility treatment to potentially freeze her eggs because "no good men are around." What she meant to say was that, when she was in her youth, when she was suppose to be trying her hardest to lock down a good man, she wasted that time as a one night stand, and plausible deniability is her premise for attack now. No self ownership, responsibility or accountability. It is one big pity party and blame game. I would never allow a woman to use physical violence on me without calling the police and pressing charges to the full extent of the law. I will not participate nor place myself in harms way whereby a woman could later use false accusations of violence on me. Until men begin to use the law and out psychotic behavior, it will continue, and the problem will only get worse. I don't think force should ever be used to get what you want.