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Kevin if it ends up being later in the afternoon I'll let you know . The only reason we are doing this one early is for mark who is in European time zone. But we usually do it later in the day, hopefully next week we can Skype

This one was last week. Tommarow Friday we are going to have another one around 10 am or whenever everyone is ready, I'll send you and IM on Skype to see if you are available

http://youtu.be/Z4KJ77Shppo

There's only a few that actually go on the forums good luck ! I think there are more that just listen

This issue has been bothering me lately. FDR covers many topics politics, philosophy, self-knowledge, parenting, etc... For about the last three years I have only focused on the self-knowledge side of things and away from politics/economics. Not to long ago I have been getting annoyed by most anarchist/libertarians. I think this is because they don't seem to understand that the State is a reflection of the home. By beating your kids physically or emotionally you are only conditioning them to be beaten by the State. Libertarians wonder why most of the population does nothing when the State lies to them. Well what is that a reflection of? Anyways I stopped following allot of Libertarians on Facebook (i won't name any names). Some of the reasons are that they are religious, or believe in hitting children and/or praise some form of child abuse. To me these people seem totally bigoted, because they complain about people being Statist when they support the very thing that causes statism. (Assuming statism is caused by child abuse) Anyways. What is the point of being libertarian if you are religious or support child abuse???? I might be looking at this incorrectly, but when stef talked about Carl Marks and how much of a bigot he was (his beliefs didn't match his personal life) it all of a sudden connected! These people are kind of like Carl in a way. Anyways let me know what you think. I might be missing something.

Hey, I live in LA also I've been trying to meet up with people thought freedomain radio meet ups but the group doesn't seem to be active . We should meet up or at least start a meet up group that is active.

March 20, 2014 Unofficial listener conversations. If you find a good time stamp please post it on the chat so i could add it. I didnt have 3hrs to listen to everything. Feel free to Subscribe to my channel http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_f43ZvMEjtI Its currently Processing! It might not be viewable to some until it is fully processed.

Where not friends anymore on fb, But i feel curious at the moment, and bad after.

By alpha male jealousy i mean that normal guys are jealous at the alpha male. In this case Justin. I agree with you totally. I felt hated when i posted this topic, i really started thinking i was doing something wrong. Then after hearing stef talking about i got re assurance. Right i seen this happen, its so primitive it reminds me of National Geographic.

She gave me BS reasons to break up and then a few months later found another guy. She said she didnt have time but then she found another guy. The person did stop liking me and idk if the truth would actually help me feel better. I think you are right, it is normal i know its not just me doing this. To me closure in a relationship is ----> • a feeling that an emotional or traumatic experience has been resolved: --------------------------------------------------------------------------- I think that you are right in the sense that closure is unreachable, i have to get it myself (from within) . So i think i have to have closure with myself .

A while back I posed a thread http://board.freedomainradio.com/topic/38435-why-do-guys-hate-justin-beaver-so-badly/?hl=justin About why guys hate on justin B . It got allot of negative comments and then stef posted some videos on this. He also got allot of negative ratings and comments. People told me this isn't a philosophical topic. After the dust settled can we admit there is some alpha male jealousy ?

Could it be that I didn't get closure ?

To be honest I'm not sure , why do people in general do this ?

I quoted Nathon for his last statement . Last sentence I miss read yours sorry

Ok, Im sorry if i painted a picture that isn't true. I don't need a relationship lets make that clear. I want one because i think it will make life richer. You guys make it sound like its a crime to want a relationship. I had opportunities to get into relationships but i didn't. If I thought having a relationship was necessary for my happiness i would have gotten into random ones even if the female was unhealthy. I have thought about this, am i looking for another mom in a relationship, and i would argue and say no . Because i have done allot of self work with FDR, I haven't had a relationship in years... not because i couldn't but because i choose not to. I didn't feel ready at the time and i had confusion about what is beauty and what is love and what i want in a relationship.

Sorry, Sorry... I know how this feels I had a very similar break up . : ( Frankly I think she is full of BS and gave the typical excuses to break up . What exactly does I'm not sexually attacked to you mean? She thought you where a smart loving guy but you just don't tickle her pickle. (thats extremely shallow && and rude to you ) And when a girl or guy says i need time thats already a bad sign. If you need time don't go looking for relationships or don't get into relationships in the first place. At least in my humble opinion. This happened to me, i had a girlfriend who said we don't have time to go out and spend much time. Its hard to meet up because we don't drive yet. Im going to college and I'm not going to have time. I confronted her and said yes we do have time, and we could go out this week...etc This went on for a few weeks then she broke up with me. So when people say i don't have time to spend time with you, just confront them and ask then why are we in this relationship. Again I'm sorry this happened, but at least its a learning experience. Just by listening to what you have to say about this experience, Im sure you can find someone else and have a healthy relationship.

Ill try that, great advise thanks. It has gotten really bad lately : ( And i don't know if i could be happy without a love relationship, i think that i could if i try hard but there would be something missing.

Its so weird i just went back to check and they have a meet up tomorrow, Ill see how it goes ! and post back What do you mean ? lol

I really want to make new friends. I tried fdr meet ups but they are not active at the moment. Anyways I tried joining a soccer group on meet up but the same problem, they are not active. Does anyone else have this problem ? I feel like starting this thread to get advice and maybe share what has worked for me if anything in the future. I also joined swimming classes in the past but not much luck , i did get to socialize and meet some people but nothing really serious outside the course. After isolating myself for the past years && dropping past relationships I feel ready to go out there in the world again.

We should voice chat asap ! i need some content for my youtube channel

This might be a cliché but how do you stop thinking about your ex girlfriend(s)? I think the reason for going back is that i haven't had any luck with relationships, especially after FDR! (lol) What i think ends up happening is that my body or penis tries to go back where it could.... you know. I hate having these thoughts in my head, its almost an obsession. Sometimes i click on her Facebook just to see her picture. Which is very stupid and it gets me mad because this relationships was so bad and it will never work. Buttttt this keeps happening. how and why ???!?

Don't worry about it this is what the forum is for.

She sound like a "nice girl" but with a very big problem. She can't express herself physically. **** (which is not a little problem) OR You can't express yourself either! because you are the man in the relationship not that I'm into all this cultural stuff but thats how relationships work. A thing that I find odd is that you say you can talk to her about all these topics and she receives them well. Then why can't you talk to her about your problem with the relationship. If you did, what was her response? I think thats an important thing that wasn't specified in the post. Also what would happen if you just hold her hand or hug her and kiss her ? what is holding you back ? (Im not trying to insult you I'm genuinely curious because i had this happen to me before in a past relationship) If your going to stay your going to have to work hard on this, start asking question and if she responds well to your concerns then i would say give it a shot! Good luck i hope everything works out. : ) ------------------------------------- One side note : I noticed that allot of people seem to respond well to philosophy but that could just be them conforming to the moment. Look for action, if she acts upon the philosophy then that mean she is listening. (if she agrees) Allot of women can be "Yes Men " because they are thought to not rock the boat, just agree.

The story's are actually diffrent but I'm guessing the style of writing is the same. Like in the show there was dictatorship but then they realized that doesn't work so they kind of turned it into a democracy .

Im currently in spring break, so i started jogging and working out with pull-up bars/ monkey bars. It made me feel happy i was depressed this year but i feel better. I made allot of changes like i dropped classes that i didnt like and started working out as i mentioned. My main question is how important is exercise to the brain. Should we always find time to exercise. (despite having a busy schedule) Sometimes i wonder if great people exercised. (intellectuals & innovators)