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Wow ! Thanks for posting this, I feel lots of anger towards this video because its a true interpretation of my mother. Well the disney version

Yeah it was a great conversation, its rare for me to talk to great people like you guys ! I just realized that the video cut off !!! Ill have to put the rest in another video sorry Part 2: Currently its processing by the time you click on it it would most likely be complete. Let me know your experience of the video! Thank you https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SmQYeUjfWIg&feature=youtu.be

This is how my Macbook defines it infantilize |ˈinfəntlˌīz, inˈfan-| verb [ withobj.&nbsp]treat (someone) as a child or in a way that denies their maturity in age or experience:seeing yourself as a victim infantilizes you. Here is a video link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yJGGZS04Uus

Yeah I'll try to find that, this only applied to gays btw I don't think anyone could explain bisexuality yet . Keep in mine I'm not an expert

Great observation I have noticed this also with the films ! The Matrix , office space , fight club, american beauty.. all came around the same year Well the films have a theme about breaking from the system.

This will help manny people, I couldn't really find anything on the forums about this subject. l

A form of abuse. I did a search and couldn't find anything . Thanks Ivan

For me personally I liked it but then when I seen that some female fdr listeners felt uncomfortable it made me also feel uncomfortable. But then people pointed out to me that the reason they feel uncomfortable is because they might feel guilty. So then I changed my mind I was trying to control the reaction females had because I wanted more females to listen to the show but that was my own selfish thought, it had nothing to do with the truth. (managing feeling of females = managing feeling of inner mother ) I don't mind these videos because people shouldn't feel bad if they are not guilty. And they are true observations. When stef talks about things like race or culture it doesn't affect me because i don't identify with my culture or race, I didnt choose them. I feel like sex is one of those you don't choose your sex. Also if you are not guilty you shouldn't feel uncomfortable. This video is related to this post and how i felt. Oversensitive

I think its rare. Almost impossible. Someone is going to like the other person . If the girl is more attractive then the guy likes her. If the guy is more attractive then the girl likes her. If both are unattractive then they both should like each other. If both are attractive then they both should like each other. If you are a friend it means you like each others company and you value their thoughts so why wouldn't you like the other person if you find them attractive?

right i can't at the moment i might have to wait a few days

Here is a dream i just had I'm going to try and write it down as detailed as possible before it slips my mind. I have no idea what it means. I was driving with my cousin and I went to the bank. I was parked probably coming from withdrawing some money i can't really recall . It was night the sun wasn't out. My side of the window was closed and my cousins side was cracked open a little bit. All of a sudden these two guys pop up. One of the guys pops his shaved down shot gun through the window. Pointing it it at us. This is weird but i think at this moment my friend from elementary school is in the car and not my cousin any more. The guys with the gun are demanding everything and for some reason i had allot of valuable stuff in my car my backpack with my computer, my iPad (i usually have it in there for school) and some money. I was scared and about to hand them the money and maybe the valuables if they ask. But my friend gently touched the barrel of the gun and said calm down guy we will give you everything. Something like that i can't recall but out of the corner of my eye i see a little gun in the car and i see my friend reaching for it. It was a mini revolver, comically small. My friend then shoves their gun to the side and tries to reach for the gun but can't. This is when the guys should have killed us but then i take out a silver desert eagle its felt very heavy in my had. I shoot the guy with the gun about 4-5 time i can't recall then i shoot the other guy but he is running away, i think i missed. All of a sudden i see a bunch of peoples faces. They are looking at me like a criminal and look disappointed. This is when i say we need to get the fuck out of here and drive off taking some suburban streets, into this rotten broken down home or warehouse. I feel scared because i was driving my moms car and i knew they would come after my mom.I felt scared at the criticism. But i don't care much because it just happened there is nothing i can do. Mini revolver http://whichgun.com/img/blog-posts/california-women-confuses-naa-mini-revolver-with-cigarette-lighter/naa-mini-revolver.jpg Desert eagle http://www.special-ops.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/IMI-Desert-Eagle-pistol.jpg Sawed of shotgun http://images2.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20080916232726/fallout/images/a/a1/FO3_sawed-off_shotgun.JPG Im not a gun person but for some reason these guns popped up in my head I never killed anyone in my dreams either, I'm never a bad ass or anything this is why this dream seems important to me.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7c4uLWeEMKo Alt J

