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Thanks for all the replies this helped me allot . of course i could never predict the future but now i have more option . thank you .

No, Obama can't tell me to leave if i was born here. I didnt choose to be here. (i have everything here) And when i leave ill leave to another tax farm. You where not born in this board. ---------------- I think the rating is also to determine assholes . which that is a perfect example of it up there . --------- and only because your question gets rated down doesn't mean other people don't read them ,... i read them all the time.

I want to do a video on this. I have a theory but i want to get your thoughts on it. Any feedback is welcomed. ----------------------------------------------------------------- My theory is: they are simply jealous . because the insults are usually towards him being gay, which doesn't make sense because even if he was gay why would they hate him specifically ? when there are allot of gay artist. And usually he gets threats that he is going to get neutered. They feel threatened, since Justin obviously has a big female following. And in todays society the alpha males can be men who have lots of money, not just mussels and good looks. ----------------------------------------------------------------------

He talked to him before. I would like to hear them talk about other stuff besides investing

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JlgnN56Onx4

wow thanks i never really thought about that. What state would you recommend ? ( I heard good things about texas) <---- no state taxes and less regulations What is your cuzins degree on ? I know for sure right now i wouldn't want to do that. Especially since i spent so much time just saving up money, and didnt pay attention in high school so i had to re learn everything. and i would basically spend my whole youth in school which i defentally don't want . Im a free market person so i like to think i know what I'm doing .

Thanks for your response. Well the downs sides of getting a job are non, but finding a job is the problem. (a job in which can help me pay for an apartment and food etc.. ) also, allot of jobs require degrees and or experience in that field. (well jobs i would like) I worked before for a year to save money for school but i used my parents car and they helped me with food ...etc. I don't think two years to finish my degree is allot because i worked for a year and that went by so fast. (also when you are actually studying what you are interested in time goes by so fast) And the two years are in school... The one year is the time frame i want to move out in.... Its a hard decision because i wish i could have everything move out have a place go to school to finish up. go to therapy and have friends. and freedom All things i want, and it sucks to choose from a few. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- One last rant about school . allot of people say school is useless but allot of people i admire at least got there BA degree. They all say if you know what you want to do in school its a good idea but if you don't its a waist . I know what i want from it exactly, the team work experience and the piece of paper , the formal education, the job opportunities after, the internships. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- If i just decide to drop out i remind me to much of my past, i never stuck to anything, (instruments , hobbies ) I really wish i could have both. Something allot of people don't have to worry about.

Oky so I want to move out for sure by 2015. (summer/ spring) There is too much abuse and need to breath. I will receive my AA in computer science by that time. 1.) One way out is get any job or jobs, then move out. 2.) Another way out is to transfer to University of California Irvine, (My councilor said i could get a guarantee of transfer. i just need to fill out an application and keep my GPA above 3.4) And move far away from my parents. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- The down side of the first one is that if i had the perfect parents, i would want to be a computer scientist and solve those huge problem with my knowledge. (especially since I'm an anarchist) And my parents would want me not to succeed (academically ) Also i would be working minimum wage jobs since an AA won't really get me any job right away. I would have to make my own job and be creative while working. which is definitely one choice i got. Finding a job is very possible i think, when you have the whole day free i could probably get any customer service job i want and work two jobs to pay for rent. The down side of going to college is obviously the money, and lack of emotional support. (its a big step) Especially to a big university like UCI where all the students are asian with very academic backgrounds. I could get loans and it wouldn't be as much since its just for two years and i could receive my Bachelors degree. And from there Im sure to get a good job. Many companies hire straight out of that college its known for its computer science school. Obviously i don't know what is the best choice i thought about all the down sides to each. And i understand that school isn't important but i think that for engineering or science degrees, the formal education is helpful. It helps to be around like minded people all day .

where can i get a hat ? i like that design

Exactly, I do that myself. And its always something extremely trollish or illogical.

That was beautiful. I feel the same way about stef. Stef says i just created a gym and you guys show up , but thats bs. Stef had the courage to open this gym, and go against the grain. He helped all of us here. He is really one of the greatest philosophers .

