PatrickC

I'm curious dsayers. How was 'self ownership' treated in your family?

Just wanted to say this has been very apparent in all your posts and welcome to the boards.

Save your money. However, I would say the longer you remain dependent on this dysfunctional relationship, the longer it will take you to recover from it. It's like doing philosophy in the trenches. But you probably know that already. Yeah and I'm very sorry your father made you so dependent on him, whilst brutally rejecting you. He sounds like a sadist.

An idea that might work, rather than handing out books. But requires some big kahunas from those that decide to give it a go. Is if individuals (like myself or others), offer to give a free lecture on UPB at major universities. That would give it more of a kickstart I think.As a tantalizer you could name it, 'The is/ought dichotomy resolved'..

Then put your questions into a fresh thread, rather than chasing old threads which have mostly finished with muddled questions or criticisms. It's difficult to know what exactly your having difficulty understanding.

I've heard my fair share of grandiosity on this board over the years, but this takes the Olympic gold frankly. I consider myself these days well versed in the kind of 'concern trolling' that goes on here. Politeness I have in bounds, but not for those that aren't interested in reasonable criticism on a board I've given plenty of personal time and financial investment in.Please accept my -100 reputation donation as a lesson in humility and try to be curious in yourself, rather than others for now.

Your lack of interest in women is understandable. I certainly took a hiatus from them for a few years. Concentrating on other parts of your life is I think something men have to relearn. And yes, I'm sorry about the shitty sacrificing and the female influence in your formative years. I think the sadness I felt was more to do with what 'seems' like your enforced social isolation at the moment. Insofar as you can meet with other men that you share interests with. For me that's been quite a rewarding experience. Even though I understand that some of those men can exhibit some white knight chicanery. But if it's a male interest you're much less likely to experience it. It's interesting to note that when you get men alone with each other, it's surprising how many of them will open up and even wake up slowly. Not that your obligated to do so, but it does make those relationships much stronger if you do. This could also be a great way to introduce your nephew to other men perhaps. Again, none of my business, but I think this board does lend itself to some vocal empathy. So I hope you don't mind my thoughts.

Yea I think I would prefer to invest e500 into fdr or more bitcoins myself. Unless someone can give me a good reason of course.. But, always good to meet fellow philosophers. Plenty of great things to do in the Dam as well. And I think Stefan deserves a free lunch on my behalf at the very least. Stef this might be your Justin Beiber (or was it Beaver) moment..

I think this would be a marvelous opportunity to meet up with some newer and older (otherwise unseen before) board members too. Amsterdam in spring will be a nice time of year too. Feel free to connect with me (via my profile). I'm an hour away via London Heathrow, which is on my doorstep.. Let's make it happen.

Great stuff Alex, as always. I think this is your best to date, in my opinion.

I wasn't initially going to mention this KD, given that I hardly know you and it's not necessarily any of my business either. But this statement made me feel quite sad when I read it. My rather small experience of you makes me think you are much more than a ghost.

I think he's distinguishing between different male experiences. Some men have very few to no relationships in their lives, whilst others seem to go through a string of them.

So let me understand you. You make a claim that a reputation system is anti philosophical and therefore the whole community (other than yourself I presume) is anti philosophical. You get told you're being a bit of a 'dick' and you feel insulted.. Riiigghhtt.

This reminded me of when I lved in Bedsit land when I was 17. Living amongst these middle aged guys that had been divorced and were paying child support. Unable to entertain their children in their bedsits for lack of room. But mostly because some of the residents whose lifestyles were probably not fit for little childrens eyes. Often wallowing in alcohol most evenings, slowly drinking themselves to death.

That's great news Mike and Lians... Like Robin says, the jet lag from the US to europe is much worse than the other way round. But I'm sure you'll survive with some strong Dutch coffee in you.

Yes, excise my silliness, 'Hamsterdam'.. Not my greatest comedic moment... 500 euros!!... good grief, then Stef, lets meet in a local cafe for a coffee.

Thanks Robin, do you plan on attending? Be great to meet up of course. Yes, we do call it the 'Dam', as in Hamster, in Britain.

Your 'concern' is noted..

A little long perhaps, but very insightful peek into many a mans life. "There is no brotherhood amongst men".. I'd like to change that. "In terms of helping men. Men first need to be able to acknowledge their vulnerability. Because once a man owns that, he can address his fear and his lack of connection. And that's when a man truly feels the confidence to create change in his life. By accepting his vulnerability he grows in strength and in self acceptance. As his confidence increases and so does his capacity for introspection. If at this point he shakes off the shackles of societal expectation this quote literally can be his second birth, where he effectively reassesses his life and lives by his own terms... That to me, that's the definition of masculinity"

So a little birdie mentioned to Joe Rogan that he might be making a trip to the Dam this April. Is this true my shiny headed philosopher friend? If so, then it would seem incumbent (neigh an obligation indeed) to welcome you. If tickets are required for purchasing and the like, please let us (withering on the philosophy european line) know of course. This would be an opportunity I would deeply regret missing.A sudden flush of worry, did I dream this event.. Hmmn, if so, be gentle please..

I like Iain's idea, but I was also curious what Doug thought about Bitcoin.. Since he seems to be fashionably late with it. Not that I necessarily know of course. But sure, Doug would be great to have back on. Perhaps as an ensemble with Berwick, Tucker and others. Just a thought.

Ha, yes, who is this toothy imposter..

I personally don't like his music. But I understand that is just a preference on my part and doesn't say much abouthis abilities. That said, jealousy can and is always an issue for some folk of course. Particularly from a fella that garner lots of wealth and female adoration to him.

There is certainly some good evidence for that. The 'welfare state', has all but ruined family life for the once working classes. Partly spurred on by leftist economic policies that destroyed jobs with nationalisation, regulation and minimum wages. I admit to tiring of the pompous faux nobility that the left try to pass off, as they suggest even more destruction. Especially those that come to this board without having read or listened to any of the arguments that are made here and then claim arguments have not been made. So yes, it certainly helps me snooze through these types of posts.

My God MM!! Where?