Sorry I forgot to provide those details Here is a link with the size in pixels https://support.google.com/youtube/answer/2972003?hl=en

If you are interested in designing a cool Cover art for my youtube channel Ill give $15 if I like what you did and use it for my channel. Guidelines -The ART to be the perfect size -Self-Knowlege themed , empathy, tenderness, and truth -Simplicity and Quality Also it would help if you know what i talk about, a recurring theme is isolation and introversion but that isn't what i want to focus on I talk about childhood and how it affected me as a person. I open up allot. Feel free to watch some of the videos i think it would help in getting ideas on what to design Here is my current art : https://www.youtube.com/user/selfknowledgebot/feed Size of ART: https://support.google.com/youtube/answer/2972003?hl=en I will pay with pay pal, I don't have bit coin.

I think the point of the Justin B videos are to show the jealousy and general hate. I don't think most people think he is a saint. Getting cought up in the logical consistency to me is missing the point of the videos. I don't think stef made the videos to defend a pop star.

I read the whole thing and I want to say that I really feel you even though I'm not in that situation. Its a really hard one because you don't really want to interact with your brother but its also hard to reject him. It seems like he is bullying you with the fact that you don't want to reject him. Also one thing that i want to point out from the text i don't know exactly all the details but I have to ask why can't you tell your brother no or why can't your husband tell your brother that he doesn't like the way he is treating you. "Around me you respect her we had plans and we are being nice by letting you in so don't be rude to her" Its really a hard situation just know that even if it goes "bad" you will have something to reflect on. I think your husband is correct in a sense to say lets see what happens and we will act accordingly next time.Like setting boundaries or whatever needs to be done so you don't feel this way. I really hope that in the future you don't have to be in situations like this.

Go for it! It wasn't a question just me sharing experience but that would be cool if you talk about it. Right, thanks for clearing it up. I think there are women out there that can have semi deep conversations they don't have to open themselves up on the internet but at least right more than one word. Hahah people always tell me i remind them of someone and every time its completely different people. Right i see what you are saying it seems all to make sense especial about the generic message i would send. Its not all that bad because some girls would message me with one word only. But if my message is shallow it would be more likely to attract those types. At the time i thought it wast but now that you point it out it kinda seems that way.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V7nCJ0DxsGo

Right, that makes sense, well i didnt say that all the time but thats interesting i never really looked at it that way . I tried different approaches. Ill try something less generic and redundant.

No I thought about it allot, i have a theory. Thanks, Im going to try the drawing, i journal on my iPad and laptop maybe that is constraining. But I'm going to start a new notebook journal and add drawings Thanks for the reply I actually thought about that I think you are correct about my environment i need to get away ! I feel paralyzed sometimes, joint to a Starbucks or a park is hard. Also i feel like taking notes throughout the day is smarter because you get to write down things in the moment you don't really have to think hard about what to write since its not to far away.

Thanks for your tips! The usual message that i would send would be something like Hi my name is Ivan, I like **** about your profile. "then i would say i would like to know them better" Yeah I didnt use this picture for the dating site i had about pictures some that other people took. I had better pictures, i usually style my hair when its longer this is a recent picture when i just got a buzz cut. Yes i did want to arrange dates asap because i don't like too much online chatting. Thanks for your support : ) Yeah whenever i make myself vulnerable i get attacked. I think your right on the exposure to the right people and doing something different. I just recently started asking girls out that I'm actually interested in , before i use to ask girls who i knew i wouldn't get rejected. Thanks for the reply Thanks, yeah i feel the same way i know its going to be hard to find a rational girl but I'm trying ! I don't like the online thing i feel like its 0.01% chance of finding someone rational online. When i think about it those interest don't really matter i think the most important thing is to find someone with self-knowledge and rationality. Religion is mostly cultural most people are just conforming. If they could think you could probably talk them out of it. This is the reason why i don't like chatting online, online dating should be a place that helps people meet and where they could meet in person. I don't agree with the vague messages i can't stand it ! I don't think its a test. I want dept in my relationships and if they can't keep a conversation i doubt they can keep a serious relationship. Thanks ill check it out if i ever decide to do online dating again.

Can you make sense of his posts ? I got the feeling he is just trying to put me down

Thanks i read that page and it cleared things up. It was very detailed.

Ok i understand what you said I'm just a little confused in the middle with the P -> Q. But thats ok, I feel like the conversation got of topic and too complex. Frankly im to tired to keep up with it.