I don't think stefan cares about specifics attacks on him or freedomain radio , he cares about attacks on his ideas only . I don't think it would be a good idea to give the troll sites some credibility. if one actually reads the stuff on there its really fake and irrational . (and only certain people can fall for it ) This is my opinion , idk whats the right thing to do ..

wrong, democracy involves force everything here is voluntary. If obama got elected I'm still subjected to his rule even if i didnt vote for anyone. No one is forced at gun point to participate in this community , can you say the same about democratic governments ?

i think tv is not necessary it might be helpful sometimes (rarely). And, they are bad people for getting mad when you express yourself. But the saying ----> don't bite the hand that feeds . is true, because if you are dependent on them to live you should not rock the boat. Until you are grounded finically and emotionally . Im in the same situation, and all i do is not talk to them , well the least i can . And worry only about myself .. So i would advice you on making a plan to move out some time in the future when you can ... and stick with it .

Isn't it a little like black segregation ? (but with gender) I was just wondering what is the reason for this .

I feel left out or unwanted when i see a social or non social club that has the word feminist in it . Does the average population of men scare off women . I started noticing this allot . In school and on the internet . There has to be a reason. I never seen clubs that say men only . Im sure there are some.

I havent listened to that one, ill search for it But ill tell you this, sometimes people seem stupid to us because they might not be seeing or processing something on the show that is because it is obviously hidden to them thats why they are calling. To others it might seem clear but to the person with the problem most of the time it is hidden ... I experienced this before also, things that i just learned about my self seem so simple i couldn't believe i missed them ... And people on the comments are trolls, and even if they listen to FDR they can still be trolls .. They are supper trolls because they have all this knowledge to hurt you with . But just ignore them ... they are doing it to make themselves feel better not to help you

Thanks, that would be great

This might sound unphilosophical but i compare myself to people who i went to high school with . I dont really compare myself to rich, famous people. I admire the hard working business people that made it big . Thanks for the reply, i feel the same way ,,, When you said "with that feeling of being a prisoner watching people having fun outside." Thanks for that recommendation ill check Carl Jung out . I dont nessarary feel like becoming a hero. Most stories that involve a heroes journey don't nessarly become heroes. Usually they just learn more about themselves. and go on an adventure. The world is there oyster I like the part when you say breaking free and going on a journey , to live philosophically .

Is that your tattoo ? Its a little hard to see .

Oky, the base of my theory still applies but with this new info i have something else to say . Idk, if you heard this before but they say that you can find out what kind of man someone is by looking at who they marry . So does your dad like surrounding himself with weak people ? Does he enjoy being the dominant one ? How is your mothers character ? So what I'm thinking is that maybe your dad likes feeling superior by surrounding himself to weak people. Therefore he would benefit by you being unemployed and dependent on him . I say this because, why wouldn't they help you ? Its not enough to say get a job . In fact that is kind of an insult . Its obvious that you have a problem and you can't solve it by just saying get a job . The thing that i find weird is why don't they get you a job where they work , or where your aunt works, or where a friend works, or maybe they know someone who can give your a job. Or why don't they really sit down and help you, it sounds like they have the money to do it . Since they can afford to pay for your apartment . Why can they say lets go solve this , lets go to a therapist. come live with us for a couple of months and well get you some therapeutic help . This is just a wild guess.... I hope it helps ... But its hard to really give you help since i don't know your history or family .

Wow this is beautiful !

I think this question is very important ----> How do your parents benefit from you being unemployed ? Usually people can't answer that question because its hidden and invisible to them , while it is obvious to others. Think about that . I think that you should, work on yourself to understand that question . And consider moving out. They may be the problem, that is my suspicion . Why haven't they helped you find what is wrong with you? To me it seems like they may be benefiting in some way . Good parents would have asked whats wrong and tried to help you get a job , or skills that will get you a job . And remember that criticism sometimes is used to make the person critizising feel better about themselves . It is rarely used to help others , because when it is used to help others we wouldn't call it criticism but advice . When i criticizes someone i love I'm very gentile about it and think about it allot before doing it . and they never say i criticizes them they call it advice . I hope this helps . Im so sorry to hear that . : ( , you should be enjoying life

Yeah, thats exactly what i was talking about. It seems like a recurring theme i see in stories, movies, and people . Yes , exactly . Yes, the parents should be the teachers but end up being the oppressors . I say the journey because, it shows me what I'm missing. It makes me feel emotional when i compare myself to others because i want to be like them and go on a "journey" . Its kind of like, if a prisoner sees a kid playing or a man enjoying life outside of his sell window. No i haven't read the poem, I'm going to search it up . I want to thank all the people who replied, as always it helps : )

Wow, thanks for your time and the link to the podcast . I do understand everything you wrote, we are lucky to be in this community . : )