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Bienvenido Hector : ) Uste piensa que en Chile ay mas libertad comperado a los estados unidos ? Munchas personas dicen que si ? Estoi confundido.. Qual fue tu primer video que vites de Freedomain Radio? Sorry for my bad grammar .

Thanks for sharing that , I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I also have panic attacks and I'm "timid". I can empathize with you. If I were your bf it would be totally different. I hope some day you find a great guy. Yeah , well my mother always told me not to "bother" other people . If a kid stole my stuff, she would let them because she didn't want to "bother" . Whenever someone gave me a gift or asked if i wanted something , i would always say no . I never knew why , but eventually i found out that she would tell me to so no . She made me feel guiltily when i would have fun. She never supported me in anything , never care for any of my needs. Basically she thought me that everyone except me is important. So i translated that into my friendships , i would just have friends who didn't care for me , and i only cared for their needs . Yeah , i don't think its applied directly. For example you can get the template from your mother or father, or uncle ,etc... any care giver that you see as a role model when you are a child . How where your girlfriends ? (in general ) Yeah , i think that good people don't look for broken people. so in that case no one is going to come to save you . For example would you date a drug addict to try and save them ? ( i know you won't ) So yes i agree no one is coming to save us , and most of the time we are searching for a parent figure . Thanks for the post

Great point : ) They also make fun of this on popular TV shows !

I was doing some thinking and Journaling lately. I came up with this idea. Lets discuss it. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I noticed that in my own relationships I ended up with friends who only take from me and never give. The relationships eventually ended when i decided to ask for things. I knew that this could be traced back to my childhood, my parents always cared about others feelings more than mine. So I started people watching, I noticed that people usually date there parents. So a guy who is bully or a dominate alfa usually goes for the weak female. This goes both ways, the strong female CEO can go for the boy toy, who is usually weak and prettier than her. (Its hard to understand why someone who is strong would be attracted to someone who is weak) But if you look at the parents relationships i think the answer will pop out. I never read this anywhere but I think I heard it before in freedman radio. Is our template of what a relationship is formed in our childhood? (I'm almost sure it is) With my own experience, before I processed the abuse I had as a child . I always found relationships and friendships where, my needs are never addressed. I found one way relationships. (only give & no receive) I find it sad and so obvious now, when I see these types of relationships in the street. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I bet this is why they say opposites attract. Let me know your thoughts. I would really appreciate them .

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vxF1fQHLBck

True, good people attract good people.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bVL7Kl99bW0&feature=youtu.be

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2moL0Pf8ZzA&feature=youtu.be If you guys want to see more videos like this one please subscribe to my youtube channel. It will really help me, get my videos on top when people search for the topics. Any feedback and advice is gratefully taken . : )

I found this interesting .

I know this might be lousy question, but what do you wear for an interview like that . Since its not a big deal? and any general tips ?

I agree, its an interesting country and culture . I want to hear about the culture. it seems that the french people feel entitled more than the American culture.

What is the group for ? I will join,

Hey miked, thanks for the feedback . It was very detailed and I agree of course. I accidentally skipped over some of the detail i had written down .. But thanks for the in-depth response . : )

I put some time in this. I would love some feedback. Thanks for reading. : ) http://youtu.be/Cqjp9AiNfTs

The resume is attached bellow. ----------------------------------------

Thanks that clears things up . I do have some goals , like being happy .. But I understand now that my values are different and i shouldn't confuse values with goals. thanks again : )

I do this allot, I remember stef talking a little about it . But it is still something that I'm confused on . There are two sides. (maybe ) 1. don't compare yourself to anyone , do your own thing. 2. compare yourself to others to see if you are stagnating, and or give yourself an idea of where you are. When i do it, it gets me pumped up and i want to get out there and enjoy life. But then i realize I'm stuck in a rut then I end up felling bad. Most people around my age are at least enjoying there life. (20's)

Excellent point, I never thought about it that way. Thanks

This is what i think stef will say . -------------------------------------------------------------------- I don't think there is a moral case to make on this . Its voluntary of course. But i would really question the persons need or want , to watch this. Do they not have negotiation skills to get a real women ? Do they prefer porn to a real women ? All these are important questions. --------------------------------------------------------------

Thanks for that. I will definitely keep that in mind when making my decisions. I still have time to think this over... Thanks for your reply and advice

This conversation got deeper than i ever expected. Wow. Thanks

Yeah, that was the main reason i wanted to do this. There are so many great conversations but people usually want a video to watch when they are researching things like this. I doubt they will really go into forums and read every reply . -------------- thanks for the reply

I have been experimenting with youtube, and I recently came up with an idea. Please tell me what you think. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Im thinking of doing video responses to questions posted on the forum. I feel ambivalent about it. Sometimes I feel that allot of the questions asked (personal/family) can help others that don't listen to FDR. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- How can I benefit from this ? Im trying to improve my speaking skills. (this can help) It can help others. It might make a few cents if i get views. (in the future) ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Right on point .

Thanks for all the replies. @Alan - I'm talking about the pop star . I think the question was framed wrong when i wrote "guys" i generalized ... Most of the people who hate him are not FDR listeners ... they are mostly other kids around his age. But i was curious because he has lots of haters , i would say in the millions . ----------------- and , i learned that there are allot of reasons why people don't like him not a main one. ( by reading your replies, thanks again) The way i see it, is that yeah he might seem rude . But i never would of heard about him if it wasn't for all the people hating him.. I found about him while listening to a TED talk , a little kid made an iPhone app which was targeted to justin bevier haters ... So then that name kept poping up in the news... death threats and what not ... and thats when i thought it would be interesting to ask this question .... and some people here actually got mad. Which is interesting